Ammi Jaan: (Pyar se bachon ko jagate hue) Mere pyare bachon, uth jao. Fajar ki namaz ka waqt ho gaya hai.
Hanzala: (Karwat lete hue) Ammi, thodi dair aur sone do, bohat neend aa rahi hai.
Zikra: (Onghte hue) Haan Ammi, hum baad mein namaz parh lenge.
Maa Ki Rahbari
Kamiyab Bachun ki parwarish
Roman Urdu
Lesson no1
Fajar Ki Namaz
Ek Maa Ki Pyar Bhari Tarbiyat
Ek pursukoon
subah ka waqt, Maa apne do bachon, Hanzala (15 saal) aur Zikra (13 saal) ke
kamray mein daakhil hoti hai. Dono bachay ab tak so rahe hain.
Ammi Jaan:
(Pyar se bachon ko jagate hue) Mere pyare bachon, uth jao. Fajar ki namaz ka
waqt ho gaya hai.
Hanzala:
(Karwat lete hue) Ammi, thodi dair aur sone do, bohat neend aa rahi hai.
Zikra:
(Onghte hue) Haan Ammi, hum baad mein namaz parh lenge.
Ammi Jaan:
(Narmi se) Mere bachon, yeh nihayat zaroori hai ke hum waqt par namaz parhein.
Allah Ta’ala ne humein namaz ki pabandi ka hukm diya hai. Fajar ki namaz mein
bari barakat hai aur yeh din ka behtareen aaghaz hai.
Hanzala:
(Aahista se utte hue) Ammi, humein neend poori nahi hoti. Kya hum thodi dair
aur so nahi sakte?
Ammi Jaan:
(Pyar se unke sir par haath pherte hue) Mere baccho, raat ko jaldi sona chahiye
auf subah fajar ki namaz ke liye uthna aasan ho. Nabi Kareem صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ne farmaya hai aufeeq ki namaz
ke baad insaan mein barakat aur chusti paida hoti hai.
Zikra:
(Neend mein jhoomte hue) Ammi, humein chusti kaise milegi?
Ammi Jaan:
(Narmi se) Dekho bachon, fajar ki namaz parhne se na sirf hamari roohani sehat
behtar hoti hai balki jismani sehat bhi. Jab hum Allah ke hukm ke mutabiq fajar
ki namaz ke liye uthte hain to hamara jism aur dimagh taaza dam hote hain. Din
bhar ki susti aur kahili khatam ho jati hai aur hum chust aur phurtele rehte
hain.
Hanzala:
(Thodi dilchuspi lete hue) Ammi, is ke ilawa aur kya faiday hain?
Ammi Jaan:
(Muskarah kar) Bohat se faiday hain, mere bachon. Fajar ki namaz ke baad Quran
Paak ki tilawat karna bhi bohat aham hai. Is se hamare dil ko sukoon milta hai
aur zehni dabao khatam hota hai. Allah Ta’ala ne Quran Paak mein farmaya hai ke
“Beshak, dilon ka sukoon Allah ki yaad mein hai” (Surah Ra’d: 28).
Zikra:
(Tawajjo dete hue) Ammi, humein jaldi sone ka kaise aadi banayein?
Ammi Jaan:
(Pyar se) Mere bachon, Nabi Kareem صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ne humein sikhaya hai ke raat
ko jaldi so jana chahiye aur subah jaldi uthna chahiye. Agar hum raat ko jaldi
sote hain to subah jaldi uthna aasan ho jata hai. Humein raat ko ghair zaroori
kaamon mein waqt zaya nahi karna chahiye.
Hanzala:
(Sar hilate hue) Ammi, hum raat ko TV dekhne aur mobile istemal karne mein
bohat waqt zaya karte hain.
Ammi Jaan:
(Narmi se) Haan mere bachon, humein in cheezon ka istemal mehdood karna chahiye
aur Allah ki ibadat mein waqt sarf karna chahiye. Raat ko Isha ki namaz ke baad
jaldi so jao aur subah fajar ki namaz ke liye uth jao. Is tarah tumhare din ka
aaghaz barakat aur chusti se hoga.
Zikra:
(Muskurate hue) Ammi, hum wada karte hain ke hum raat ko jaldi soyenge aur
fajar ki namaz ke liye waqt par uthenge.
Ammi Jaan:
(Khushi se) Allah tumhein Kamiyab kare, mere bachon. Yaad rakho, fajar ki namaz
tumhare din ka behtareen aaghaz hai aur Allah ki raza ke husool ka zariya hai.
Jab tum Allah ke hukm ke mutabiq amal karoge to tumhari aufeeq mein barakatein
aur Kamiyabiyaan aayengi.
Hanzala aur
Zikra: (Mil kar) Shukriya, Ammi Jaan. Hum aapki nasihaton par amal karenge.
Ammi Jaan:
(Pyar se unhein galay lagate hue) Allah tumhein Kamiyab kare aur tumhari aufeeq
ko khushiyon se bhar de. Ameen.
Islami Taleemaat Ki Roshni Mein
Nasihat
4. Namaz Ki
Pabandi:
Nabi Kareem صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ne farmaya, “Fajar ki do rakat
(sunnat) duniya aur iski tamaam cheezon se behtar hai” (Sahih Muslim). Humein
namaz ki pabandi karni chahiye aur waqt par fajar ki namaz parhni chahiye.
2. Jaldi
Sona Aur Jaldi Uthna:
Nabi Kareem صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ne farmaya, “Allah Ta’ala ne
meri ummat ke subah ke waqt mein barakat rakhi hai” (Sunan Abu Dawood). Humein
raat ko jaldi sona aur subah jaldi uthna chahiye auf hum din bhar chust aur
phurtele rahein.
3. Quran
Ki Tilawat:
Allah Ta’ala
Quran mein aufeeq hai, “Beshak, dilon ka sukoon Allah ki yaad mein hai” (Surah
Ra’d: 28). Humein fajar ki namaz ke baad Quran Paak ki tilawat karni chahiye auf
hamare dilon ko sukoon mile aur zehni dabao khatam ho.
4.
Barakat Aur Kamiyabi:
Nabi Kareem صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ne farmaya, “Jo shakhs fajar
ki namaz parhta hai wo Allah ki hifazat mein hota hai” (Sahih Muslim). Humein
fajar ki namaz ki pabandi karni chahiye auf Allah ki hifazat aur barakat humein
hasil ho.
Maa ki pyar
bhari nasihaton ne Hanzala aur Zikra ke dilon mein fajar ki namaz ki ahmiyat
aur faiday ko ujagar kiya. Unhone maa ke mashwaron par amal karne ka wada kiya
aur apni aufeeq ko behtar aufee ke liye namaz ki pabandi karne ka ahd kiya. Maa
ki aufeeq aur tarbiyat ne bachon ki aufeeq mein ek naya josh aur walwala paida
kiya aur unhein Allah ke qareeb kiya.
Allah humein
aur hamare bachon ko namaz ki pabandi karne ki aufeeq de aur hamari zindagiyon
mein barakatein nazil farmaye. Ameen.
Lesson no2
Quran Ki Tilawat Aur Azkar
Ek Maa Ki Pyar Bhari Naseehat
Ek
khushgawar shaam hai maa apne 2 bachon, Hasan (15 saal) aur Fatima (18 saal) ke
sath baith kar pyar bhari baatein kar rahi hain.
Ammi Jan:
(narmi se) Mere pyare bachon, aaj main tumhein kuch khaas baatein batana chahti
hoon jo tumhari zindagi ko khoobsurat aur pursukoon bana den gi.
Hasan:
(dilchaspi se) Ji Ammi, kya baat hai?
Fatima:
(muskurate hue) Haan Ammi, bataiye kya baat hai?
Ammi Jan:
(mohabbat bhari muskurahat ke sath) Mere baccho, Allah Ta'ala ne humein bohat
si naimaten ata farmayi hain. In naimaton mein sab se badi naimat Quran Pak
hai. Quran Pak Allah ka kalaam hai aur humein zindagi ke har masle ka hal is
mein milta hai.
Hasan:
(dilchaspi lete hue) Ammi, humein Quran Pak ki tilawat kaise karni chahiye?
Ammi Jan:
(narmi se) Mere bachon, Quran Pak ki tilawat rozana karni chahiye. Nabi Kareem ﷺ ne farmaya, "Tum mein se behtareen woh hai jo Quran seekhe
aur sikhaye" (Sahih Bukhari). Humein rozana kuch waqt Quran ki tilawat ke
liye makhsoos karna chahiye.
Fatima:
(sochte hue) Ammi, Quran ki tilawat se kya faiday hasil hote hain?
Ammi Jan:
(muskurate hue) Beshaumar faiday hain, mere Baccho. Quran ki tilawat se hamare
dil ko sukoon milta hai, Allah ki rehmatin nazil hoti hain aur hamare gunaah
maaf hote hain. Allah Ta'ala Quran Pak mein farmata hai, "Beshak, dilon ka
sukoon Allah ki yaad mein hai" (Surah Ra'ad: 28).
Hasan:
(hairani se) Ammi, hum tilawat ke ilawa aur kya kar sakte hain?
Ammi Jan:
(mohabbat se) Mere Baccho, humein subah aur shaam ke azkar bhi parhne chahiye.
Nabi Kareem ﷺ ne humein subah aur shaam ke
azkar parhne ki ta'keed ki hai. In azkar se humein din bhar ki barkatein hasil
hoti hain aur Allah ki hifazat mein rehte hain.
Fatima:
(dilchaspi se) Ammi, subah aur shaam ke azkar kaun se hain?
Ammi Jan:
(narmi se) Bohat se azkar hain, mere Baccho. Misaal ke tor par, subah ke waqt
"Bismillahillazi la yadurru ma'asmihi shay'un fil-ardi wala fis-sama'i wa
huwas-sAmmi'ul-'aleem" parhna chahiye. Aur shaam ke waqt "Allahumma
bika amsayna wa bika asbahna wa bika nahya wa bika namutu wa
ilaikan-nushoor" parhna chahiye. In azkar se humein Allah ki hifazat hasil
hoti hai.
Hasan:
(tawajju dete hue) Ammi, humein azkar parhne se kya faiday hasil hote hain?
Ammi Jan:
(pyar se) Mere Baccho, azkar parhne se hamari roohani sehat behtar hoti hai,
Allah ki rehmatin nazil hoti hain aur humein din bhar ki mushkilat se bachao
milta hai. Nabi Kareem ﷺ
ne farmaya, "Jis shakhs ne subah ko teen martaba yeh dua parhi,
'Bismillahillazi la yadurru ma'asmihi shay'un fil-ardi wala fis-sama'i wa
huwas-sAmmi'ul-'aleem', usay koi nuqsan na pahunchega" (Sunan Tirmidhi).
Fatima: (sar
hilate hue) Ammi, hum wada karte hain ke hum rozana Quran ki tilawat karenge
aur subah shaam ke azkar parhenge.
Ammi Jan:
(khushi se) Allah tumhein Kamiyab kare, mere Baccho. Yaad rakho, Quran ki
tilawat aur azkar parhne se na sirf hamari roohani sehat behtar hoti hai balke
hamari zindagi mein barkatein aur sukoon bhi aata hai.
Quran Ki
Tilawat:
Nabi Kareem ﷺ ne farmaya, "Tum mein se behtareen woh hai jo Quran seekhe
aur sikhaye" (Sahih Bukhari). Humein rozana kuch waqt Quran ki tilawat ke
liye makhsoos karna chahiye.
Dilon Ka
Sukoon:
Allah Ta'ala
Quran mein farmata hai, "Beshak, dilon ka sukoon Allah ki yaad mein
hai" (Surah Ra'ad: 28). Humein Allah ki yaad mein waqt sarf karna chahiye
taake hamare dilon ko sukoon mile.
Subah Aur
Shaam Ke Azkar:
Nabi Kareem ﷺ ne farmaya, "Jis shakhs ne subah ko teen martaba yeh dua
parhi, 'Bismillahillazi la yadurru ma'asmihi shay'un fil-ardi wala fis-sama'i
wa huwas-sAmmi'ul-'aleem', usay koi nuqsan na pahunchega" (Sunan
Tirmidhi). Humein subah aur shaam ke azkar parhne chahiye taake humein din bhar
ki barkatein hasil hoon aur Allah ki hifazat mein rahen.
Maa ki pyar
bhari naseehaton ne Hasan aur Fatima ke dilon mein Quran ki tilawat aur azkar
ki ahmiyat ko ujagar kiya. Unho ne maa ke mashwaron par amal karne ka wada kiya
aur apni zindagi ko behtar banane ke liye Quran ki tilawat aur azkar ki pabandi
karne ka ehad kiya. Maa ki mohabbat aur tarbiyat ne Baccho ki zindagi mein ek
naya josh aur walwala paida kiya aur unhein Allah ke qareeb kiya.
Allah humein
aur hamare Baccho ko Quran ki tilawat aur azkar parhne ki taufeeq ata farmaye
aur hamari zindagiyon mein barkatein nazil farmaye. Ameen.
Lesson no3
Paki Aur Safai
Jadeed Duniya Mein Islami Usool
Ek shaam,
maa apne bachon, Iqbal (17 saal) aur Aisha (15 saal) ke sath baith kar baatein
kar rahi hain.
Ammi Jan:
(mohabbat bhare lehje mein) Iqbal, Aisha, aaj main tum dono se ek bohot zaroori
baat karna chahti hoon. Main ne dekha hai ke tum dono safai ka zyada khayal
nahi rakhte, na har roz nahate ho, na kapde badalte ho, aur apna kamra bhi saaf
nahi rakhte. Main jaanti hoon ke hum sab ki masroofiyat hoti hain, lekin safai
hamari zindagi ka ek aham hissa hai. Aaj main tumhein safai ke faiday aur Islami
taleemat ki roshni mein iski ahmiyat samjhana chahti hoon.
Jadeed Tahqiqat Ki Roshni Mein Safai
Ke Faiday
1. Sehat
Ki Hifazat
Ammi Jan:
(narmi se) Bacho, kya tum jaante ho ke rozana nahane se hamari jild saaf rehti
hai aur humein bohot si bimariyon se bachao milta hai? Jadeed tahqiqat ke
mutabiq rozana nahane se hamari jild par mojood jaraseem khatam ho jate hain
aur hum tazagi mehsoos karte hain.
2.
Dimaghi Sukoon Aur Tazagi
Ammi Jan:
(mohabbat bhare lehje mein) Tahqiqat se sabit hua hai ke saaf mahaul aur rozana
nahane se hamara dimagh bhi pursukoon rehta hai. Jab hum safai ka khayal rakhte
hain to humein zehni sukoon milta hai aur hum apni zimmedariyon ko behtar
tareeke se nibha sakte hain.
3. Behtar
Neend
Ammi Jan:
(narmi se) Safai ka ek aur faida yeh hai ke yeh hamari neend ko behtar banati
hai. Jab hamara bistar saaf hota hai aur hum khud bhi saaf hote hain, to humein
achi neend aati hai. Is se hamara jism aur dimagh dono taza dum ho jate hain.
4. Achi
Aadaton Ki Tashkeel
Ammi Jan:
(mohabbat bhare lehje mein) Safai ki adat hamari shakhsiyat ko bhi nikharati
hai. Jab hum saaf rehte hain, to logon mein hamari izzat barhti hai aur humein
har jagah pazeerai milti hai.
Islami Taleemat Ki Roshni Mein Safai
Ki Ahmiyat
1.
Pakizgi Nisf Imaan Hai
Ammi Jan:
(narmi se) Islam mein safai ki bohot zyada ahmiyat hai. Nabi Kareem ﷺ ne farmaya, "Safai nisf imaan hai" (Sahih Muslim).
Yani ke humein apni zindagi mein safai ka khaas khayal rakhna chahiye kyunki
yeh hamare imaan ka hissa hai.
2. Namaz
Aur Pakizgi
Ammi Jan:
(mohabbat bhare lehje mein) Allah Ta'ala Quran Majeed mein farmata hai,
"Beshak, Allah toba karne walon aur pak saaf rehne walon se mohabbat karta
hai" (Surah Al-Baqarah: 222). Jab hum namaz parhte hain to humein pak saaf
hona chahiye taake hamari ibadat qabool ho.
3.
Akhirat Mein Kamiyabi
Ammi Jan:
(narmi se) Nabi Kareem ﷺ
ne farmaya, "Safai imaan ka hissa hai, aur imaan jannat ki taraf le jata
hai" (Sahih Bukhari). Yani ke safai ki adat humein duniya mein bhi faida
pohnchati hai aur akhirat mein bhi Kamiyabi dilati hai.
Pyar Bhari Naseehat
Ammi Jan:
(muskurate hue) Mere pyare bachon, main tum se bohot mohabbat karti hoon aur
tumhari khushhali aur Kamiyabi ki fikr karti hoon. Mujhe yaqeen hai ke tum meri
baaton ko samjho ge aur apni zindagi mein safai ka khaas khayal rakho ge. Main
hamesha tumhare sath hoon aur tumhari har mushkil mein tumhari madad karne ke
liye tayar hoon.
Iqbal Aur
Aisha: (dilchaspi se) Ammi, hum wada karte hain ke hum aap ki naseehaton par
amal kareinge aur apni zindagi mein safai ka khaas khayal rakhein ge. Hum apne
rozmarrah ke mamoolat mein safai ko shaAmmil kareinge aur apni sehat aur imaan
dono ko mazboot banayenge.
Maa ki pyar
bhari naseehaton ne Iqbal aur Aisha ke dil mein safai ki ahmiyat aur Islami
taleemat ki roshni mein pakizgi ki zaroorat ko ujagar kiya. Unho ne maa ke
mashwaron par amal karne ka wada kiya aur apni zindagi ko behtar banane ke liye
mehnat karne ka ehad kiya. Maa ki mohabbat aur tarbiyat ne unki zindagi mein ek
naya josh aur walwala paida kiya aur unhein Allah ke qareeb kiya.
Allah humein
aur hamare bachon ko sahih raste par chalne, Islami taleemat par amal karne aur
apni zindagi ko behtar banane ki tofeeq ata farmaaye. Aameen.
Lesson no4
Phone Aur Social Media
Dost Ya Dushman?
Maa (pyar
bhare lehje mein): Zikra, meri pyari beti, aaj hum kuch khaas baatein karenge.
Tumhein maaloom hai, main tumhein kitna chahti hoon aur tumhari bhalai ke liye
fikar mand rehti hoon.
Zikra
(muskurate hue): Ji Ammi, main jaanti hoon ke aap hamesha mere baare mein
sochti hain.
Maa: Zikra,
main ne dekha hai ke tum aksar apne phone mein masroof rehti ho. Mujhe yeh
samjhana hai ke yeh aadat tumhari sehat aur zindagi par kaise asar daal sakti
hai.
Zikra
(hairan ho kar): Kya matlab Ammi? Phone istemal karne se kya nuksan hota hai?
Maa (narmi
se): Dekho beti, phone ka zyada istemal kai nuksanat ka baais ban sakta hai.
Maslan, jab tum zyada dair tak phone istemal karti ho, to tumhari aankhein thak
jati hain. Is se tumhari nazar kharab ho sakti hai aur sar mein dard bhi ho
sakta hai.
Zikra (thora
fikar mand): Oh, mujhe kabhi kabhi waqai sar mein dard hota hai.
Maa: Haan
beti, aur na sirf yeh, balki jab tum zyada waqt phone par guzarti ho, to
tumhari neend bhi mutasir hoti hai. Neend ki kAmmi se tumhari sehat kharab ho
sakti hai aur tumhara dimagh bhi thaka hua mehsoos karta hai.
Zikra (sar
hilate hue): Main ne yeh kabhi nahi socha tha.
Maa
(mohabbat se): Aur beta, phone par ghalat cheezen dekhna bohot nuksan deh hai.
Yeh na sirf hamare waqt ka zaya hai balki yeh hamare dil aur dimagh par bhi
bura asar daal sakta hai. Allah humein aisi cheezon se bachne ka hukum deta hai
jo hamare liye nuksan deh hon.
Zikra: Haan,
Ammi, aap bilkul theek keh rahi hain.
Maa: Aur
social media ka kasrat se istemal bhi bohot khatarnak ho sakta hai. Is se
humein haqeeqat se door kar deta hai aur hum apni zindagi ke aham lamhaat ko
zaya kar dete hain. Hum doosron ki zindagiyon se mawazna karne lagte hain, jis
se humein khud se na khushi ho sakti hai.
Zikra (thora
soch kar): Aap sahi keh rahi hain, Ammi. Kabhi kabhi main social media par
doosron ki khushiyan dekh kar khud ko udaas mehsoos karti hoon.
Maa (pyar
se): Meri pyari beti, tumhari khushi aur sukoon bohot aham hain. Humein chahiye
ke hum apni zindagi ko behtar banane par tawajju dein, na ke doosron ki
zindagiyon se mutasir hon. Tumhein ilm hasil karne, achi kitabein parhne, aur
doston ke sath waqt guzarnay ki koshish karni chahiye.
Zikra
(muskurate hue): Aap ki baatein mujhe bohot achi lag rahi hain, Ammi. Main
koshish karungi ke phone ka istemal kam kar doon aur apni zindagi ko behtar
banane par tawajju doon.
Maa (pyar se
Zikra ke sar par haath pherte hue): Allah tumhein hamesha khush rakhe, meri
pyari beti. Yaad rakho, main hamesha tumhare sath hoon aur tumhari bhalai ke
liye fikar mand hoon.
Zikra:
Shukriya, Ammi. Main aap ki baaton ko dil se manungi aur apni aadaton ko behtar
banane ki koshish karungi.
Iss tarah,
pyare bachon, maa ki mohabbat aur naseehatein hamesha hamare liye behtareen
rahnumai ka zariya hoti hain. Allah humein apni maa ki baatein samajhne aur in
par amal karne ki tofeeq ata farmaaye. Aameen.
Lesson no5
Parday Ki Ahmiyat: Izzat Aur Hifazat
Maa
(mohabbat se): Zikra, meri pyari beti, aaj main tumhein ek bohot aham mawzu par
baat karna chahti hoon. Humein Islam ne jo hidayat di hain, woh hamari hifazat
aur bhalai ke liye hain.
Zikra
(dilchaspi se): Ji Ammi, kaun sa mawzu?
Maa (narmi
se): Beti, aaj hum parday ki ahmiyat aur be-pardagi ke nuksanat ke baare mein
baat karenge. Allah Ta'ala ne humein parday ka hukum diya hai taake hum apni
izzat aur pakdamani ki hifazat kar saken.
Zikra
(sochte hue): Ammi, main samajhti hoon ke parda karna zaroori hai, lekin kabhi
kabhi mujhe aisa lagta hai ke yeh mushkil hai.
Maa (pyar
se): Main jaanti hoon beti, lekin humein Allah ke hukum ko poora karne ki
koshish karni chahiye. Sahabiyat ki zindagiyon mein bohot se aise waqiat hain
jo humein parday ki ahmiyat aur is ke faiday batate hain.
Zikra: Kya
aap mujhe kuch waqiat bata sakti hain?
Maa: Zaroor,
pyari beti. Hazrat Fatima (RA), jo Nabi Kareem (SAW) ki beti thin, unho ne
hamesha parday ki pabandi ki. Ek martaba unho ne apne walid se darkhwast ki ke
un ke janaze ko is tarah banaya jaye ke un ka jism chhupa rahe, taake un ki
izzat aur parday ki hifazat ho sake. Un ki yeh fikar humein sikhati hai ke
humein apni zindagi mein bhi parday ka khayal rakhna chahiye.
Zikra:
Waqai, Ammi. Yeh to bohot hi izzat aur ehteram ki baat hai.
Maa: Haan
beti, aur ek aur misaal Hazrat Ayesha (RA) ki hai. Unho ne bhi hamesha parday
ka khayal rakha aur Islami taleemat ke mutabiq zindagi guzaari. Un ka amal
humein sikhata hai ke parda humein logon ki buri nigaahon se mehfooz rakhta hai
aur humein izzat aur ehteram deta hai.
Zikra: Ammi,
parday ka kya faida hai?
Maa
(muskurate hue): Beti, parda humein kai tarah ke nuksan se bachata hai. Jab hum
parday mein hote hain, to hum doosron ki buri nigaahon se mehfooz rehte hain.
Is se humein ek khaas ehteram milta hai aur log humein izzat ki nigaah se
dekhte hain. Be-pardagi aur be-hayayi humein logon ki buri nigaahon ka shikar
banati hai aur hamari izzat ko khatrey mein daalti hai.
Zikra: Mujhe
samajh aa raha hai, Ammi.
Maa
(mohabbat se): Aur beti, social media aur jadeed dor mein be-pardagi aur
be-hayayi bohot aam ho gayi hai. Humein is se bachne ki koshish karni chahiye.
Yeh humein Allah ke qareeb karne ke bajaye, humein gunah ki taraf le ja sakti
hai.
Zikra: Ammi,
main koshish karungi ke main parday ka zyada khayal rakhoon aur be-pardagi se
bachoon.
Maa (pyar se
sar par haath pherte hue): Meri pyari beti, Allah tumhein hamesha apni hifazat
mein rakhe aur tumhein deen ki sahi samajh ata farmaaye. Yaad rakho, main
hamesha tumhare sath hoon aur tumhari bhalai ke liye fikar mand hoon.
Zikra
(muskurate hue): Shukriya, Ammi. Main aap ki baaton ko dil se manungi aur apni
zindagi mein in par amal karungi.
Iss tarah,
pyare bachon, ek maa ki mohabbat aur naseehatein hamesha hamare liye behtareen
rahnumai ka zariya hoti hain. Allah humein apni maa ki baatein samajhne aur in
par amal karne ki tofeeq ata farmaaye. Aameen.
Lesson no6
Doston Ki Pehchaan: Kamiyab Zindagi
Ka Raaz
Maa (pyar
se): Hanzala, Zikra, aao mere paas baitho, mujhe aap donon se ek aham baat
karni hai.
Hanzala
(dilchaspi se): Ji Ammi, kya baat hai?
Zikra
(mutajassus ho kar): Haan Ammi, humein kya batana chahti hain?
Maa (narmi
se): Mere pyare bachon, aap donon school jaate hain aur wahan bohot si
saheliyan aur dost banate hain. Lekin har dost humare liye acha nahi hota. Kuch
dost humein achay raste par le jaate hain jabke kuch humein ghalat raste par
daal sakte hain.
Hanzala
(sochte hue): Ammi, hum kaise jaan saken ge ke kaun sa dost acha hai aur kaun
sa bura?
Maa
(mohabbat se): Beta, Allah Ta'ala ne humein aqal aur samajh di hai taake hum
achay aur buray mein farq kar saken. Achi dosti woh hoti hai jo aap ko neki ki
taraf mael kare, aap ko achay kaam karne ki targhib de aur aap ke sath achi
aadat ko farogh de. Buri dosti woh hoti hai jo aap ko buray kaamon ki taraf
mael kare, aap ko jhoot bolne par ubhare aur aap ke sath ghalat aadat ko farogh
de.
Zikra
(dilchaspi se): Ammi, kya aap humein kuch misaalain de sakti hain?
Maa
(muskurate hue): Zaroor, mere bachon. Farz karo, agar aap ki koi saheli aap ko
kahe ke school ke kaam ko chor do aur khelne chalo, ya koi aap ko jhoot bolne
par ubhare, to yeh buray dost ki alamat hain. Dosri taraf, agar koi saheli aap
ko waqt par kaam karne, parhne aur neki ke kaamon mein hissa lene ki targhib
de, to yeh achi saheli ki alamat hain.
Hanzala:
Ammi, agar hum buray doston se door rehne ki koshish karein aur woh naraz ho
jaayein?
Maa (narmi
se): Beta, humein hamesha Allah Ta'ala ki raza ko muqaddam rakhna chahiye. Agar
koi dost aap ko ghalat raste par le ja raha hai, to usay pyar se samjhao aur
koshish karo ke usay bhi sahi raste par laao. Agar woh na samjhe, to us se door
rehna behtar hai. Achay dost aap ki bhalai chahte hain aur aap ko kabhi bhi
nuqsan nahi pohchate.
Zikra
(pareshaan ho kar): Ammi, agar hum akele reh gaye to?
Maa (pyar se
sar par haath pherte hue): Beti, Allah hamesha aap ke sath hai. Agar aap achay
doston ki talash mein rahenge to Allah aap ko achi saheliyan ata farmaaye ga.
Kabhi bhi khaufzada na ho, aur hamesha neki ki raah par chalne ki koshish karo.
Yaad rakho, achay dost aap ki zindagi ko khushgawaar banate hain aur buray dost
aap ki zindagi ko mushkilat mein daal sakte hain.
Hanzala
(muskurate hue): Shukriya, Ammi. Hum aap ki baaton ko dil se manein ge aur apne
doston ko samajhne ki koshish karein ge.
Zikra
(mutafiq ho kar): Ji Ammi, hum hamesha achi saheliyon ke sath rehne ki koshish
karein ge.
Maa (pyar
se): Mere pyare bachon, Allah aap ko hamesha apni hifazat mein rakhe aur aap ko
neki ki raah par chalne ki tofeeq ata farmaaye. Yaad rakho, main hamesha aap ke
sath hoon aur aap ki bhalai ke liye fikar mand hoon.
Is tarah,
pyare bachon, ek maa ki mohabbat aur naseehatein hamesha hamare liye behtareen
rahnumai ka zariya hoti hain. Allah humein apni maa ki baatein samajhne aur in
par amal karne ki tofeeq ata farmaaye. Aameen.
Lesson no7
Ghareloo Kaam: Sab Ki Zimmedari
Maa (pyar
bhare lehje mein): Zikra, meri pyari beti, zara yahan aa kar baitho. Mujhe tum
se ek baat karni hai.
Zikra
(hairat se): Ji Ammi, kya baat hai?
Maa (narmi
se): Beti, tumhein maloom hai ke ghareloo kaam aur umoor-e-khanadari hamare
deen mein kitni ahmiyat rakhte hain? Yeh na sirf hamare ghar ko saaf aur
munazzam rakhte hain balki humein sabr, tahammul aur mehnat ki bhi tarbiyat
dete hain.
Zikra
(pareshaan ho kar): Ammi, mujhe yeh kaam karna mushkil lagta hai aur main in
mein dilchaspi nahi leti.
Maa
(muskurate hue): Beti, yeh ehsas aam hai lekin humein kuch baton ko samajhna
hoga. Hamari Ummahat-ul-Momineen, yani Nabi Kareem ﷺ ki azwaj-e-mutahharat, bhi ghareloo kaamon mein hissa leti
thin. Hazrat Ayesha رضی اللہ عنہا
aur Hazrat Fatima رضی اللہ عنہا
ki misaalain hamare samne hain.
Zikra
(dilchaspi se): Ammi, aap mujhe in ke baare mein bataein.
Maa (pyar
se): Hazrat Fatima رضی اللہ عنہا,
Nabi Kareem ﷺ ki beti, ki kahani bohot sabaq
amoz hai. Un ke haathon mein chakki peesne se chale par gaye the aur woh ghar
ke kaam karne se bohot thak jaati thin. Ek din unhon ne apne walid, Nabi Kareem
ﷺ se darkhwast ki ke unhein ek
khaadim de dein taake woh kuch madad hasil kar saken.
Zikra
(hairat se): Phir Nabi ﷺ
ne kya kiya?
Maa (narmi
se): Nabi Kareem ﷺ
ne unhein ek khaadim dene ke bajaye ek dua sikhayi. Unhon ne farmaya: "Aye
Fatima, jab tum raat ko sone jao to 33 martaba Subhan Allah, 33 martaba
Alhamdulillah aur 34 martaba Allahu Akbar kaho. Yeh tumhare liye ek khaadim se
behtar hai."
Zikra
(sochte hue): Ammi, is dua se Hazrat Fatima رضی اللہ عنہا ko kya faida hua?
Maa
(muskurate hue): Beti, is dua ne Hazrat Fatima رضی اللہ عنہا ko roohani taqat aur sukoon faraham kiya. Unhon ne apne walid
ki naseehat ko qubool kiya aur is dua ko apna mamool bana liya. Is se na sirf
un ke dil ko sukoon mila balki unhein ghar ke kaamon mein bhi hosla aur taqat
mili.
Zikra
(dilchaspi se): Ammi, is ka matlab hai ke dua bhi hamare kaamon mein madad kar
sakti hai?
Maa (narmi
se): Bilkul beti, dua hamari roohani taqat hai aur Allah se madad maangne ka
behtareen zariya hai. Jab hum dil se Allah ko yaad karte hain aur us se madad
talab karte hain, to woh humein mushkilat mein sabr aur hosla ata karta hai.
Zikra (josh
se): Ammi, main bhi is dua ko apne mamool mein shaAmmil karungi. Aur main
koshish karungi ke ghareloo kaamon mein dilchaspi loon aur aap ki madad karun.
Maa (khush
ho kar): Allah tumhein khush rakhe, meri pyari beti. Hamesha yaad rakho, mehnat
aur nek neeyat se kiye gaye kaam kabhi zaaya nahi jate.
Zikra
(muskurate hue): Shukriya, Ammi. Aap ne meri bohot madad ki. Main ab se
ghareloo kaamon mein dilchaspi lene ki koshish karungi.
Maa (pyar
se): Allah tumhein Kamiyab kare, meri pyari beti. Aur hamesha Allah par bharosa
rakho aur dua ko apni zindagi ka hissa banao.
Is tarah, ek
maa ki mohabbat aur naseehatein hamesha hamare liye behtareen rahnumai ka
zariya hoti hain. Allah humein apni maa ki baatein samajhne aur in par amal
karne ki tofeeq ata farmaaye. Aameen.
Lesson no8
Badaun Ka Adab: Ikhlaqiyat Ki Bunyaad
Maa
(mohabbat bhare andaz mein): Baccho, aaj hum ek bohat aham mawzu par baat
karenge—badaun ka adab aur ehtram. Yeh na sirf hamari deen ki taleemat ka hissa
hai balki hamari zindagi mein khushiyon ka bhi baais banta hai.
Hanzala
(sanjeedgi se): Ammi, badaun ka adab kyun zaroori hai?
Maa (pyar
se): Pyare Hanzala, badaun ka adab hamare muashrati aur ikhlaqi kirdar ka hissa
hai. Nabi ﷺ ne humein badaun ke saath
husn-e-suluk karne aur unki izzat karne ki taleem di hai. Ek hadees mein hai:
"Woh hum mein se nahi jo hamare choton par reham na kare aur hamare baron
ki izzat na kare" (Abu Dawood). Is se pata chalta hai ke badaun ka adab
karna ek nek amal hai.
Zikra
(pareshaan ho kar): Lekin ammi, agar hum baron se ikhtilaf karte hain to kya
karein?
Maa (narmi
se): Zikra, ikhtilaf hona aam baat hai, lekin humein apne ikhtilafaat ko ehtram
ke dairay mein rakhna chahiye. Nabi ﷺ ne humein sikhaya hai ke ikhtilaf karne ke bawajood bhi humein
adab aur ehtram barqarar rakhna chahiye. Agar humein kisi baat par aitraaz hai,
to usko adab ke sath bayan karein.
Hanzala
(sanjeeda ho kar): Aur baron ki madad kaise karein?
Maa (khushi
se): Badaun ki madad karna unke adab ka hissa hai. Hazrat Ali رضی اللہ عنہ ne farmaya: "Buzurgon ki khidmat karna khuda ki ibadat
hai". Jab hum baron ki madad karte hain, unke kamon mein haath batate
hain, aur unki zarooriyat ka khayal rakhte hain, to hum Allah ke qareeb hote
hain.
Zikra
(dilchaspi se): Ammi, humein baron ke sath kaise baat karni chahiye?
Maa
(mohabbat se): Badaun ke sath baat karte waqt humein hamesha narm zuban aur
ehtram ka muzahira karna chahiye. Misaal ke tor par, Nabi ﷺ ki hadees hai: "Sab se accha shakhs woh hai jo apne
ahl-e-khana ke sath behtareen sulook kare" (Ibn Majah). Humein chahiye ke
hum baat cheet mein ehtram aur mohabbat dikhayein, chahay woh baat chhoti ho ya
badi.
Hanzala
(pareshaan ho kar): Aur agar humein baron ke sath jhagralu rawaya dekhne ko
mile?
Maa (khushi
se): Jhagralu rawaya hamare deen ki taleemat ke baraks hai. Humein hamesha sabr
aur bardasht ke sath pesh ana chahiye. Humein apne dil ko narm aur ehtram se
bhara rakhna chahiye.
Zikra
(sochte hue): Aur humein baron ke liye dua kaise karni chahiye?
Maa (pyar
se): Badaun ke liye dua karna bhi bohat aham hai. Dua karein ke Allah unki umar
daraz kare, unhein sehatmand rakhe, aur unki zindagi mein khushiyon ka izafa
kare. Hazrat Fatima رضی اللہ عنہا
ne bhi Nabi ﷺ se dua ki darkhwast ki thi ke
unke ghar ki mushkilat asaan hon, aur Nabi ﷺ ne unhein dua sikhayi thi, jo hamari zindagi ke liye bhi misaal
hai.
Hanzala
(pursukoon ho kar): Ammi, aap ne humein baron ke adab ki ahmiyat samjha di. Hum
in nasihaton par amal karenge.
Maa (khushi
se): Allah tumhein Kamiyab kare, mere pyare bachon. Hamesha yaad rakho, baron
ka adab karne se na sirf hamari zindagi mein barkatein aati hain balki hamare
dil ki safai aur mohabbat bhi barhti hai. Humein apne buzurgon ki izzat barhane
ki koshish karni chahiye aur unki duaon ki qadr karni chahiye.
Zikra
(khushi se): Ammi, hum yaqeenan in nasihaton par amal karenge aur apne baron ka
ehtram karenge.
Maa (pyar
bhare andaz mein): Allah tumhein apne amal mein saabit qadam rakhe, bachon.
Tumhari koshishon se na sirf tumhari zindagi mein khushiyan aayengi balki Allah
bhi tumhein apni rehmat se nawazega.
Is pyari
guftagu ke zariye, bachon ko baron ka adab aur ehtram karne ki ahmiyat samjhayi
ja sakti hai, aur Islami taleemat ki roshni mein unki tarbiyat ki ja sakti hai.
Allah humein baron ke adab ki taufeeq ata farmaaye. Aameen.
Lesson no9
Bhai Behnon Ki Mohabbat: Mazboot
Rishta
Ek
khoobsurat aur roshan subah, ghar ke aangan mein Hanzala aur Zikra khel rahe
the. Unki Ammi jaan, unhein khelte dekh kar muskurati hui unke qareeb aayi.
Usne unhein apne paas bulaya aur pyar se kaha, "Mere pyare bachon, aaj
main tumhein ek bohat hi khoobsurat baat batana chahti hoon."
Hanzala aur
Zikra ne khushi se kaha: "Ammi jaan, kya baat hai?"
Ammi jaan ne
Hanzala aur Zikra ko apne paas bithaya aur narmi se kaha: "Mere bachon,
bhai behnon ke darmiyan mohabbat aur ehtram bohat aham hain. Allah Ta'ala ne
humein khandan ki shakal mein banaya hai taake hum ek doosre ka khayal rakhein
aur ek doosre ke saath mohabbat karein."
Zikra ne
masoomiyat se poocha: "Ammi jaan, mohabbat kaise karte hain?"
Ammi jaan ne
muskara kar kaha: "Mohabbat ka matlab hai ke hum ek doosre ki madad
karein, ek doosre ka khayal rakhein, aur ek doosre ke saath acche sulook se
pesh aayein. Agar Hanzala ko koi cheez chahiye to Zikra use khushi se de, aur
agar Zikra ko koi madad chahiye to Hanzala use foran madad kare."
Hanzala ne
hairat se kaha: "Lekin Ammi jaan, kabhi kabhi hum larte hain aur hujjat
karte hain."
Ammi jaan ne
narmi se unke sar par haath phirte hue kaha: "Mere bachon, laraai jhagda
aur hujjat bohat buri baatein hain. Nabi Kareem ﷺ ne humein sikhaya hai ke humein hamesha sabr aur mohabbat se
pesh ana chahiye. Jab hum larte hain to shaitaan khush hota hai aur Allah naraz
hota hai."
Zikra ne
sochte hue kaha: "To humein kya karna chahiye agar hum gusse mein
hon?"
Ammi jaan ne
jawab diya: "Jab hum gusse mein hon to humein chahiye ke hum Allah ka naam
lein aur apni zuban par qaboo rakhein. Humein ek doosre ko maaf karna chahiye
aur gussa khatam hone ke baad mohabbat se baat karni chahiye."
Hanzala ne
muskurate hue kaha: "Ammi jaan, humein sharing kaise karni chahiye?"
Ammi jaan ne
kaha: "Sharing ka matlab hai ke hum apni cheezon ko ek doosre ke saath
baantein. Agar Zikra ke paas koi khilona hai to woh Hanzala ke saath khelne de,
aur agar Hanzala ke paas koi cheez hai to woh Zikra ke saath baante. Allah
Ta'ala sharing karne walon ko bohat pasand karta hai aur humein iska ajar deta
hai."
Zikra ne
khushi se kaha: "Ammi jaan, hum hamesha ek doosre ke saath mohabbat se
pesh aayenge aur share karenge."
Ammi jaan ne
mohabbat se unhein galay lagate hue kaha: "Yahi meri khwahish hai, mere
bachon. Bhai behnon ki mohabbat aur ek doosre ka ehtram humein duniya aur
aakhirat dono mein Kamiyab banayega. Nabi Kareem ﷺ ne farmaya hai ke behtareen musalman woh hai jis ke ikhlaq
acche hon."
Hanzala aur
Zikra ne ahad kiya ke woh hamesha ek doosre ke saath mohabbat se pesh aayenge
aur sharing karenge.
Islami Taleemat Ki Roshni Mein
Naseehat
Mohabbat
aur Ehtram:
Nabi Kareem ﷺ ne farmaya, "Tum mein se koi is waqt tak momin nahi ho
sakta jab tak apne bhai ke liye wohi pasand na kare jo apne liye pasand karta
hai" (Sahih Bukhari). Is hadees ke mutabiq, humein apne bhai behnon ke
liye bhi wohi pasand karna chahiye jo hum apne liye pasand karte hain.
Sabr aur
Maafi:
Allah Ta'ala
Quran mein farmata hai, "Aur jo gussa peete hain aur logon ko maaf karte
hain. Aur Allah ihsaan karne walon ko dost rakhta hai" (Surah Aal-e-Imran:
134). Humein chahiye ke hum gusse ko pee lein aur apne bhai behnon ko maaf
karein.
Sharing:
Nabi Kareem ﷺ ne farmaya, "Behtareen sadqa woh hai jo tum apne maal se
do, jab ke tum sehat mand ho aur maal dari ki umeed rakhte ho" (Sahih
Bukhari). Humein apne maal aur cheezon ko apne bhai behnon ke saath share karna
chahiye.
Akhlaq
aur Kirdar:
Nabi Kareem ﷺ ne farmaya, "Behtareen musalman woh hai jis ke Akhlaq
behtareen hon" (Sahih Bukhari). Humein apne ikhlaq ko behtar banana
chahiye aur bhai behnon ke saath acche sulook se pesh aana chahiye.
Ammi jaan ne
pyar bhare andaz mein Hanzala aur Zikra ko Islami taleemat ki roshni mein bhai
behnon ke saath mohabbat aur ehtram se pesh aane ki ahmiyat samjhai. Unki
naseehaton ne Hanzala aur Zikra ke dilon mein mohabbat aur sharing ka jazba
paida kiya. Yeh kahani humein yeh sikhati hai ke maa ki mohabbat aur naseehat
bachon ki zindagi mein kitni aham hoti hai aur kaise woh bachon ko ek doosre ke
saath mohabbat aur ehtram se pesh aane ki targhib deti hai.
Allah humein
aur hamare bachon ko sahi Islami taleemat par amal karne ki taufeeq ata
farmaaye. Aameen.
Lesson no10
Ghussa aur Chirchirapan: Kaise Qaboo Payen
Ek pursukoon shaam, maa apne do
bachon, Ahmed (12 saal) aur Ayesha (10 saal) ke saath baith kar baatein kar
rahi hain.
Ammi Jaan: (Mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Mere pyaare bachon, aaj main tumse ek ahem baat karna chahti hoon. Mujhe
maloom hai ke kabhi kabhar chhoti chhoti baaton par tum dono naraz ho jate ho,
ghussa karte ho aur chirchirapan dikhate ho. Lekin kya tum jaante ho ke is se
na sirf humare dil dukhte hain balki humari sehat par bhi bure asraat parte
hain?
Ahmed: (Hairani se) Ammi, kya
ghussa aur chirchirapan humari sehat ke liye nuqsan deh hain?
Ammi Jaan: (Narmi se) Ji haan,
mere bete. Jadeed tahqiqat ke mutabiq ghussa aur chirchirapan se humari jismani
aur zehni sehat par manfi asraat parte hain. Ghussa karne se humare dil ki
dhadkan tez ho jati hai, blood pressure barh jata hai aur hum zehni dabao ka
shikar ho jate hain. Is ke ilawa, chirchirapan se humare rishte kharab hote
hain aur hum khush nahi reh pate.
Ayesha: (Fikar mand ho kar) Ammi,
humein kya karna chahiye taake hum ghussa aur chirchirapan se bach saken?
Ammi Jaan: (Mohabbat se) Mere
bachon, sab se pehle to humein sabr karna seekhna chahiye. Allah Ta'ala Quran
mein farmata hai, "Aur jo log ghusse ko pee jate hain aur logon ko maaf
kar dete hain, Allah Ta'ala aise nek logon se mohabbat karta hai" (Surah
Al-Imran: 134). Humein bhi Allah ke pasandeeda banday banne ki koshish karni
chahiye.
Ahmed: (Tawajju dete hue) Ammi,
kya sabr karne se humein koi faida hoga?
Ammi Jaan: (Muskurate hue)
Bilkul, mere bete. Sabr karne se na sirf humari sehat behtar hoti hai balki
humare dil bhi sukoon pate hain. Nabi Kareem Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam ne
farmaya, "Taqatwar woh nahi jo kisi ko pichaar de balki taqatwar woh hai
jo ghusse ke waqt apne aap ko qabo mein rakhe" (Sahih Bukhari). Humein bhi
apni taqat ko sahi ma'non mein istemal karna chahiye.
Ayesha: (Dilchaspi se) Ammi, aur
kya cheezein humein ghussa aur chirchirapan se bachne mein madad de sakti hain?
Ammi Jaan: (Narmi se) Humein
hamesha Allah ka zikr karte rehna chahiye. Jab hum Allah ko yaad karte hain to
humara dil sukoon pata hai. Quran mein Allah Ta'ala farmata hai, "Beshak
dilon ka sukoon Allah ki yaad mein hai" (Surah Raad: 28). Humein har waqt
Allah ka shukar ada karna chahiye aur apni zubaan ko achi baaton mein mashgool
rakhna chahiye.
Ahmed: (Sochte hue) Ammi, humein
koi khaas dua parhni chahiye jab humein ghussa aaye?
Ammi Jaan: (Mohabbat se) Ji haan,
mere bete. Jab humein ghussa aaye to humein "A'oodhu billahi min
ash-shaytan ir-rajim" parhna chahiye. Is se humara ghussa kam ho jata hai
aur hum shaitaan ke waswason se bach jate hain.
Islami Taleemat Ki Roshni Mein Naseehat
Ghusse Ko Pee Jana:
Allah Ta'ala Quran mein farmata
hai, "Aur jo log ghusse ko pee jate hain aur logon ko maaf kar dete hain,
Allah Ta'ala aise nek logon se mohabbat karta hai" (Surah Al-Imran: 134).
Humein bhi apne ghusse ko qabo mein rakhna chahiye.
Sabr Ki Fazilat:
Nabi Kareem Sallallahu Alaihi
Wasallam ne farmaya, "Taqatwar woh nahi jo kisi ko pichaar de balki
taqatwar woh hai jo ghusse ke waqt apne aap ko qabo mein rakhe" (Sahih
Bukhari). Humein bhi sabr ka daaman thamna chahiye.
Allah Ka Zikr:
Quran mein Allah Ta'ala farmata
hai, "Beshak dilon ka sukoon Allah ki yaad mein hai" (Surah Raad:
28). Humein har waqt Allah ka zikr karte rehna chahiye taake humare dilon ko
sukoon mile.
Maa ki pyar bhari naseehaton ne
Ahmed aur Ayesha ke dilon mein ghussa aur chirchirapan se bachne ki ahmiyat ko
ujagar kiya. Unhone maa ke mashwaron par amal karne ka wada kiya aur apni
zindagi ko behtar banane ke liye sabr, Allah ka zikr aur duaein parhne ka ehad
kiya. Maa ki mohabbat aur tarbiyat ne bachon ki zindagi mein ek naya josh aur
walwala paida kiya aur unhe Allah ke qareeb kiya.
Allah humein aur humare bachon ko
sabr karne, ghussa pee jane aur Allah ki yaad mein mashgool rehne ki taufeeq
ata farmaaye aur humari zindagiyon mein barkatein nazil farmaaye. Ameen.
Lesson no11
Junk Food: Zeher Bhari Lazzat
Ek khoobsurat shaam, maa apne do
bachon, Ali (12 saal) aur Fatima (10 saal) ke saath baith kar baatein kar rahi
hain.
Ammi Jaan: (Mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Mere pyaare bachon, aaj main tumse ek ahem baat karna chahti hoon. Mujhe
maloom hai ke tum dono junk food bohot pasand karte ho, lekin kya tum jaante ho
ke junk food humari sehat ke liye nuqsan deh hota hai?
Ali: (Hairani se) Ammi, junk food
se humari sehat ko kya nuqsan hota hai?
Ammi Jaan: (Narmi se) Mere bete,
jadeed tahqiqat ke mutabiq junk food mein bohot zyada charbi, cheeni, aur namak
hota hai jo humare jism ke liye nuqsan deh hain. Yeh cheezein humare jism mein
jama ho kar mukhtalif bemariyon ka bais banti hain, jaise ke motaapa, dil ki
bemariyan, aur shugar.
Fatima: (Fikar mand ho kar) Ammi,
humein junk food ke badle kya khana chahiye taake hum sehat mand rah saken?
Ammi Jaan: (Mohabbat se) Mere
bachon, humein taaza phal, sabziyan, daalen, aur doodh se bani cheezein khani
chahiye. Yeh cheezein humare jism ko zaroori ghizaiyat faraham karti hain aur
humein sehat mand rakhti hain.
Ali: (Tawajju dete hue) Ammi, kya
junk food ke baare mein koi khaas misaal hai jo humein samjha saken?
Ammi Jaan: (Muskurate hue)
Bilkul, mere bete. Misaal ke tor par, ek tehqiq mein bataya gaya hai ke jo
bachay zyada junk food khate hain, unki taleemi karkardagi kam ho jati hai aur
woh zyada thakaan mehsoos karte hain. Is ke bar'aks, jo bachay sehat mand ghizayen
khate hain, woh zyada chust aur tandrust rehte hain.
Fatima: (Dilchaspi se) Ammi, aur
kya cheezein humein junk food ke badle mein khani chahiye?
Ammi Jaan: (Narmi se) Humein
hamesha Allah ka shukar ada karna chahiye aur apni zubaan ko achi baaton mein
mashgool rakhna chahiye. Quran mein Allah Ta'ala farmata hai, "Ae Bani
Adam! Har masjid mein apni zeenat le jao, aur khao aur peeyo, aur had se na
badho. Beshak Allah had se badhne walon ko pasand nahi karta" (Surah
Al-A'raf: 31). Humein bhi Allah ke ehkamat par amal karna chahiye.
Islami Taleemat Ki Roshni Mein Naseehat
Itidaal Ki Rah:
Allah Ta'ala Quran mein farmata
hai, "Khao aur peeyo, aur had se na badho. Beshak Allah had se badhne
walon ko pasand nahi karta" (Surah Al-A'raf: 31). Humein bhi apni khane
peene ki aadaton mein itidaal ka daaman thamna chahiye.
Sehat Mand Ghiza Ki Ahmiyat:
Nabi Kareem Sallallahu Alaihi
Wasallam ne farmaya, "Momin ki taqatwar haalat behtar hai kamzor momin
se" (Sahih Muslim). Humein bhi apni sehat ka khayal rakhna chahiye taake
hum Allah ke ehkam par amal kar saken aur apni zindagi ko behtar bana saken.
Shukar Guzari:
Allah Ta'ala farmata hai,
"Agar tum shukar karoge to main tumhein aur zyada doonga" (Surah
Ibrahim: 7). Humein hamesha Allah ka shukar ada karna chahiye aur sehat mand
ghiza ki qadr karni chahiye.
Maa ki pyar bhari naseehaton ne
Ali aur Fatima ke dilon mein junk food ke nuqsanat aur sehat mand ghiza ki
ahmiyat ko ujagar kiya. Unhone maa ke mashwaron par amal karne ka wada kiya aur
apni zindagi ko behtar banane ke liye sehat mand ghiza khane ka ehad kiya. Maa
ki mohabbat aur tarbiyat ne bachon ki zindagi mein ek naya josh aur walwala
paida kiya aur unhein Allah ke qareeb kiya.
Allah humein aur humare bachon ko
sehat mand ghiza khane, junk food se bachne aur Allah ki yaad mein mashgool
rehne ki taufeeq ata farmaaye aur humari zindagiyon mein barkatein nazil
farmaaye. Ameen.
Lesson no12
Hotel ke Khane: Sasti Lazzat ya Mehngi Bimari?
Manzar: Ek khoobsurat shaam, Maa
(Ammi Jan) apne do bachon, Ahmed (15 saal) aur Ayesha (13 saal) ke sath baith
kar batein kar rahi hain.
Ammi Jan: (Mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Mere pyare bachon, aaj main tum se ek aham baat karna chahti hoon. Mujhe
maloom hai ke tum dono ko hotel ka khana bohot pasand hai, lekin kya tum jante
ho ke yeh khana hamari sehat ke liye nuqsaan deh ho sakta hai?
Ahmed: (Hairani se) Ammi, hotel
ke khane se hamari sehat ko kya nuqsaan hota hai?
Hotel ke khane mein zyada
chikanai:
Ammi Jan: (Narmi se) Mere bete,
hotel ke khane mein aam tor par bohot zyada chikanai hoti hai. Misal ke tor
par, ek tehqiq mein bataya gaya hai ke fast food mein istemal hone wala tail
aam tor par kam meyaar ka hota hai aur isay baar baar istemal kiya jata hai jis
se yeh tail nuqsaan deh ho jata hai. Is qisam ki chikanai hamare jism mein jama
ho kar dil ki bimariyon ka bais banti hai.
Masnoi rang aur zaaiqay:
Ammi Jan: (Muskurate hue) Aap ne
dekha hoga ke hotel ke khane rang birange aur bohot lazeez hote hain. Yeh sab
masnoi rang aur zaaiqon ki badolat hai. In masnoi ajza mein mukhtalif chemicals
hote hain jo hamare jism ke liye nuqsaan deh hain. Misal ke tor par, ek tehqiq
mein bataya gaya hai ke baaz masnoi rang bachon mein tawajju ki kAmmi aur
hyperactivity ka bais ban sakte hain.
Zyada namak ka istemal:
Ammi Jan: (Fikr mand ho kar)
Hotel ke khanon mein namak ki miqdaar bohot zyada hoti hai. Zyada namak ka
istemal hamare blood pressure ko barha sakta hai aur dil ki bimariyon ka khatra
bhi barha deta hai. Ek tehqiq ke mutabiq, zyada namak ka istemal gurde ki bimariyon
ka bais ban sakta hai aur haddi ki sehat ko bhi nuqsan pohancha sakta hai.
Hifzan sehat ke usooolon ki
khilaf warzi:
Ammi Jan: (Tawajju dete hue)
Hotel mein khana banate waqt aksar hifzan sehat ke usooolon ka khayal nahi
rakha jata. Misal ke tor par, ek tehqiq mein bataya gaya hai ke hotel ke
bawarchi khanon mein safai ka khayal nahi rakha jata aur yeh jagaen jaraseem se
bharpoor hoti hain. Is se food poisoning ka khatra barh jata hai jo ke bohot
khatarnaak ho sakta hai.
Islami Taleemat ki Roshni mein Naseehat
Itidal ki raah:
Allah Ta'ala Quran mein farmata
hai, "Khao aur piyo, aur had se na barho. Beshak Allah had se barhne walon
ko pasand nahi karta" (Surah Al-A'raf: 31). Humein bhi apni khane pine ki
aadat mein itidal ka daaman thamna chahiye.
Sehatmand ghiza ki ahmiyat:
Nabi Kareem (SAW) ne farmaya,
"Momin ki taqatwar haalat behtar hai kamzor momin se" (Sahih Muslim).
Humein bhi apni sehat ka khayal rakhna chahiye taake hum Allah ke ehkam par
amal kar saken aur apni zindagi ko behtar bana saken.
Shukar guzari:
Allah Ta'ala farmata hai,
"Agar tum shukar karoge to main tumhein aur ziada dunga" (Surah
Ibrahim: 7). Humein hamesha Allah ka shukar ada karna chahiye aur sehatmand
ghiza ki qadr karni chahiye.
Pyar Bhari Naseehat
Ammi Jan: (Mohabbat se) Mere
pyare bachon, humein Allah ka shukar ada karna chahiye ke usne humein sehatmand
khana ataa kiya. Humein apne jism ka khayal rakhna chahiye taake hum Allah ki
ibadat aur uske ehkam par amal kar saken. Ghar ka khana na sirf sehat bakhsh
hota hai balkay ismein maa ki mohabbat aur dua bhi shAmmil hoti hai.
Ayesha: (Dilchaspi se) Ammi,
humein ghar ka khana khane se kya faiday hasil honge?
Ammi Jan: (Narmi se) Mere bachon,
ghar ka khana khane se humein behtar ghizaiyat milti hai, hum bimar kam parte
hain aur humein taqat milti hai. Is ke ilawa, ghar ka khana humein apni saqafat
aur riwayat se jorta hai aur humein mil jul kar khane ki aadat sikhata hai.
Ahmed: (Azm se) Ammi, hum wada
karte hain ke ab se hum hotel ke khane ki bajaye ghar ka khana ziada pasand
karenge aur apni sehat ka khayal rakhenge.
Maa ki pyar bhari naseehaton ne
Ahmed aur Ayesha ke dilon mein hotel ke khane ke nuqsanat aur ghar ke khane ki
ahmiyat ko ujagar kiya. Unhone maa ke mashwaron par amal karne ka wada kiya aur
apni zindagi ko behtar banane ke liye sehat bakhsh ghiza khane ka ahad kiya.
Maa ki mohabbat aur tarbiyat ne bachon ki zindagi mein ek naya josh aur
walwalah peda kiya aur unhein Allah ke qareeb kiya.
Allah humein aur hamare bachon ko
sehatmand ghiza khane, hotel ke khane se bachne aur Allah ki yaad mein
mashghool rehne ki taufeeq ata farmaye aur hamari zindagiyon mein barkatien
nazil farmaye. Aameen.
Lesson no13
Video Games: Tafreeh ya Tabahi?
Manzar: Ek pursukoon dopahar, Maa
(Ammi Jan) apne do bachon, Ali (12 saal) aur Zainab (10 saal) ke sath baith kar
batein kar rahi hain.
Ammi Jan: (Narmi aur mohabbat
bhare lehje mein) Mere pyare bachon, aaj hum video games ke bare mein baat
karenge. Mujhe maloom hai ke aap dono ko video games khelna bohot pasand hai,
lekin aaiye dekhte hain ke yeh hamare liye kitne nuqsan deh ho sakte hain.
Waqt ka Ziya
Ammi Jan: (Muskurate hue) Bachon,
kya aap jante hain ke video games khelne mein bohot sara waqt zaya ho jata hai?
Jadeed tehqiqat ke mutabiq, jo bachay zyada waqt video games mein guzarte hain,
wo apni parhai aur deegar aham kaamon mein peeche reh jate hain. Misal ke tor
par, ek tehqiq mein bataya gaya hai ke video games khelne wale bachon ki
taleemi karkardagi mein kAmmi aati hai aur unki tawajju mein bhi kAmmi hoti
hai.
Sehat ke Masail
Ammi Jan: (Fikr mand ho kar)
Video games ke zyada khelne se sehat ke masail bhi peda ho sakte hain. Zyada
dair tak screen ke samne baithne se ankhon ki benai kamzor ho sakti hai aur
jismani sargarmiyon ki kAmmi se motapay ka khatra bhi barh jata hai. Ek tehqiq
ke mutabiq, video games khelne wale bachon mein motapay ki shirah zyada hoti
hai aur unki jismani fitness kam hoti hai.
Zeheny Dabaaw aur
Chirchirapan
Ammi Jan: (Mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Bachon, kya aapne kabhi mehsoos kiya hai ke video games khelne ke baad
aap zyada chirchiray aur gusse mein aa jate hain? Tehqiq ke mutabiq, zyada
video games khelne se bachon mein zeheny dabaaw aur chirchirapan peda hota hai.
Yeh games hamare dimagh ko musalsal tehreek dete hain jis ki wajah se hamara
dimagh araam nahi kar pata aur hum zyada thakay hue mehsoos karte hain.
Samaji Tanhaai
Ammi Jan: (Narmi se) Mere bachon,
video games khelne se hum apne doston aur khandan se door ho jate hain. Humein
haqeeqi zindagi mein doston ke sath khelne aur baat cheet karne ki zaroorat
hoti hai taake hum samaji tor par mazboot ban saken. Ek tehqiq ke mutabiq,
video games khelne wale bachay aksar samaji tor par alag thalag ho jate hain
aur unke haqeeqi zindagi ke taluqaat kamzor ho jate hain.
Islami Taleemat Ki Roshni Mein Naseehat
Waqt Ki Qadrdani
Ammi Jan: (Narmi se) Allah Ta'ala
Quran mein farmata hai, "Aur logon se kaho ke apna waqt zaya na karo"
(Surah Al-Asr: 1-3). Humein apne waqt ka sahi istemal karna chahiye aur is ko
zaya nahi karna chahiye.
Sehat Ki Hifazat
Ammi Jan: (Mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Nabi Kareem (SAW) ne farmaya, "Tumhari sehat bhi ek niyamat hai, is
ka khayal rakho" (Sahih Bukhari). Humein apni sehat ka khayal rakhna
chahiye aur aise kaamon se bachna chahiye jo hamari sehat ko nuqsan pohancha
sakte hain.
Itidal Ki Raah
Ammi Jan: (Tawajju dete hue)
Islam humein har cheez mein itidal ki raah apnane ki taleem deta hai. Humein
video games khelne mein bhi itidal ka daaman thamna chahiye aur is ko apni
zindagi ka maqsad nahi banana chahiye.
Pyar Bhari Naseehat
Ammi Jan: (Muskurate hue) Mere
pyare bachon, humein apni zindagi mein tawazun barqarar rakhna chahiye. Video
games khelna theek hai lekin humein apne waqt ka sahi istemal karna chahiye.
Humein apni parhai, khel kud, aur doston ke sath waqt guzarna ka bhi khayal
rakhna chahiye.
Ali: (Dilchaspi se) Ammi, hum
kaise apne waqt ka sahi istemal kar sakte hain?
Ammi Jan: (Narmi se) Mere bachon,
aap ko rozana ek waqt muqarrar karna chahiye. Aap ko apni parhai, khel kud, aur
deegar sargarmiyon ke liye bhi waqt nikalna chahiye. Humein Allah ke ehkam par
amal karte hue apni zindagi ko behtar banana chahiye.
Zainab: (Azm se) Ammi, hum wada
karte hain ke hum video games bohot kam khelenge inshaAllah aur apni parhai aur
deegar sargarmiyon par bhi dhyan denge.
Maa ki pyar bhari naseehaton ne
Ali aur Zainab ke dilon mein video games ke nuqsan aur waqt ki qadrdani ki
ahmiyat ko ujagar kiya. Unhone maa ke mashwaron par amal karne ka wada kiya aur
apni zindagi ko behtar banane ke liye itidal ki raah apnanay ka ahad kiya. Maa
ki mohabbat aur tarbiyat ne bachon ki zindagi mein ek naya josh aur walwalah
peda kiya aur unhein Allah ke qareeb kiya.
Allah humein aur hamare bachon ko
waqt ki qadrdani karne, video games ke nuqsan se bachne aur Allah ki yaad mein
mashghool rehne ki taufeeq ata farmaye aur hamari zindagiyon mein barkatien
nazil farmaye. Aameen.
Lesson no14
Sigret Noshi: Khatarnaak Aadat
Ek pur sukoon shaam, maan apne
betay, Ahmed (18 saal) ke saath baith kar baatein kar rahi hain.
Ammi Jaan: (Narmi aur mohabbat
bhare lehje mein) Ahmed beta, aaj mujhe tumse ek aham baat karni hai. Main
jaanti hoon ke tum baray ho chuke ho aur apni zindagi ke faislay khud kar sakte
ho, lekin ek maan ki haisiyat se, main chahti hoon ke tumhe sigret noshi ke
nuqsanaat ke bare mein kuch bataoon.
Jadeed Tehqeeqat Ki Roshni Mein Sigret Noshi Ke Nuqsanaat
1. Sehat Ke Masail
Ammi Jaan: (Fikar mand ho kar)
Beta, kya tum jaante ho ke sigret noshi humari sehat ke liye kitni nuqsan deh
hai? Duniya bhar ki jadeed tehqeeqat ke mutabiq, sigret noshi se phephron ke
cancer, dil ke amraaz, aur saans ki bemariyon ka khatra bohot zyada barh jata
hai. Misaal ke taur par, ek tehqeeq mein bataya gaya hai ke sigret noshi karne
walay afraad mein phephron ke cancer ka khatra 25 guna zyada hota hai.
2. Iqtisadi Nuqsanaat
Ammi Jaan: (Narmi se) Beta,
sigret noshi na sirf humari sehat ke liye nuqsan deh hai balkay yeh humare
maali wasael ka bhi zaya karti hai. Jo paisay hum sigret kharidne mein kharch
karte hain, unhein hum apni taleem, sehat, ya kisi aur mufeed kaam mein istemal
kar sakte hain. Ek tehqeeq ke mutabiq, sigret noshi par kharch hone wali raqam
se duniya bhar mein kai aham masail hal kiye ja sakte hain.
3. Samaji Asraat
Ammi Jaan: (Mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Beta, sigret noshi se humara samaji maqam bhi mutasir hota hai. Log
humein manfi nazar se dekhte hain aur hamara ehtaram kam ho jata hai. Ek
tehqeeq ke mutabiq, sigret noshi karne walay afraad ko mulazmaton aur doosray samaji
moqay mein mushkilat ka samna karna parta hai.
Islami Taleemat Ki Roshni Mein Naseehat
1. Sehat Ki Hifazat
Ammi Jaan: (Narmi se) Allah
Ta'ala Quran mein farmata hai, "Aur apne aap ko halaak na karo"
(Surah Al-Baqarah: 195). Humein apni sehat ka khayal rakhna chahiye aur aisi
cheezon se bachna chahiye jo hamari sehat ko nuqsan pohncha sakti hain.
2. Naimaton Ki Qadar
Ammi Jaan: (Mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Nabi Kareem صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ne farmaya, "Sehat aur waqt do aisi naimaten hain jin ki
qadar log nahi karte" (Sahih Bukhari). Humein Allah ki di hui naimaton ki
qadar karni chahiye aur unhein zaya nahi karna chahiye.
3. Saaf-o-Shafaf Zindagi
Ammi Jaan: (Narmi se) Islam
humein safai aur pakeezgi ki taleem deta hai. Sigret noshi se humare jism,
kapron, aur mahaul mein napaaki phailti hai jo ke Islam ki taleemat ke khilaf
hai.
Pyar Bhari Naseehat
Ammi Jaan: (Muskurate hue) Mere
pyare bete, main tumse bohot mohabbat karti hoon aur tumhari sehat aur
khushhali ki fikr karti hoon. Mujhe yaqeen hai ke tum meri baaton ko samjhoge
aur sigret noshi se bachne ki koshish karoge.
Ahmed: (Dilchaspi se) Ammi, main
wada karta hoon ke main sigret noshi chorne ki koshish karunga aur aapki
naseehaton par amal karunga.
Maan ki pyar bhari naseehaton ne
Ahmed ke dil mein sigret noshi ke nuqsanaat aur sehat ki ahmiyat ko ujagar
kiya. Usne maan ke mashwaron par amal karne ka wada kiya aur apni zindagi ko
behtar banane ke liye sigret noshi chorne ka ahad kiya. Maan ki mohabbat aur
tarbiyat ne Ahmed ki zindagi mein ek naya josh aur walwala paida kiya aur use
Allah ke qareeb kiya.
Dua
Allah humein aur humare bachon ko
sehat ki qadr daani karne, sigret noshi ke nuqsanaat se bachne aur Allah ki
yaad mein mashghool rehne ki tofeeq ata farmaye aur hamari zindagiyon mein
barkaten nazil farmaye. Aameen.
Lesson no15
Larkiyon se Dosti: Zindagi ke Challenges
Manzar: Ek pur sukoon shaam, maan
apne betay, Adil (16 saal) ke saath baith kar baatein kar rahi hain.
Ammi Jaan: (Narmi aur mohabbat
bhare lehje mein) Adil beta, aaj mujhe tumse ek aham baat karni hai. Main
jaanti hoon ke tum baray ho chuke ho aur apni zindagi ke faislay khud kar sakte
ho, lekin ek maan ki haisiyat se, main chahti hoon ke tumhe larkiyon se dosti
ke nuqsanaat ke bare mein kuch bataoon.
Jadeed Tehqeeqat Ki Roshni Mein Larkiyon Se Dosti Ke Nuqsanaat
1. Taleemi Karkardagi Par
Asar
Ammi Jaan: (Fikar mand ho kar)
Beta, kya tum jaante ho ke larkiyon se zyada dosti rakhne se humari taleemi
karkardagi mutasir ho sakti hai? Duniya bhar ki jadeed tehqeeqat ke mutabiq,
aisi dostioun mein waqt zaya hone ki wajah se talib ilmon ki taleemi karkardagi
kamzor ho jati hai. Ek tehqeeq mein bataya gaya hai ke jo talib ilm zyada tar
waqt chatting aur dosti mein guzarte hain, unke grades girne ka khatra zyada
hota hai.
2. Zehni Dabaaw Aur
Pareshani
Ammi Jaan: (Narmi se) Beta,
larkiyon se dosti aur chatting se aksar zehni dabaaw aur pareshani paida hoti
hai. Mukhtalif tehqeeqi mutalay se yeh baat sabit hui hai ke aisi dostioun mein
larai jhagre aur ikhtilafat ki wajah se zehni dabaaw barhta hai, jo ke sehat ke
liye nuqsan deh hai.
3. Waqt Aur Tawanai Ka Zaya
Ammi Jaan: (Mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Beta, larkiyon se zyada dosti mein waqt aur tawanai ka zaya hota hai. Jo
waqt hum apni parhai, warzish, aur doosri mufeed sargarmiyon mein laga sakte
hain, woh un ghair zaroori dostioun mein zaya ho jata hai.
Islami Taleemat Ki Roshni Mein Naseehat
1. Ikhlaqi Pakeezgi
Ammi Jaan: (Narmi se) Allah
Ta'ala Quran mein farmata hai, "Aur be-hayai ke kamon ke qareeb na jao, jo
zahir hon aur jo poshida hon" (Surah Al-An'am: 151). Humein apne ikhlaq ko
pakeezah rakhna chahiye aur aisi dostioun se bachna chahiye jo humein be-hayai
ki taraf le ja sakti hain.
2. Nigah Ki Hifazat
Ammi Jaan: (Mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Nabi Kareem صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ne farmaya, "Nigah shaitan ke teeron mein se ek teer
hai" (Tirmizi). Humein apni nigahon ki hifazat karni chahiye aur ghair
zaroori dostioun se bachna chahiye jo hamare imaan ko kamzor kar sakti hain.
3. Waqt Ki Qadar
Ammi Jaan: (Narmi se) Islam
humein waqt ki qadar karne ki taleem deta hai. Nabi Kareem صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ne farmaya,
"Do naimaten aisi hain jin mein aksar log nuqsan mein rehte hain: sehat
aur faraghat ka waqt" (Sahih Bukhari). Humein apne waqt ka sahi istemal
karna chahiye aur ghair zaroori dostioun mein zaya nahi karna chahiye.
Pyar Bhari Naseehat
Ammi Jaan: (Muskurate hue) Mere
pyare bete, main tumse bohot mohabbat karti hoon aur tumhari sehat, khushhali
aur Kamiyabi ki fikr karti hoon. Mujhe yaqeen hai ke tum meri baaton ko
samjhoge aur aisi dostioun se bachne ki koshish karoge jo tumhare liye nuqsan
deh ho sakti hain.
Adil: (Dilchaspi se) Ammi, main
wada karta hoon ke main aapki naseehaton par amal karunga aur apni taleem aur
zindagi ki ahmiyat ko samajhte hue apne waqt ka sahi istemal karunga.
Maan ki pyar bhari naseehaton ne
Adil ke dil mein larkiyon se dosti ke nuqsanaat aur Islami taleemat ki ahmiyat
ko ujagar kiya. Usne maan ke mashwaron par amal karne ka wada kiya aur apni
zindagi ko behtar banane ke liye aisi dostioun se bachne ka ahad kiya. Maan ki
mohabbat aur tarbiyat ne Adil ki zindagi mein ek naya josh aur walwala paida kiya
aur use Allah ke qareeb kiya.
Dua
Allah humein aur humare bachon ko
sahi rasty par chalne, Islami taleemat par amal karne aur apni zindagi ko
behtar banane ki tofeeq ata farmaye. Aameen.
Lesson no16
Parhai Mein Dilchaspi: Kamiyabi Ki Kunji
Manzar: Ek shaam, maan apne
bachon, Ahmad (14 saal) aur Ayesha (16 saal) ke saath baith kar baatein kar
rahi hain.
Ammi Jaan: (Mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Ahmad, Ayesha, aaj mujhe tum dono se ek aham baat karni hai. Maine dekha
hai ke tum dono ke marks din badin kam hote ja rahe hain aur parhai mein
dilchaspi kam ho rahi hai. Lekin mujhe yaqeen hai ke hum is maslay ko hal kar
sakte hain. Main tumhein kuch misaalon se samjhana chahti hoon ke parhai kyun
zaroori hai aur is se zindagi mein kya kya faiday hote hain.
Parhai Ke Fawaid: Jadeed Misaalon Ke Saath
1. Achi Nokri Aur Mali
Isteqam
Ammi Jaan: (Narmi se) Beta, beti,
kya tum jaante ho ke achi taleem hasil karne se humein achi nokriyan milti
hain? Duniya bhar mein Kamiyab logon ki misaalen dekho jaise ke doctors,
engineers, aur scientists. Woh apni taleem ki wajah se aaj is maqam par puhnche
hain jahan unhein mali isteqam aur izzat mili hai.
2. Ilmi Shaoor Aur Behtar
Faislay
Ammi Jaan: (Mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Taleem humein ilmi shaoor aur behtar faislay karne ki salahiyat deti hai.
Jab hum taleem yafta hote hain, to hum apni zindagi ke har pehlu mein behtar
faislay kar sakte hain. Jaise ke apne mustaqbil ke bare mein, apni sehat ke
bare mein, aur apne muasharti masail ke hal ke bare mein.
3. Khud Aitmaadi Aur Izzat
Ammi Jaan: (Narmi se) Kya tum
jaante ho ke taleem humari khud aitmaadi ko barhati hai? Jab hum ilm hasil
karte hain to humein apne aap par yaqeen hota hai aur log bhi humein izzat ki
nigah se dekhte hain. Ek taleem yafta shakhs ko har jagah izzat milti hai.
Parhai Mein Dilchaspi Paida Karne Ke Ideas
1. Parhai Ke Liye Waqt
Muqarrar Karna
Ammi Jaan: (Mohabbat se) Beta,
beti, humein apni rozmarra ki zindagi mein parhai ke liye waqt muqarrar karna chahiye.
Ek time table banao aur is par amal karne ki koshish karo. Is se tumhari parhai
mein nazm o zabt aaye ga aur tumhari dilchaspi barh jaye gi.
2. Mushkil Mazameen Ke Liye
Madad Lena
Ammi Jaan: (Narmi se) Agar koi
mazaAmmin tumhein mushkil lag raha hai to apne teachers ya doston se madad lo.
Akelay pareshan hone se behtar hai ke hum doosron ki madad se apni mushkilat ko
hal karein.
3. Padhai Ke Dauran Waqfay
Lena
Ammi Jaan: (Mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Parhai ke dauran waqfay lena bhi zaroori hai. Har ghante ke baad thoda sa
aaram karo, pani piyo, ya thodi dair ke liye tehlo. Is se tumhari zehni aur
jismani taza gi bahal ho jaye gi aur parhai mein dilchaspi bhi barh jaye gi.
Islami Taleemat Ki Roshni Mein Naseehat
1. Ilm Ki Ahmiyat
Ammi Jaan: (Narmi se) Quran mein
Allah Ta'ala farmata hai, "Aur kaho: Ai mere Rab! Mere ilm mein izafa
farma" (Surah Taha: 114). Ilm hasil karna har Musalman par farz hai aur
ilm humein duniya aur aakhirat mein Kamiyabi dilata hai.
2. Qoum Ki Khidmat
Ammi Jaan: (Mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Nabi Kareem صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ne farmaya, "Tum mein se behtareen woh hai jo doosron ko
nafa puhnchaye" (Bukhari). Jab hum taleem yafta honge to hum apni qoum ki
khidmat kar sakenge. Aaj Ummat-e-Muslima taleem mein peeche hone ki wajah se
bohot se masail ka samna kar rahi hai. Humein apni taleem mein mehnat kar ke in
masail ko hal karne mein apna hissa dalna chahiye.
3. Waqt Ki Qadar
Ammi Jaan: (Narmi se) Islam
humein waqt ki qadar karne ki taleem deta hai. Nabi Kareem صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ne farmaya,
"Do naimaten aisi hain jin mein aksar log nuqsan mein rehte hain: sehat
aur faraghat ka waqt" (Sahih Bukhari). Humein apne waqt ka sahi istemal
karna chahiye aur ilm hasil karne mein apna waqt lagana chahiye.
Pyar Bhari Naseehat
Ammi Jaan: (Muskurate hue) Mere
pyare bachon, main tum se bohot mohabbat karti hoon aur tumhari khushhali aur Kamiyabi
ki fikr karti hoon. Mujhe yaqeen hai ke tum meri baaton ko samjhoge aur apni
taleem mein mehnat karoge. Main hamesha tumhare saath hoon aur tumhari har
mushkil mein tumhari madad karne ke liye tayar hoon.
Ahmad Aur Ayesha: (Dilchaspi se) Ammi,
hum wada karte hain ke hum aapki naseehaton par amal karenge aur apni taleem
mein mehnat karenge. Hum apne mustaqbil ko behtar banane ke liye poori koshish
karenge.
Maan ki pyar bhari naseehaton ne
Ahmad aur Ayesha ke dil mein parhai ki ahmiyat aur Islami taleemat ki roshni
mein ilm hasil karne ki zaroorat ko ujagar kiya. Unhone maan ke mashwaron par
amal karne ka wada kiya aur apni zindagi ko behtar banane ke liye mehnat karne
ka ahad kiya. Maan ki mohabbat aur tarbiyat ne unki zindagi mein ek naya josh
aur walwala paida kiya aur unhein Allah ke qareeb kiya.
Dua
Allah humein aur humare bachon ko
sahi raste par chalne, Islami taleemat par amal karne aur apni zindagi ko
behtar banane ki tofeeq ata farmaaye. Aameen.
Lesson no17
Mehman Nawazi: Dil Ki Sakhawat
Ek shaam, maan apne bachon, Hasan
(15 saal) aur Fatimah (13 saal) ke saath baith kar baatein kar rahi hain.
Ammi jaan: (mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Hasan, Fatimah, mujhe kuch dino se ek baat bohot pareshan kar rahi hai.
Main ne dekha hai ke jab bhi humare ghar mein mehman aate hain to tum dono un
se milne aur salaam karne se katrate ho aur apne apne kamron mein baithe rehte
ho. Beta, beti, yeh rawayya na sirf humare ikhlaq ke khilaaf hai balki Islami
taleemat ke bhi khilaaf hai.
Mehman Nawazi Ki Fazilat
Mehman Allah Ki Rehmat Hote
Hain
Ammi jaan: (narmi se) Humare Nabi
Kareem صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ne farmaya hai ke jo shakhs Allah aur aakhrat ke din par imaan
rakhta hai wo apne mehman ka ikram kare (Sahih Bukhari). Jab koi mehman humare
ghar aata hai, to wo Allah ki rehmat ke saath aata hai aur humein unki izzat
aur khidmat karni chahiye.
Barkat Ka Sabab
Ammi jaan: (mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Jab hum mehman nawazi karte hain to humare ghar mein barkat aati hai.
Nabi Kareem صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ne farmaya hai ke mehman ki wajah se ghar mein rizq ki barkat
barhti hai. Humein khushi se mehmanon ka istaqbaal karna chahiye aur unki
khidmat ko apna farz samajhna chahiye.
Khush Ikhlaqi Ka Muzahira
Ammi jaan: (narmi se) Mehman
nawazi humari khush ikhlaqi ka muzahira karti hai. Jab hum mehmanon ke saath
khush ikhlaqi se pesh aate hain, to wo bhi humare achay ikhlaq ki tareef karte
hain aur Allah ta'ala bhi hum se raazi hota hai.
Mehman Nawazi Ke Adaab
Salaam Karna
Ammi jaan: (mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Jab bhi koi mehman ghar mein aaye, to sab se pehle unhein salaam karo.
Nabi Kareem صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ne farmaya hai ke salaam phailana imaan ka hissa hai. Salaam
karne se dilon mein mohabbat barhti hai aur Allah ki barkat hasil hoti hai.
Khush Aamdeed Kehna
Ammi jaan: (narmi se) Mehman ko
khush aamdeed kehna aur unka khushi se istaqbaal karna humari zimmedari hai.
Humein unke liye pani ya chai pesh karni chahiye aur unki zarooriat ka khayal
rakhna chahiye.
Baat Cheet Karna
Ammi jaan: (mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Mehmanon ke saath baat cheet karna aur unki khairiyat maloom karna bhi
bohot zaroori hai. Is se wo mehsoos karte hain ke hum unka ehteram karte hain
aur unki izzat karte hain.
Madad Karna
Ammi jaan: (narmi se) Jab bhi
mehman ghar mein aayein, to humein unki khidmat mein apni maan ki madad karni
chahiye. Maslan, chai ya pani pesh karna, unke liye kamra tayar karna, aur
deegar zarooriat ka khayal rakhna.
Pyar Bhari Naseehat
Ammi jaan: (muskurate hue) Mere
pyare bachon, mehman nawazi ek azeem sunnat hai aur humein apne ikhlaq mein
isay shaAmmil karna chahiye. Main jaanti hoon ke tum dono bohot achay bachay ho
aur meri baaton ko samjho ge. Humein apne mehmanon ka ehteram karna chahiye aur
unki khidmat ko apni zimmedari samajhna chahiye.
Hasan aur Fatimah: (dilchaspi se)
Ammi, hum wada karte hain ke hum aapki naseehaton par amal karenge aur mehmanon
ka ehteram karenge. Hum har mumkin koshish karenge ke jab bhi mehman ghar mein
aayein, to hum unka khair maqdam karein aur aapki madad karein.
Maan ki pyar bhari naseehaton ne
Hasan aur Fatimah ke dil mein mehman nawazi ki ahmiyat ko ujaagar kiya. Unho ne
maan ke mashwaron par amal karne ka wada kiya aur apni zindagi mein mehman
nawazi ko shaAmmil karne ka azm kiya. Maan ki mohabbat aur tarbiyat ne unki
zindagi mein ek naya josh aur walwala paida kiya aur unhein Allah ke qareeb
kiya.
Allah humein aur humare bachon ko
sahi raste par chalne, Islami taleemat par amal karne aur apni zindagi ko
behtar banane ki taufeeq ata farmaye. Aameen.
Lesson no18
Jhoot Bolna: Sach Ki Raah Mein Rukaawat
Ek shaam, maan apne bachon, Hasan
(15 saal) aur Fatima (13 saal) ke saath baith kar baatein kar rahi hain.
Ammi Jaan: (Mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Hasan, Fatima, mujhe tum dono se ek bohat zaroori baat karni hai. Mujhe
ehsaas hua hai ke tum dono kabhi kabhi choti choti baaton mein jhoot bolte ho,
jaise ke namaz parhne ya Quran ki tilawat karne ke bare mein. Beta, beti, yeh
aadat na sirf hamare imaan ke khilaf hai balki hamare ikhlaaq ke bhi khilaf
hai.
Jhoot Bolne Ke Nafsiyaati Nuqsanaat
Zehenni Dabao
Ammi Jaan: (Narmi se) Jab hum
jhoot bolte hain, to humein hamesha is jhoot ko chhupane ke liye naye jhoot
bolne padte hain. Yeh ek na khatam hone wala silsila ban jata hai jisse hamara
zehenni dabao barhta hai aur hum har waqt bechain rehte hain.
Aitmaad Ki KAmmi
Ammi Jaan: (Mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Jhoot bolne se hamara khud par aitmaad kam ho jata hai. Hum apne andar ek
kamzori mehsoos karte hain aur doosron ke samne sharmindagi mehsoos karte hain.
Rishton Mein Daraar
Ammi Jaan: (Narmi se) Jhoot bolne
se hamare rishte bhi mutasir hote hain. Log hum par aitmaad nahi karte aur
hamare sach ko bhi jhoot samajhte hain. Is se hamare qareebi rishte mein doori
aa jaati hai.
Zindagi Par Asraat
Ta'aleemi NakAmmi
Ammi Jaan: (Mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Jab hum jhoot bolte hain aur apni zimmedariyon ko nazarandaaz karte hain,
to is ka asar hamari taleem par bhi padta hai. Hum apni padhai mein peeche reh
jate hain aur kamyabi hasil nahi kar pate.
Peshawarana NakAmmi
Ammi Jaan: (Narmi se) Zindagi
mein kamyab hone ke liye sachai aur imaandari bohat zaroori hai. Jab hum jhoot
bolte hain, to hum apni peshawarana zindagi mein bhi nakaam ho jate hain. Log
hum par aitmaad nahi karte aur humein achhe moqaatein nahi milte.
Samaji NakAmmi
Ammi Jaan: (Mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Jhoot bolne se hum apni samaji zindagi mein bhi nakaam ho jate hain. Log
hum se door rehne lagte hain aur humein nazarandaaz karte hain. Hum tanhaayi ka
shikaar ho jate hain.
Islami Taleemat Ki Roshni Mein
Allah Ka Ghussa
Ammi Jaan: (Narmi se) Hamare Nabi
Kareem صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ne farmaya hai ke jhoot imaan ke sath nahi hota. Jab hum jhoot
bolte hain, to Allah hum se naaraz hota hai aur hamari duaein qabool nahi hoti.
Aakhirat Mein Saza
Ammi Jaan: (Mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Quran mein bhi jhoot bolne walon ke liye sakht saza ka zikar hai. Allah
ta'ala farmata hai ke jhoot bolne walon ka thikana jahannam hai. Humein apne
aamaal ko durust karna chahiye taake hum aakhirat mein kamyab ho saken.
Ikhlaqi Tarbiyat
Ammi Jaan: (Narmi se) Nabi Kareem
صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ki zindagi hamare liye behtareen namoona hai. Unho ne kabhi
jhoot nahi bola aur hamesha sachai ka daaman thaame rakha. Humein bhi unki
sunnat par amal karna chahiye aur apni zindagi mein sachai ko apnana chahiye.
Pyar Bhari Naseehat
Ammi Jaan: (Muskurate hue) Mere
pyare bachon, jhoot bolne se humein kuch hasil nahi hota balki hamara nuqsan hi
hota hai. Humein sachai ko apni zindagi ka hissa banana chahiye aur har haal
mein sach bolna chahiye. Main jaanti hoon ke tum dono bohat achhe bachay ho aur
meri baaton ko samjho ge.
Hasan aur Fatima: (Dilchaspi se) Ammi,
hum wada karte hain ke hum aap ki naseehaton par amal karenge aur kabhi jhoot
nahi bolenge. Hum sachai ko apni zindagi ka hissa banayenge aur hamesha
imaandari se pesh aayenge.
Maan ki pyar bhari naseehaton ne
Hasan aur Fatima ke dil mein sachai ki ahmiyat ko ujaagar kiya. Unho ne maan ke
mashwaron par amal karne ka wada kiya aur apni zindagi mein sachai ko shaAmmil
karne ka azm kiya. Maan ki mohabbat aur tarbiyat ne unki zindagi mein ek naya
josh aur walwala paida kiya aur unhein Allah ke qareeb kiya.
Allah humein aur hamare bachon ko
sahi raste par chalne, Islami taleemat par amal karne aur apni zindagi ko
behtar banane ki tofeeq ata farmaye. Aameen.
Lesson no19
Ghair Zaroori Shopping: Maali Bojh
Ek shaam, maan apne bachon, Hasan
(15 saal) aur Fatima (13 saal) ke sath baith kar baatein kar rahi hain.
Ammi Jaan: (mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Hasan, Fatima, mujhe tum dono se ek zaroori baat karni hai. Maine dekha
hai ke tum dono baar baar shopping mein dilchaspi rakhte ho aur brand wali
cheezen kharidne ka shauq rakhte ho. Beta, beti, yeh aadat na sirf maali
mushkilat ka sabab ban sakti hai balki hamare dilon mein qana'at ki sift bhi
khatam kar sakti hai.
Maliyati Nuqsanat
Budget par Bojh
Ammi Jaan: (narmi se) Baar baar
shopping karne se hamare budget par bojh padta hai. Humein apne kharach ko
mutawazin rakhna chahiye taake hum zarooriyaat ko poora kar sakein aur
mustaqbil ke liye bachat kar sakein.
Ghair Zaroori Kharch
Ammi Jaan: (mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Jab hum ghair zaroori cheezen kharidte hain, to hum apna paisa zaya karte
hain jo kisi aur mufeed kaam mein istemal ho sakta hai. Humein sirf wahi
cheezen kharidni chahiye jo waqai zaroori hon.
Qarz mein Mubtala Hona
Ammi Jaan: (narmi se) Ghair
zaroori shopping karne se hum qarz mein mubtala ho sakte hain. Jab hum apni
zarooriyaat ke liye paise nahi bachate, to humein qarz lena padta hai jo hamari
maali haalat ko mazeed kharab kar sakta hai.
Nafsiyati Nuqsanat
Ehsas-e-Adam Taskeen
Ammi Jaan: (mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Ghair zaroori shopping karne se humein waqtai khushi to milti hai, magar
uske baad humein adam taskeen ka ehsas hota hai. Humein hamesha kuch naya
kharidne ki khwahish rehti hai jo kabhi poori nahi hoti.
Ehsas-e-Kamtri
Ammi Jaan: (narmi se) Jab hum
brand wali cheezon ke peechay bhagte hain, to hum apne aap ko doosron se kam
tar samajhne lagte hain. Humein apni qabilat aur khoobiyon par fakhar karna
chahiye, na ke cheezon par.
Nafsiyati Dabao
Ammi Jaan: (mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Baar baar shopping karne se humein nafsiyati dabao ka samna karna padta
hai. Humein apni zarooriyaat ko poora karne ki fikr rehti hai aur hum apni
zindagi ke doosre aham kamon se ghafil ho jaate hain.
Qana'at Ki Aadat Paida Karna
Na'amaton ka Shukr
Ammi Jaan: (narmi se) Humein
Allah Ta'ala ki di hui na'amaton ka shukr ada karna chahiye aur qana'at ki
aadat apnani chahiye. Qana'at se hamare dil mein sukoon aur itminan paida hota
hai aur hum zyada khush rehte hain.
Zaroorat par Iktifa
Ammi Jaan: (mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Humein apni zaroorat par iktifa karna chahiye aur ghair zaroori cheezon
ki kharidari se bachna chahiye. Is se hum apni zindagi mein tawazun paida kar
sakte hain aur maali mushkilat se bach sakte hain.
Islami Taleemat Ki Roshni Mein
Israaf ka Gunah
Ammi Jaan: (narmi se) Allah
Ta'ala ne Quran mein israaf karne walon ko na-pasandeeda qarar diya hai. Humein
apni zindagi mein israaf se bachna chahiye aur wasail ko zaya karne se bachna
chahiye.
Qana'at Ki Fazilat
Ammi Jaan: (mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Hamare Nabi Kareem صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ne qana'at ko iman ki alamat qarar diya hai. Qana'at se hamare
dil mein sukoon paida hota hai aur hum Allah ki raza hasil kar sakte hain.
Mushkil Halaat Mein Sabr
Ammi Jaan: (narmi se) Zindagi
mein hamesha ek jaise halat nahi rehte. Aaj agar hamare paas maal-o-doulat hai,
to zaroori nahi ke hamesha aise hi rahe. Humein mushkil halat mein sabr aur
shukr karna chahiye aur israaf se bachna chahiye.
Pyar Bhari Naseehat
Ammi Jaan: (muskurate hue) Mere
pyare bachon, ghair zaroori shopping aur israaf se humein kuch hasil nahi hota
balki hamara nuqsan hi hota hai. Humein qana'at ki aadat apnani chahiye aur
apni zindagi mein saadiagi ko shaAmmil karna chahiye. Main jaanti hoon ke tum
dono bohot achay bachay ho aur meri baaton ko samjho ge.
Hasan aur Fatima: (dilchaspi se)
Ammi, hum wada karte hain ke hum aap ki naseehaton par amal karenge aur ghair
zaroori shopping se bachenge. Hum qana'at ki aadat apnayein ge aur apni zindagi
mein saadiagi ko shaAmmil karenge.
Maan ki pyar bhari naseehaton ne
Hasan aur Fatima ke dil mein qana'at ki ahmiyat ko ujagar kiya. Unhone maan ke
mashwaron par amal karne ka wada kiya aur apni zindagi mein saadiagi ko shaAmmil
karne ka azm kiya. Maan ki mohabbat aur tarbiyat ne unki zindagi mein ek naya
josh aur walwalah paida kiya aur unhein Allah ke qareeb kiya.
Allah humein aur hamare bachon ko
sahi raste par chalne, Islami taleemat par amal karne aur apni zindagi ko
behtar banane ki taufeeq ata farmaye. Aameen.
Lesson no20
Imtihaanaat mein Cheating: Kamiyabi ka Dhoka
Ek shaam, maan apne bachon, Ali
(16 saal) aur Sarah (14 saal) ke saath baith kar batein kar rahi hain.
Ammi Jaan: (mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Ali, Sarah, mujhe tum dono se ek zaroori baat karni hai. Main ne mehsoos
kiya hai ke tum dono imtihaanaat mein cheating kar rahe ho. Beta, beti, yeh
aadat na sirf taleemi maidan mein balki mustaqbil mein bhi humare liye bohot
nuqsan deh sabit ho sakti hai.
Taleemi Maidan mein Cheating ke Nuqsanat
1. Ilm ka Fuqdan
Ammi Jaan: (narmi se) Jab hum
cheating karte hain to hum sahi tareeke se ilm hasil nahi kar pate. Hum sirf
numbrat ke peechay bhagte hain aur asal ilm se door rehte hain.
2. Aetemaad ki KAmmi
Ammi Jaan: (mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Cheating karne se humare andar khud aitemaadi ki kAmmi paida hoti hai.
Hum apne aap par bharosa nahi kar pate aur hamesha doosre zaraye par inhesaar
karte hain.
3. Taleemi Taraqqi mein
Rukaawat
Ammi Jaan: (narmi se) Jab hum
cheating karte hain to humari taleemi taraqqi ruk jaati hai. Humein apni
salahiyaton ko behtar banane ki zaroorat hai na ke short cut ikhtiyar karne ki.
Career mein Aaney Walay Nuqsanat
1. Pesha Waraana Zindagi
mein Mushkilat
Ammi Jaan: (mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Jab hum cheating ke zariye numbrat hasil karte hain to hum pesha waraana
zindagi mein bhi mushkilat ka samna karte hain. Humein kaam mein maharaat hasil
nahi hoti aur hum apni zimmedariyan sahi tareeke se ada nahi kar pate.
2. Ghair Ikhlaaqi Rawaiya
Ammi Jaan: (narmi se) Cheating
karne se humara rawaiya ghair ikhlaaqi ho jata hai. Hum jhoot bolne aur dhoka
dene ki aadat mein mubtala ho jate hain jo humare career mein bhi masail paida
karta hai.
3. Aetemaad ki KAmmi
Ammi Jaan: (mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Cheating karne se humare andar khud aitemaadi ki kAmmi paida hoti hai.
Hum apne aap par bharosa nahi kar pate aur hamesha doosre zaraye par inhesaar
karte hain.
Islami Taleemat ki Roshni Mein
1. Dhoka Dahi ka Gunah
Ammi Jaan: (narmi se) Islam mein
dhoka dahi ko sakhti se mana kiya gaya hai. Humare Nabi Kareem ﷺ ne farmaya ke "Jis ne dhoka
diya woh hum mein se nahi" (Saheeh Muslim). Humein har haal mein sachai
aur diyanat dari ka daaman thaamna chahiye.
2. Iman-daari ki Fazilat
Ammi Jaan: (mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Islam humein iman-daari aur sachai ki taleem deta hai. Humein apne kaamon
mein sachai aur diyanat dari se kaam lena chahiye taake hum Allah ki raza hasil
kar saken.
3. Qayamat ke Din Hisaab
Ammi Jaan: (narmi se) Humein yeh
yaad rakhna chahiye ke qayamat ke din humein apne har amal ka hisaab dena hoga.
Cheating karke hum duniya mein to Kamiyab ho sakte hain magar aakhirat mein
nakam ho jayenge.
Pyar Bhari Naseehat
Ammi Jaan: (muskurate hue) Mere
pyare bachon, cheating se humein kuch hasil nahi hota balki humara nuqsan hi
hota hai. Humein sachai aur diyanat dari ka raasta ikhtiyar karna chahiye aur
apne ilm aur salahiyaton ko behtar banane ki koshish karni chahiye. Main jaanti
hoon ke tum dono bohot achay bachay ho aur meri baton ko samjho ge.
Ali aur Sarah: (dilchaspi se) Ammi,
hum wada karte hain ke hum aap ki naseehaton par amal karenge aur cheating se
bachenge. Hum apni taleem mein mehnat karenge aur sachai ka daaman thaameinge.
Maan ki pyar bhari naseehaton ne
Ali aur Sarah ke dil mein sachai aur diyanat dari ki ahmiyat ko ujagar kiya.
Unhon ne maan ke mashwaron par amal karne ka wada kiya aur cheating se bachne
ka azm kiya. Maan ki mohabbat aur tarbiyat ne unki zindagi mein ek naya josh
aur walwala paida kiya aur unhein Allah ke kareeb kiya.
Allah humein aur hamare bachon ko
sahi raaste par chalne, Islami taleemat par amal karne aur apni zindagi ko
behtar banane ki taufeeq ata farmaye. Aameen.
Lesson no21
Kam Umri Mein Bike aur Mehngay Phone: Khatarnak Khel
Maan ki Pyar Bhari Naseehat
Ek shaam, maan (Ammi Jaan) apne
14 saal ke betay, Ahmed, ke saath baith kar baatein kar rahi hain.
Ammi Jaan: (mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Ahmed, beta, mujhe maloom hai ke tum bike aur mehnga phone chahte ho.
Lekin beta, mujhe tumhari fikar hai aur main chahti hoon ke tum samjho ke yeh
dono cheezein is umar mein tumhare liye kyon munasib nahi hain.
Kam Umri Mein Bike Chalane ke Nuqsanaat
1. Haadsaat ka Khatra
Ammi Jaan: (narmi se) Beta, kam
umri mein bike chalane se haadsaat ka khatra barh jata hai. Reports ke mutabiq,
na-baligh bachon ke bike chalane se haadsaat mein izafa ho raha hai. Tumhein
pata hai ke har saal kitne bachay bike haadsaat mein zakhmi ya halaak ho jate
hain? Humein apni hifazat ke baare mein sanjeeda hona chahiye.
2. Qanooni Masail
Ammi Jaan: (mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Kam umri mein bike chalana qanooni tor par bhi sahi nahi hai. Agar koi
haadsa ho jaye ya police pakar le to humein bohot zyada masail ka samna karna
par sakta hai. Humein qanoon ki paasdari karni chahiye.
3. Maharat ki KAmmi
Ammi Jaan: (narmi se) Tum abhi
bike chalane ke liye mukammal tor par maahir nahi ho. Is umar mein bike chalana
na sirf tumhare liye balki doosron ke liye bhi khatarnak ho sakta hai.
Mehngay Phone ke Nuqsanaat
1. Taleem par Manfi Asar
Ammi Jaan: (mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Beta, mehngay phone ka istemal tumhari taleem par manfi asar daal sakta
hai. Tumhari tawajjo phone ki taraf zyada ho jayegi aur tumhari parhai mutasir
ho sakti hai.
2. Raat Din ki Routine mein
Khalal
Ammi Jaan: (narmi se) Mehnga
phone raat din ki routine ko bhi mutasir karta hai. Tumhein pata hai ke phone
ki wajah se neend ki kAmmi ho sakti hai jo sehat ke liye nuqsan deh hai.
3. Maali Masail
Ammi Jaan: (mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Mehnga phone kharidne se maali masail bhi paida ho sakte hain. Humein
apne wasail ka sahi istemal karna chahiye aur fazool kharchi se bachna chahiye.
Deeni Aitbaar se Dalail
1. Israaf ka Gunah
Ammi Jaan: (narmi se) Islam mein
fazool kharchi ko napasand kiya gaya hai. Allah Ta'ala ne humein har cheez ka
itidal mein istemal karne ka hukum diya hai. Fazool kharchi na sirf maali
nuqsan ka baais banti hai balki deeni tor par bhi ghalat hai.
2. Hifazat ki Ahmiyat
Ammi Jaan: (mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Nabi Kareem ﷺ ne farmaya hai ke tumhari jaan ka tum par haq hai. Humein apni
hifazat ka khayal rakhna chahiye aur ghair zaroori khatron se bachna chahiye.
3. Waqt ki Qadar
Ammi Jaan: (narmi se) Islam mein
waqt ki qadar karne ki bohot zyada takeed hai. Humein apna waqt sahi kaamon
mein sarf karna chahiye aur fazool cheezon mein zaya nahi karna chahiye.
Pyar Bhari Naseehat
Ammi Jaan: (muskurate hue) Mere
pyare Ahmed, main tumse bohot mohabbat karti hoon aur tumhari behtari ke liye
hi yeh sab keh rahi hoon. Mujhe yaqeen hai ke tum meri baton ko samjho ge aur
bike aur mehngay phone ke baghair bhi khush raho ge.
Ahmed: (dilchaspi se) Ammi, main
samajh gaya hoon. Main wada karta hoon ke main aap ki baton par amal karoonga
aur in cheezon ki zid nahi karoonga.
Maan ki pyar bhari naseehaton ne
Ahmed ke dil mein sahi aur ghalat ka farq ujagar kiya. Usne maan ke mashwaron
par amal karne ka wada kiya aur bike aur mehngay phone ki zid chor di. Maan ki
mohabbat aur tarbiyat ne Ahmed ko sahi raste par chalne aur apni zindagi ko
behtar banane ki tehreek di.
Allah humein aur hamare bachon ko
sahi raste par chalne, Islami taleemat par amal karne aur apni zindagi ko
behtar banane ki taufeeq ata farmaaye. Aameen.
Lesson no22
Zindagi Bhar Kaam Anay Wali Adaat aur Mahaaratein
Ek shaam, maan apne do bachon,
Ahmed aur Fatima, ke saath baith kar baatein kar rahi hain.
Ammi Jaan: (muskurate hue) Mere
pyare bachho, main chahti hoon ke hum aaj kuch khaas baat karein. Tum dono is
umar mein ho jahan nai adaat aur maharatein seekhne ka behtareen waqt hai. Yeh
adaat aur maharatein na sirf tumhari zindagi ko behtar banayengi balki tumhein
kamyabi ki raah par bhi gamzan karengi.
Achhi Adaat
1. Mutala’a Ki Aadat
Ammi Jaan: (narmi se) Mutala’a ki
aadat ek bohot hi ahem aadat hai. Jo log kitaabein parhte hain, unka ilm barhta
hai aur woh nai cheezein seekhte hain. Misaal ke tor par, agar tum rozana sirf
20 minute ke liye bhi kitaab parho, to saal bhar mein tum kitni kitaabein parh
sakte ho. Is se tumhare khayalaat wasee honge aur tumhari shakhsiyat mein
nikhar aaye ga.
2. Nazm o Zabt
Ammi Jaan: (mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Nazm o zabt ka matlab hai ke hum apne kaamon ko waqt par karein aur apni
zindagi ko munazzam rakhein. Yeh aadat tumhein zindagi bhar kamyaab banayegi.
Misaal ke tor par, agar tum har roz ek hi waqt par uthho aur apne saare kaam
waqt par karo, to tum dekho ge ke tumhari zindagi kitni aasaan ho gayi hai.
3. Shukr Guzari
Ammi Jaan: (narmi se) Shukr
guzari ki aadat humein zindagi ke har lamhe mein khush rehne ka tareeqa sikhati
hai. Humein Allah Ta'ala ka shukr ada karna chahiye aur un logon ka bhi
shukriya ada karna chahiye jo hamari madad karte hain. Is se dil mein sukoon aur
khushi aati hai.
Mahaaratein
1. Technology Ka Istemaal
Ammi Jaan: (muskurate hue)
Bachon, aaj kal ki duniya mein technology ka istemaal bohot zaroori hai. Humein
computer, internet aur deegar jadeed technologies ka sahi istemaal seekhna
chahiye. Misaal ke tor par, agar tum coding seekh lo to tum apni takhleeqi
salahiyaton ko mazeed barha sakte ho aur nai applications bana sakte ho.
2. Critical Thinking
Ammi Jaan: (narmi se) Tanqeedi
sochne ki salahiyat humein masail ka hal talash karne mein madad deti hai.
Humein har cheez ko sawaliya nazar se dekhna chahiye aur us ke baare mein
sochna chahiye. Misaal ke tor par, agar tumhein koi masla darpaish ho to us ke
mukhtalif pehluon par ghour karo aur phir behtareen hal talash karo.
3. Rabtay Ki Maharat
(Communication Skills)
Ammi Jaan: (mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Achhe rabtay ki maharat bohot zaroori hai. Humein apni baat ko doosron
tak sahi tareeqa se pehunchana chahiye. Misaal ke tor par, agar tum apne doston
ya asaatiza ke saath achhe tareeqa se baat karo ge to tumhein behtar nataij
milenge aur log tumhein pasand kareinge.
1. Mustaqbil Ke Taqazay
Ammi Jaan: (narmi se) 21vi sadi
mein kamyaab hone ke liye humein mukhtalif maharatein seekhni hongi jaise ke
digital literacy, critical thinking, aur communication skills. Duniya bhar ki
tahqiqat yeh batati hain ke yeh maharatein tumhein har medaan mein aage barhne
mein madad dengi.
2. Islam Ki Roshni Mein
Ammi Jaan: (mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Islam bhi humein yeh taleem deta hai ke hum ilm hasil karein aur apni
salahiyaton ko behtar banayen. Nabi Kareem ﷺ ne farmaya hai ke ilm hasil
karna har musalman mard aur aurat par farz hai. Humein apni zindagi ko behtar
banane ke liye ilm hasil karna chahiye aur apni salahiyaton ko barhana chahiye.
Dilchasps Misaalein
Ammi Jaan: (muskurate hue) Ahmed,
Fatima, socho ke agar tum dono mil kar ek project par kaam karo aur is mein
apni maharaton ka istemaal karo. Maslan, Ahmed agar computer ka istemaal karke
ek presentation banaye aur Fatima agar us ko khubsurati se pesh kare, to kitna
maza aaye ga.
Pyar Bhari Naseehat
Ammi Jaan: (mohabbat bhare lehje
mein) Mere pyare bachon, main tum dono se bohot mohabbat karti hoon aur chahti
hoon ke tum zindagi mein kamyaab ho jao. In adaat aur maharaton ko seekho aur
apni zindagi ko behtar banao. Allah Ta'ala tumhein kamyaab kare aur hamesha
khush rakhe. Aameen.
Maan ki pyar bhari naseehaton ne
Ahmed aur Fatima ko nai adaat aur maharatein seekhne ki tehreek di. Unhone maan
ki baaton ko dil se qabool kiya aur apni zindagi ko behtar banane ki koshish
shuru ki. Maan ki mohabbat aur tarbiyat ne un ki zindagi mein positive
tabdeeliyaan laayin.
Allah humein aur hamare bachon ko
sahi raste par chalne, Islami taleemat par amal karne aur apni zindagi ko
behtar banane ki taufeeq ata farmaaye. Aameen.
Ammi Jaan: (Pyar se bachon ko jagate hue) Mere pyare bachon, uth jao. Fajar ki namaz ka waqt ho gaya hai.
Hanzala: (Karwat lete hue) Ammi, thodi dair aur sone do, bohat neend aa rahi hai.
Zikra: (Onghte hue) Haan Ammi, hum baad mein namaz parh lenge.
Shaykh Nooruddin Umeri, born on the 1st of June, 1978, is a renowned Islaamic scholar, speaker and researcher from Hyderabad, India. He has delivered thousands of talks all over India – in organized programs as well as Friday Sermons in Masaajid. Apart from the lengthy speeches, his short and informative videos on YouTube, on a variety of topics, have a large number of followers, Alhamdulillaah.
He is a successful Child Psychologist, Mentor, Trainer and a Family Therapist. With in-depth understanding of Islaam, and implementation upon the Manhaj of Salaf As-Saaliheen, he specializes in counseling students, parents and spouses in the light of Sharee’ah – by guiding them to be Aakhirah focussed in this busy, competitive world.
EDUCATION:
Aalim Faazil – Jamia Darussalam, Oomerabad.
Bachelor of Arts, Arabic – Madras University.
Master of Arts, Arabic – English & Foreign Languages University (EFLU), Hyderabad.
Diploma in Translation – English & Foreign Languages University (EFLU), Hyderabad.
Master of Philosophy, Arabic – English & Foreign Languages University (EFLU), Hyderabad
Master of Arts, Urdu – Central University of Hyderabad, Hyderabad
TEACHING EXPERIENCE:
Worked as an Arabic Lecturer at Narayana Junior College, Hyderabad for a period of 10 years.
Worked at Jamia Darul Furqaan, Sayeedabad, Hyderabad.
Jamia Hafsa Alssalfiya, Golconda, Hyderabad
RESEARCH WORK:
AskIslamPedia – An online Islamic Encyclopedia, Head office – Hyderabad, India
CURRENT DESIGNATION:
Director, Ocean The ABM School, Hyderabad, India.
Founder: Deeni Taleem for Kids, E-Learning, Head office – Hyderabad, India.
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