Ek Naujawan Ka Sawal
Meri umr 19 saal hai aur main Engineering ka student hun. Mere college mein kai aise friends hain jo namaz nahin padhte, lekin un ka character bohot achha hai. Woh jhoot nahin bolte, doosron ki help karte hain aur sab un ki respect karte hain. Doosri taraf kuch namazi logon ka behaviour dekh kar dil aur bhi confuse ho jata hai. Phir main namaz kyun padhun?

Jawab Mere azeez bhai! Tumhara sawal naya nahin, lekin bohot important hai. Khushi ki baat yeh hai ke tum mazaq ke liye nahin, samajhne ke liye sawal kar rahe ho.
Agar tum mere saamne baithe hote to main foran jawab na deta. Main sirf ek sawal poochta:

"Agar koi shakhs poori duniya ke saath bohot achha ho, lekin apne parents se kabhi baat hi na kare, un ki koi baat na maane, to kya tum use waqai ek complete achha insaan kahoge?"

Yaqeenan nahin. Kyun? Kyun ke us ne apne sab se important relationship ka haq ada nahin kiya. Bilkul isi tarah Allah ka bhi hum par ek haq hai.

Allah Ka Bhi Hum Par Haq Hai Yeh baat bilkul sach hai ke doosron ke saath achha behaviour bohot badi neki hai. Islam humein honesty, trust, kindness, mercy, service aur good character sikhata hai. Lekin ek sawal socho...

Jis Allah ne tumhein paida kiya... Saans di... Aqal di... Parents diye... Health di... Aur har lamha tumhari protection kar raha hai... Kya us ka tum par koi haq nahin?

Namaz asal mein usi haq ka naam hai. Good character logon ka haq hai, namaz Allah ka haq hai. Ek haq ada karne se doosra haq khatam nahin hota.

Phir Be-Namazi Achhe Kyun Hote Hain? Yeh bhi haqeeqat hai ke kuch be-namazi logon mein bohot achhi qualities hoti hain. Islam humein fairness sikhata hai. Jis mein jo achhi baat ho us ka i'tiraf karna chahiye. Lekin... Good qualities hona aur Allah ka hukm maanna... yeh do alag cheezein hain.

Socho... Ek student Mathematics mein 100/100 marks le aaye, lekin baaqi tamam subjects ka paper hi na de. Kya woh successful student kehlayega? Bilkul nahin.

Isi tarah achha character apni jagah bohot qeemti hai... Lekin namaz ko chhod dena ek alag masla hai.

Namazi Bad-Akhlaq Kyun Hote Hain? Shayad tum ne aise log bhi dekhe hon jo namaz padhte hain... Lekin gussa bhi karte hain... Jhoot bhi bolte hain... Aur logon ko takleef bhi dete hain. Yaad rakho... Yeh namaz ki kharabi nahin... namazi ki weakness hai.

Allah Ta'ala farmata hai:

"Beshak namaz be-hayai aur bure kaamon se rokti hai."
(Surah Al-Ankaboot: 45)

Agar koi shakhs namaz padhne ke bawajood apna character nahin badal raha... To use apni namaz improve karne ki zarurat hai... Na ke namaz chhod dene ki. Hum kisi patient ko medicine galat tareeqe se use karte dekh kar medicine ko ghalat nahin kehte.

Naujawanon ke saath kai saal guzarnay ke baad maine ek ajeeb baat notice ki hai. Aksar youth namaz ke mukhalif nahin hote, woh sirf namaz ki importance nahin samajhte. Jab unhein yeh ehsaas hota hai ke namaz Allah ki taraf se rozana 5 martaba pyaar bhari invitation hai... To un ki thinking badalna shuru ho jati hai.

Namaz sirf kuch physical actions ka naam nahin, yeh din mein paanch martaba apne Rab ke saath dobara connect hone ka naam hai.

Aakhri Baat Mere azeez bhai! Apni namaz ka decision doosron ko dekh kar mat karo. Agar koi be-namazi achha hai... To us ki achhi qualities adopt karo... Lekin us ki be-namazi adopt mat karo.

Aur agar koi namazi bad-akhlaq hai... To us ki bad-akhlaqi se nafrat karo... Namaz se nahin.

Qiyamat ke din Allah tum se yeh nahin poochega: "Falan shakhs namaz kyun nahin padhta tha?" Woh tum se poochega: "Mere bande! Jab main ne tumhein roz paanch martaba bulaya tha... tum kahan the?"

Agar yeh sawal dil mein utar jaye... To namaz bojh nahin rehti... Balkeh apne Rab se mulaqat ban jati hai.

🌼 Aaj Ki Youth Tip "Logon ko apni worship ka standard mat banao... Allah ko apna standard banao."

Action Today Aaj aane wali pehli namaz on time ada karo. Namaz ke baad sirf 1 minute baith kar dil se yeh dua karo:

"Ae Allah! Mujhe apni ibaadat ki haqeeqat samjha de aur meri namaz ko meri zindagi ki taqat bana de. Aameen."

Ek Naujawan Ka Sawal
Main 17 saal ka student hun. Kuch arse se meri khwahish hai ke namaz ki pabandi karun, Quran padhun aur gunahon se bachun. Lekin jab bhi main deen ki taraf badhta hun, mere friends kehne lagte hain: “Molvi ban gaya hai!”, “Ab to Peer Sahab ban gaya!” Un ki baatein sun kar mera confidence toot jata hai. Kabhi dil karta hai ke sab chhod dun, taake koi mera mazaq na udaye. Main kya karun?

Jawab Mere Azeez Naujawan! Sab se pehle ek baat dil mein bithalo: Deen par chalna weakness nahin, courage hai. Namaz ki pabandi karna, Quran padhna aur gunah se bachna aasaan nahin hota. Is ke liye apni aadaton, desires aur friends ke pressure ka muqabla karna padta hai.
Is liye tum kamzor nahin ho. Tum apni life ka ek brave decision lena chahte ho.
Agar deen ki wajah se tumhara mazaq udaya ja raha hai, to yaad rakho ke yeh koi nayi baat nahin.

Allah Ta’ala farmata hai:

“Un ke paas jab bhi koi Rasool aaya, log us ka mazaq udate rahe.”
(Surah Al-Hijr: 11)

Is liye logon ka hansna is baat ki proof nahin ke tum ghalat ho. Kabhi kabhi log usi cheez ka mazaq udate hain jo unhein apni life ke baare mein sochne par majboor kar de. Ho sakta hai tumhari namaz unhein un ki chhuti hui namaz yaad dila rahi ho.

Har Dost, Sacha Dost Nahin Hota Socho... Agar exams ke din tum padhna chaho aur koi friend kahe: “Chhod yaar, padhai se kya hota hai?” Kya tum us ki baat maan loge? Nahin. Kyun ke result tumhara hoga, us ka nahin.
Isi tarah jo dost tumhein Allah se door kare, namaz par mazaq udaye aur gunah ko cool banaye, woh tumhara companion to ho sakta hai, lekin real well-wisher nahin.
Sacha dost woh hai jo tumhara sirf aaj nahin, future bhi bachaye. Jo dost tumhein gunah par encourage kare, woh tumhari feelings ka friend ho sakta hai, tumhari aakhirat ka nahin.

Tumhein Bura Lagna Normal Hai Jab apne friends mazaq udayen to dil ko takleef hoti hai. Insaan chahta hai ke group use accept kare. Koi use strange ya boring na samjhe. Is liye agar tum hurt hote ho to iska matlab yeh nahin ke tum weak ho.
Lekin ek baat yaad rakho: Logon ki baat se hurt hona tumhare control mein nahin, lekin un ki wajah se apna sahi raasta chhod dena tumhara decision hai.
Aaj woh hans rahe hain. Kal mumkin hai wohi tumhari honesty, discipline aur strong character ki respect karein. Log aksar shuru mein change ka mazaq udate hain, lekin baad mein consistency ki respect karte hain.

Mazaq Ka Jawab Kaise Dein? Agar koi kahe: “Molvi ban gaya hai!” To ghussa mat karo. Smile karke keh do:
“Bas bhai, better insaan banne ki koshish kar raha hun.”
Ya keh do: “Perfect nahin hun, bas apni life improve kar raha hun.”
Phir baat change kar do. Har comment ka jawab dena zaroori nahin hota. Kabhi kabhi tumhara calm behaviour sab se strong reply hota hai.

Lekin ek baat ka dhyan rakho: Deen par chal kar arrogant mat ho jana. Friends ko neecha mat samajhna. Unhein har waqt lecture mat dena. Namaz ke saath softness lao, Quran ke saath humility lao aur deen ke saath good character lao.

Tumhara behaviour aisa ho ke log kahen:
“Deen ne is ladke ko aur behtar bana diya.”

Asal Sawal Apne aap se ek sawal poochho: “Main kis ko khush karna chahta hun? Friends ko? Classmates ko? Ya Allah ko?”
Logon ki opinion har roz badalti hai. Aaj woh kahenge tum bohot religious ho. Kal kahenge tum responsible nahin ho. Agar tum har decision logon ke kehne par karoge, to tum kabhi stable nahin reh sakte.

Lekin jab Allah ki raza tumhari priority ban jaye, to dil mein ek ajeeb strength paida hoti hai. Tum phir logon ke comments ke ghulam nahin rehte.

Allah Tumhari Struggle Dekh Raha Hai • Jab tum azan sun kar apni laziness se ladte ho... Allah dekhta hai.
• Jab tum friends ke mazaq ke bawajood namaz padhte ho... Allah dekhta hai.
• Jab tum gunah ka mauqa milne ke baad bhi ruk jate ho... Allah dekhta hai.
• Jab tum dil mein kehte ho: “Ya Allah! Mujhe strong bana de.” Allah sunta hai.
Tumhari koi sincere effort Allah ke paas waste nahin hoti.

Achhe Dost Talaash Karo Tumhein bohot saare friends nahin chahiye. Kabhi kabhi sirf ek achha aur sincere friend poori life ki direction badal deta hai. Aisa dost talaash karo jo:
• Namaz ki yaad dilaye,
• Gunah se bachne mein support kare,
• Tumhari weakness ka mazaq na udaye,
• Aur tumhein Allah ke qareeb kare.
Bad company se thoda distance banana betrayal nahin hota. Kabhi kabhi yeh self-protection hoti hai.

Aakhri Baat Mere azeez bete! Aaj jo log tumhein “Molvi” keh kar hans rahe hain, mumkin hai kal unhi mein se koi tumhare paas aaye aur kahe: “Yaar, mere liye dua karna.”
Is liye logon ki temporary hansi ke liye apni permanent success ko mat chhodo. Crowd ke saath chalna easy hai. Haq par khade rehna bravery hai.
Tumhara kaam sab ko khush karna nahin, tumhara kaam apne Rab ko khush karna hai.

🌼 Aaj Ki Youth Tip "Jo dost tumhein gunah par clap kare, woh tumhara real well-wisher nahin. Jo tumhein Allah ke qareeb hone ki himmat de, wahi sacha dost hai."

Action Today Aaj aane wali pehli namaz time par padho. Agar koi mazaq udaye to ghussa na karo, fight na karo, sirf smile karo aur apna good character maintain rakho.
Namaz ke baad dil se yeh dua karo:

“Ae Allah! Mujhe logon ki opinion se zyada apni raza ki fikr ata farma. Mujhe deen par narmi, hikmat aur himmat ke saath qayam rakh. Aameen.”

Ek Naujawan Ka Sawal
Main 20 saal ka student hun. Har taraf fitnon ka environment hai. Social media, be-pardagi, haram relationships, gunahon ki easy access aur deen par amal karne walon ki kami dekh kar kabhi kabhi dil mein yeh sawal aata hai: Kya waqai aaj ke zamane mein deendar rehna mumkin hai? Ya deen par chalna sirf kitaabon ki baat hai?

Jawab Mere Azeez Naujawan! Sab se pehle ek baat yaad rakho. Agar aaj deendar rehna namumkin hota, to Allah humein kabhi us ka hukm na dete.

Allah Ta'ala farmate hain:

"Allah kisi jaan ko us ki taqat se zyada zimmedari nahin deta."
(Surah Al-Baqarah: 286)

Yani fitne mushkil zaroor hain, lekin deen par chalna namumkin nahin.

Har Zamane Ka Apna Imtehan Hota Hai Humein lagta hai hamara daur sab se zyada difficult hai. Lekin zara Quran ko dekho.

Hazrat Yusuf علیہ السلام ke saamne gunah ka mauqa tha, phir bhi unhon ne Allah ko chuna.
Ashab-e-Kahf ne apna shehar chhod diya, lekin imaan nahin chhoda.
Sahaba رضی اللہ عنہم ne zulm seh liya, lekin kalimah nahin chhoda.

Aaj hamara imtehan alag hai.
• Phone hamare haath mein hai.
• Screen hamare saamne hai.
• Haram cheezen ek click par hain.

Lekin Allah bhi wahi hai jo Yusuf علیہ السلام ka Rab tha aur Sahaba کا Rab tha. Jo un ki madad kar sakta tha, woh aaj bhi tumhari madad kar sakta hai.

Fitne Bade Hain... Lekin Allah Ki Rahmat Bhi Badi Hai Yeh sach hai ke aaj gunah tak pahunchna bohot easy ho gaya hai. Lekin ek sach yeh bhi hai ke aaj hidayat tak pahunchna bhi pehle se aasaan hai.
Aaj tum apne mobile se Quran padh sakte ho. Achhe scholars ki baatein sun sakte ho. Islamic books padh sakte ho. Good company online bhi mil sakti hai.
Yani jis phone se gunah hota hai, usi phone se hidayat bhi mil sakti hai. Faisla phone nahin karta... faisla tum karte ho.

Perfect Nahin... Sincere Bano Shaytan chahta hai ke tum yeh socho:
"Ya to bilkul perfect bano... warna deen par chalna chhod do."
Yeh us ka dhoka hai. Allah tum se perfection nahin maangte. Allah tum se koshish maangte hain.
Agar kabhi tum se gunah ho jaye... To mayoos mat hona. Taubah karo. Dobarah uth jao. Har dafa Allah ki taraf wapas aana hi ek momin ki pehchan hai.

Apni Direction Badlo, Duniya Nahin Bohot se young boys mujh se kehte the: "Is environment mein deen par chalna impossible hai."
Lekin jab unhon ne sirf kuch chhote decisions liye... Namaz ko priority di, galat doston se thoda distance banaya, social media ko control kiya, aur roz thoda Quran padhna shuru kiya... To kuch mahino baad un ki zindagi badal gayi.
Yaad rakho... Tumhein poori duniya badalne ki zarurat nahin. Kabhi kabhi sirf apni direction badalna kaafi hota hai.

Tum Akeley Nahin Ho Kabhi shaytan tumhein yeh feel karwata hai ke sirf tum hi struggle kar rahe ho. Yeh sach nahin.
Aaj bhi duniya ke har shehar mein hazaron young boys aur girls hain jo chup chaap Allah ko razi karne ki koshish kar rahe hain. Ho sakta hai woh social media par famous na hon, lekin woh Allah ke nazdeek bohot qeemti hain.
Yaad rakho: Allah ke nazdeek kam log hona problem nahin... ikhlaas na hona problem hai.

Aakhri Baat Mere azeez bhai! Yeh mat kaho: "Zamana kharab hai, is liye main kuch nahin kar sakta."
Yeh kaho: "Zamana jaisa bhi ho... main apne Rab ka banda rahunga."

Ho sakta hai tum poori duniya na badal sako. Lekin tum apni duniya zaroor badal sakte ho. Aur yaqeen karo... Jab ek naujawan sachche dil se Allah ki taraf ek qadam badhata hai... To Allah us ki taraf rahmat ke darwaze khol dete hain.

🌼 Aaj Ki Youth Tip "Fitne se bhagna kamyabi nahin, fitne ke darmiyan Allah se juda rehna asal kamyabi hai."

Action Today Aaj sirf ek faisla karo jo tumhein Allah ke qareeb kare. Ek namaz time par padho, ek gunah chhod do, ya Quran ki sirf 5 ayat meaning ke saath padh lo.
Phir dil se yeh dua karo:

"Ae Allah! Fitnon ke is daur mein mere imaan ki hifazat farma. Mujhe hamesha apni ita'at par qayam rakh aur mujhe kabhi apni rahmat se door na kar. Aameen."

Ek Naujawan Ka Sawal
Main 19 saal ka student hun. Main namaz bhi padhta hun aur kabhi kabhi Quran bhi padh leta hun. Lekin sach kahun to ibadat mein dil nahin lagta. Namaz ek responsibility lagti hai, khushi nahin. Kabhi kabhi main sochta hun: Kya mere imaan mein koi kami hai? Mujhe ibadat mein maza kyun nahin aata?

Jawab Mere Azeez Naujawan! Sab se pehle ek baat dil se suno. Sirf is baat se ke aaj tumhein ibadat mein maza nahin aa raha, yeh zaroori nahin ke tumhara imaan kamzor ho.

Dil ki bhi apni kaifiyat hoti hai. Kabhi woh Allah ki taraf bohot mutawajjeh hota hai aur kabhi sust ho jata hai. Sahaba رضی اللہ عنہم bhi apne imaan ki kaifiyat ke baare mein fikr kiya karte the aur Rasulullah ﷺ un ki rehnumai farmate the.

Is liye mayoos mat ho. Is sawal ka aana hi is baat ki nishani hai ke tum apne Rab ke qareeb hona chahte ho.

Har Relationship Time Maangta Hai Zara socho... Agar tumhara koi dost ho aur tum us se sirf saal mein ek ya do martaba baat karo, to kya dosti mazboot hogi? Bilkul nahin. Relationship hamesha regular connection se mazboot hota hai. Allah ke saath bhi yahi mamla hai.

Agar namaz kabhi padhi aur kabhi chhod di... Quran hafton tak na khola... Dua sirf mushkil ke waqt ki... To dil ka connection mazboot kaise hoga?

Yaad rakho: Ibadat ka maza ek din mein nahin aata, dheere dheere paida hota hai.

Dil Ko Kya Kamzor Kar Deta Hai? Kabhi kabhi problem ibadat nahin hoti... Problem hamara dil hota hai.

Socho... Agar mobile mein bohot saari unnecessary files bhar jayein to woh slow ho jata hai. Isi tarah jab dil har waqt reels, haram nazron, fazool videos aur be-maqsad scrolling se bhar jaye, to us mein Quran aur namaz ka asar kam mehsoos hone lagta hai.

Rasulullah ﷺ ne farmaya ke jab banda gunah karta hai to us ke dil par ek siyah nuktah lag jata hai. Agar woh taubah kar le to dil phir saaf ho jata hai. Is liye kabhi sirf yeh mat poochho: "Namaz mein maza kyun nahin aa raha?" Yeh bhi poochho: "Mera dil kis cheez se bhar gaya hai?"

Lazzat Amal Ke Baad Aati Hai Shaytan tumhein kehta hai: "Jab dil lage tab namaz padhna."
Lekin Allah tum se kehte hain: "Pehle namaz padhte raho, phir main tumhare dil mein us ki mithaas paida karunga."

Maine bohot se young boys ko dekha hai jo kehte the: "Namaz mein dil nahin lagta." Lekin jab unhon ne sirf teen cheezen badlein:
• Mobile ka waqt kam kiya,
• Namaz ko time par padhna shuru kiya,
• Aur roz thoda Quran padhna shuru kiya,
To kuch hafton baad woh khud kehte the: "Ab namaz pehle se bohot achhi lagti hai."

Yaad rakho: Ibadat ka maza shuruat mein nahin, aksar istiqamat ke baad milta hai.

Allah Sirf Tumhari Koshish Dekhna Chahta Hai Mere azeez bhai! Agar aaj tumhari namaz mein aansu nahin aate... Tab bhi namaz mat chhodo. Agar Quran padhte waqt dil utna mutasir nahin hota... Tab bhi Quran mat chhodo.

Ho sakta hai tumhein lag raha ho ke tum Allah ki taraf sirf ek qadam badha rahe ho. Lekin Allah tumhari har chhoti koshish ko dekh raha hai. Aur jab banda sachche dil se Allah ki taraf chalta rehta hai, to ek din Allah us ke dil ko aisi sukoon aur mithaas ata kar dete hain jo duniya ki kisi cheez mein nahin milti.

Mere azeez bete! Yeh mat kaho: "Jab dil lagega tab ibadat karunga." Yeh kaho: "Main ibadat karta rahunga, In Sha Allah ek din mera dil bhi lag jayega."

Yaad rakho... Allah se mohabbat ka safar ek namaz, ek dua aur ek sachchi taubah se shuru hota hai. Aur jo banda Allah ki taraf chalta hai...

🌼 Aaj Ki Youth Tip "Ibadat ki lazzat dhoondhne se pehle ibadat ki pabandi paida karo. Mithaas aksar istiqamat ke baad milti hai."

Action Today Aaj sirf ek namaz poori tawajjuh ke saath padho. Namaz se pehle ek minute ke liye aankhen band karke yeh socho: "Main ab apne Rab se baat karne ja raha hun."
Namaz ke baad dil se yeh dua karo:

"Ae Allah! Mere dil mein apni ibadat ki mohabbat paida farma aur meri namaz ko meri zindagi ka sukoon bana de. Aameen."

Ek Naujawan Ka Sawal
Main 21 saal ka hun. Main kai baar Allah se taubah karta hun, lekin kuch din baad phir usi gunah mein pad jata hun. Har baar bohot sharmindagi hoti hai aur dil mein yeh khayal aata hai: “Shayad ab Allah mujhe maaf nahin karega.” Kya meri taubah qabool ho sakti hai, ya ab bohot der ho chuki hai?

Jawab Mere Azeez Naujawan! Sab se pehle ek baat apne dil mein utaar lo. Jab gunah ke baad tumhara dil roye, sharminda ho aur Allah ki taraf lautna chahe, to yeh tumhare imaan ki nishani hai, na ke us ke khatam hone ki.

Sab se khatarnak insaan woh nahin jo gunah kar baithe. Sab se khatarnak woh hai jise apne gunah ka ehsaas hi na rahe. Tumhara pachtana is baat ki daleel hai ke tumhara dil abhi zinda hai.

Allah Ki Rahmat Tumhare Gunahon Se Badi Hai Shaytan ki sab se badi chaal yeh nahin ke woh tum se gunah karwa de. Us ki sab se badi chaal yeh hai ke gunah ke baad woh tumhare dil mein yeh baat daal de: “Ab tumhare liye maafi nahin.”

Lekin Allah Ta'ala farmate hain:

“Ae Mere bando! Jinhon ne apni jaanon par zyadati ki hai, Allah ki rahmat se mayoos mat ho. Beshak Allah tamam gunah maaf kar deta hai.”
(Surah Az-Zumar: 53)

Socho... Jab Allah khud keh rahe hain: “Mayoos mat ho”, to phir tum kis baat se mayoos ho? Jab tak jaan baqi hai aur taubah ka darwaza khula hai, Allah ki rahmat se umeed kabhi mat chhodo.

Girna Nakaami Nahin... Gire Rehna Nakaami Hai Jab ek chhota bachcha chalna seekhta hai to woh kai baar girta hai. Kya us ki maa us se kehti hai: “Ab tum bohot baar gir chuke ho, chalna chhod do”? Kabhi nahin. Woh har baar use uthati hai aur phir chalna sikhati hai.

Allah ki rahmat apne bande ke liye is se kahin zyada wasee hai. Agar tum har baar sachche dil se uth kar Allah ki taraf lautte rahoge, to Allah ka darwaza tumhare liye band nahin hoga.

Sirf Taubah Nahin... Wajah Bhi Badlo Ek zaroori baat samajh lo. Agar har baar wahi environment, wahi friends, wahi mobile aur wahi tanhai rahegi, to phir wahi gunah dobara saamne aa jayega.

Is liye sirf taubah hi nahin, apni life mein kuch tabdeeliyan bhi lao:
• Agar koi account tumhein gunah ki taraf le jata hai, use delete kar do.
• Agar koi dost tumhein Allah se door karta hai, us se distance bana lo.
• Apna free time Quran, exercise ya kisi achhe kaam mein lagao.

Yaad rakho: Taubah sirf aansuon ka naam nahin, zindagi ka rukh badalne ka naam hai.

Allah Tumhari Koshish Dekhta Hai Ho sakta hai tum socho: “Main to har baar haar jata hun.” Lekin Allah tumhari har sachchi koshish ko dekhte hain.
• Har woh taubah jo tum ne ikhlaas se ki...
• Har woh aansu jo tanhai mein baha...
• Har woh dafa jab tum ne gunah se bachne ki koshish ki...
Allah ke ilm mein hai.

Rasulullah ﷺ ne farmaya:

“Har insaan ghalati karne wala hai, aur behtareen ghalati karne wale woh hain jo baar baar taubah karte hain.”
(Tirmidhi)

Is liye tumhari pehchan yeh nahin ke tum kitni baar gire. Tumhari pehchan yeh hai ke tum har baar uth kar Allah ki taraf laut aaye.

Aakhri Baat Mere azeez bhai! Agar aaj tum se phir gunah ho gaya hai... To wahin mat baith jana. Wuzu karo. Do rakat namaz padho. Allah se ro kar maafi maango. Phir naye hausle ke saath dobara shuru karo.

Ho sakta hai aaj ki tumhari sachchi taubah hi tumhari zindagi ka mod ban jaye. Aur yaad rakho: Allah us bande se kabhi nahin thakta jo baar baar us ke dar par laut kar aata hai.

🌼 Aaj Ki Youth Tip "Shaytan chahta hai ke gunah ke baad tum Allah se door ho jao. Allah chahte hain ke gunah ke baad tum aur zyada un ke qareeb aa jao."

Action Today Aaj tanhai mein kuch minute Allah ke saamne baitho. Apne gunahon ka iqraar karo. Dil se taubah karo.
Phir ek aisi wajah ko khatam karne ka faisla karo jo tumhein baar baar usi gunah ki taraf le jati hai.

Aur yaqeen rakho: Har naya din Allah ki taraf wapas aane ka ek naya mauqa hai. In Sha Allah.

Ek Naujawan Ka Sawal
Main 20 saal ka hun. Kai saalon se Porn dekhne ki buri aadat mein mubtala hun. Har baar taubah karta hun, lekin kuch din baad phir usi gunah mein gir jata hun. Ab mujhe khud se nafrat hone lagi hai. Namaz mein bhi sharmindagi mehsoos hoti hai. Kya main kabhi is aadat se nikal sakta hun?

Jawab Mere Azeez Naujawan! Sab se pehle ek baat dil mein bithalo: Tum akelay nahin ho. Aaj bohot se naujawan is jang se guzar rahe hain. Farq sirf itna hai ke aksar log sharm ki wajah se is ke baare mein baat nahin karte.

Lekin ek aur baat yaad rakho: Yeh gunah chahe kitna bhi bada ho, Allah ki rahmat us se kahin zyada badi hai. Is liye mayoos mat ho. Aaj se apni jang dobara shuru karo.

Yeh Sirf Ek Gunah Nahin, Ek Aadat Bhi Hai Porn sirf aankhon ka gunah nahin, yeh dheere dheere dimagh ko bhi apna aadi bana deta hai. Jitni baar insaan use dekhta hai, utni hi baar dimagh us ka mutalabah karta hai.

Is liye agar tum sirf itna kaho: "Aaj ke baad kabhi nahin dekhunga," to aksar yeh kaafi nahin hota. Is aadat ko todne ke liye sirf irada nahin, nizaam (system) bhi badalna padta hai.

Gunah Ka Darwaza Band Karo Allah Ta'ala farmate hain:

"Aur zina ke qareeb bhi na jao."
(Surah Al-Isra: 32)

Allah ne sirf zina se nahin roka, balki us ke qareeb le jane wale raste bhi band karne ka hukm diya. Porn unhi khatarnaak raston mein se ek hai.

Apne aap se imaandari se poochho: "Main zyada tar kab girta hun? Raat ko? Akele kamre mein? Be-maqsad mobile chalate hue? Stress ya boredom ke baad?"

Jab wajah samajh aa jaye, to us darwaze ko band kar do:
• Raat ko mobile bed ke paas mat rakho.
• Fuzool scrolling kam karo.
• Internet ka waqt muqarrar karo.

Yaad rakho: Jo cheez tumhein baar baar gunah tak le jaye, us se door rehna kamzori nahin, hikmat hai.

Har Baar Giro... Magar Har Baar Utho Shaytan do cheezen chahta hai. Pehli, tum gunah karo. Doosri, gunah ke baad tum umeed chhod do. Usay doosri kamyabi kabhi mat do.

Agar aaj phir laghzish ho gayi hai, to foran Allah ki taraf laut aao. Wuzu karo. Do rakat namaz padho. Aur dil se kaho:

"Ya Allah! Main apni kamzori se waqif hun. Mujhe apni madad ke baghair is gunah se nijat nahin mil sakti."

Yaad rakho: Allah us bande ko pasand karte hain jo baar baar un ke dar par laut kar aata hai.

Apni Zindagi Ko Khali Mat Chhodo Sirf gunah chhodna kaafi nahin, us ki jagah achhi cheezen lana bhi zaroori hai. Apne din ko namaz, Quran, exercise, padhai aur kisi mufeed mashghale se bhar do.

Jab zindagi maqsad se bhar jati hai, to gunahon ke liye jagah kam reh jati hai. Aur agar mumkin ho to kisi nek aur bharosemand dost ya ustad se bhi rehnumai lo. Kabhi kabhi akelay larna mushkil hota hai.

Aakhri Baat Mere azeez bhai! Aaj tum apni kamzori ki wajah se khud se nafrat kar rahe ho. Lekin yaad rakho... Allah tumhein tumhare gunah se nahin, tumhari taubah se pehchanna chahte hain.

Aaj ka faisla tumhari poori zindagi badal sakta hai. Ho sakta hai tum ek din mein is aadat se azad na ho. Lekin agar tum har roz Allah se madad maangte hue koshish karte rahe, to woh din zaroor aayega jab tum peeche mud kar dekhoge aur kahongay:

"Alhamdulillah! Allah ne mujhe is qaid se azad kar diya."

Kabhi umeed mat khona. Jis Allah ne tumhein taubah ki taufeeq di hai, wahi tumhein is gunah se mukammal nijat bhi de sakta hai.

🌼 Aaj Ki Youth Tip "Porn chand lamhon ki lazzat deta hai, lekin dil ka sukoon cheen leta hai. Allah ke liye ki gayi paakizgi ki har qurbani ek din sukoon aur izzat ki surat mein laut kar aati hai."

Action Today Aaj hi apne mobile ya computer se har woh app, account ya file hata do jo tumhein is gunah tak pahunchati hai. Aaj raat sone se ek ghanta pehle internet band kar do aur us waqt ko Quran, zikr ya kisi achhi kitab ke saath guzaro.
Phir Allah se dil se dua karo:

"Ae Allah! Meri nigahon ki hifazat farma, mere dil ko paak bana, meri shahwat ko halal tareeqe se poora karne ki taufeeq de, aur mujhe har us cheez se door kar de jo Teri narazgi ka sabab bane. Aameen."

Ek Naujawan Ka Sawal
Main 19 saal ka hun. Kai saalon se masturbation (istimna) ki aadat mein mubtala hun. Maine ise chhorne ki bohot koshish ki, lekin kuch din baad phir usi gunah mein gir jata hun. Us ke baad bohot sharmindagi hoti hai. Namaz mein dil nahin lagta aur Allah ke saamne khud ko bohot gunahgaar mehsoos karta hun. Kya main kabhi is aadat se nikal sakta hun?

Jawab Mere Azeez Naujawan! Sab se pehle ek baat hamesha yaad rakhna: Tumhari pehchan tumhara gunah nahin, balki us gunah se nikalne ki tumhari koshish hai.

Agar tumhein apni laghzish par afsos hota hai... Agar tum Allah se maafi maangte ho... Aur is aadat se nijat chahte ho... To yeh is baat ki nishani hai ke tumhara dil abhi zinda hai. Is liye kabhi yeh mat sochna ke tumhare liye ab koi umeed nahin.

Sirf Nafs Nahin... Wajah Ko Samjho Bohot se naujawan samajhte hain ke yeh sirf shahwat ka maslah hai. Lekin aksar is ke peeche kuch aur wajahen hoti hain. Jaise: tanhai, raat der tak mobile chalana, fuzool internet, fahash content, boredom, ya stress.

Jab tak yeh wajahen baqi rahengi, sirf mazboot irada aksar kaafi nahin hota.

Allah Ta'ala farmate hain:

"Aur jo log Hamari raah mein koshish karte hain, Hum zaroor unhein apne raste dikha dete hain."
(Surah Al-'Ankabut: 69)

Allah tumhari koshish dekhte hain aur phir madad ke raste kholte hain.

Gunah Ke Raste Band Karo Socho... Agar koi roz aag ke qareeb khara ho kar kahe: "Main jalna nahin chahta," to kya sirf yeh khwahish kaafi hogi? Nahin. Use aag se door bhi rehna hoga.

Isi tarah agar raat ko akelay mobile use karoge, fahash cheezen dekhoge ya un pages par jaoge jo shahwat ko bhadkate hain, to phir apne nafs se larna bohot mushkil ho jayega.

Is liye apni hifazat ke liye kuch mazboot faisle karo:
• Mobile ko bistar par mat lao.
• Sone ka waqt muqarrar karo.
• Internet ko be-maqsad istemal mat karo.

Yaad rakho: Islam sirf gunah se nahin, gunah ke raste se bhi bachne ki taleem deta hai.

Har Baar Giro... Lekin Har Baar Uth Jao Ho sakta hai tum kai baar gir chuke ho, lekin iska matlab yeh nahin ke tum kabhi badal nahin sakte.

Shaytan chahta hai ke tum gunah ke baad mayoos ho jao. Lekin Allah chahte hain ke tum har baar un ki taraf laut aao. Agar aaj phir laghzish ho gayi hai, to khud ko zaleel mat karo. Foran wuzu karo. Taubah karo. Aur dobara apni koshish shuru kar do.

Yaad rakho: Jo banda har baar gir kar bhi Allah ki taraf laut aata hai, Allah use kabhi thukrate nahin.

Apni Zindagi Ko Mazboot Banao Is aadat se nikalne ke liye sirf "nahin karunga" kehna kaafi nahin, apni zindagi ko achhi aadaton se bharna bhi zaroori hai.

• Rozana exercise karo.
• Fajr ki pabandi karo.
• Agar nikah ki istita'at nahin hai to nafl roze rakhne ki koshish karo, kyun ke Nabi ﷺ ne jawanon ko is ki targheeb di hai.
• Apne aap ko hamesha kisi mufeed kaam mein masroof rakho.

Jab zindagi maqsad se bhar jati hai to gunah ke liye jagah kam ho jati hai.

Mere azeez bhai! Aaj tum jis jang mein ho, us mein jeet mumkin hai. Ho sakta hai yeh ek din mein na ho. Lekin agar tum Allah se madad maangte hue har roz koshish karte rahe, to woh din zaroor aayega jab tum is aadat se azad ho jaoge.

Kabhi umeed mat khona. Allah tumhari har taubah ko sunte hain, har aansu ko dekhte hain, aur har sachchi koshish ki qadr karte hain.

Yaad rakho: Jis ne apne nafs par qaboo pa liya, us ne apni zindagi ki sab se badi jang jeet li.

🌼 Aaj Ki Youth Tip "Yeh aadat ek din mein nahin bani, is liye ek din mein khatam bhi nahin hogi. Sabr, istiqamat aur Allah se madad hi kamyabi ka raasta hai."

Action Today Aaj teen faisle karo:
1. Mobile ko bistar se door rakh kar so.
2. Har woh app, account ya content delete kar do jo tumhein is gunah ki taraf le jata hai.
3. Isha ke baad do rakat namaz padh kar dil se yeh dua karo:

"Ae Allah! Meri nigahon, mere dil aur meri sharamgah ki hifazat farma. Mujhe paakizgi ata farma, mere nafs par mujhe ghalib kar de aur mujhe apni ita'at par qayam rakh. Aameen."

Ek Naujawan Ka Sawal
Main 24 saal ka hun. Kai saalon se masturbation (istimna) ki aadat mein mubtala hun. Kuch log kehte hain: “Shadi ho jayegi to yeh aadat khud ba khud chhoot jayegi.” Isi umeed par maine is aadat se sanjeedgi se nikalne ki koshish bhi nahin ki. Kya waqai shadi is masle ka mukammal hal hai?

Jawab Mere Azeez Naujawan! Is sawal ka seedha jawab hai: Nahin... har baar aisa nahin hota.

Shadi Allah Ta'ala ki bohot badi ne'mat hai aur halal tareeqe se apni jinsi khwahish poori karne ka behtareen zariya hai. Lekin yeh samajhna ke sirf nikah hote hi purani aadatein khatam ho jayengi, ek ghalat soch hai.

Aadatein Nikah Se Nahin, Irade Se Badalti Hain Zara socho... Agar kisi ko gussa bohot aata ho, to kya shadi ke baad woh foran narm mizaj ban jata hai? Agar koi jhoot bolne ka aadi ho, to kya nikah ke baad woh khud ba khud sachcha ban jata hai? Bilkul nahin.

Kyun ke aadatein sirf halat badalne se nahin, insaan ke badalne se badalti hain. Isi tarah agar masturbation sirf ek waqti laghzish nahin, balki kai saalon ki aadat ban chuki hai, to us ke liye mehnat aur mujahadah zaroori hai.

Shadi Madad Karti Hai, Lekin Mehnat Ki Jagah Nahin Leti Rasulullah ﷺ ne jawanon ko nikah ki targheeb dete hue farmaya:

“Ae jawano! Tum mein se jo nikah ki istita'at rakhta ho, woh nikah kare, kyun ke yeh nigah ko zyada jhukane wala aur sharamgah ki zyada hifazat karne wala hai.”
(Sahih Bukhari, Sahih Muslim)

Is hadith se maloom hota hai ke shadi gunahon se bachne mein bohot badi madad hai. Lekin agar kisi ka dil pehle hi porn, fahash khayalat aur buri aadaton ka aadi ban chuka ho, to sirf shadi kaafi nahin hoti. Usay apne nafs ki bhi tarbiyat karni padti hai.

Aaj Ki Aadat, Kal Ki Zindagi Par Asar Dalti Hai Maine aise naujawan bhi dekhe hain jo yeh soch kar shadi kar baithe ke ab sab masle khatam ho jayenge. Lekin jab purani aadatein saath gayin, to unhein shadi ke baad bhi apne nafs se larna pada.

Aur maine aise bhi naujawan dekhe hain jinhon ne shadi se pehle hi apni is kamzori ke khilaf jang shuru kar di:
• Allah se madad maangi.
• Apna mobile aur environment badla.
• Apni nigahon ki hifazat ki.

Phir jab un ki shadi hui, to un ki zindagi zyada pur-sukoon aur khushgawar rahi.

Apni Hone Wali Biwi Ke Liye Sab Se Khoobsurat Tohfa Mere azeez bhai! Socho... Kal jab Allah tumhein ek nek biwi ata karega, to woh tum se sirf ghar aur kapde hi nahin chahegi. Woh ek aisa shohar chahegi jo us ki izzat kare, us se muhabbat kare aur apni nigahon aur apne nafs ki hifazat karna jaanta ho.

Is liye apni mustaqbil ki zindagi ki tayari aaj se shuru karo. Apni hone wali shareek-e-hayat ke liye sab se qeemti tohfa sona ya mehnga gift nahin, balkeh paakizah kirdar hai.

Mere azeez bhai! Yeh mat kaho: “Main shadi ke baad badal jaunga.” Yeh kaho: “Main aaj se badalna shuru karta hun, taake kal ek behtar shohar aur behtar baap ban sakun.”

Yaad rakho... Shadi un logon ke liye bohot badi barkat sabit hoti hai jo pehle se apni islaah ki koshish kar rahe hote hain. Allah tumhari mehnat ko dekhta hai aur tumhare liye aasani ke raste paida karta hai.

🌼 Aaj Ki Youth Tip "Shadi buri aadaton ka automatic ilaaj nahin karti. Aaj ki islaah hi kal ki pur-sukoon aur khushhaal shadi ki bunyaad banti hai."

Action Today Aaj apne aap se yeh wada karo: “Main apni hone wali shareek-e-hayat ka intezar nahin karunga ke woh mujhe badle. Main aaj hi apni islaah ka safar shuru karunga.”

Phir Allah se dil se yeh dua karo:

"Ae Allah! Mujhe paakizgi ata farma, mere nafs ki islaah farma aur jab mere liye nikah behtar ho to use mere liye khair, muhabbat aur barkat ka zariya bana de. Aameen."

Ek Naujawan Ka Sawal
Main 22 saal ka hun. Mere andar shahwat bohot zyada mehsoos hoti hai. Kabhi raste mein, kabhi social media par aur kabhi akele hone par zina ke khayalat baar baar aate hain. Main Allah se darta hun, lekin mujhe khauf hai ke kahin ek din main apne nafs ke saamne haar na jaun. Main kya karun?

Jawab Mere Azeez Naujawan! Sab se pehle ek baat samajh lo: Khwahish aana gunah nahin hai. Gunah us khwahish ke peeche chal dena hai.

Allah ne insaan ko farishta nahin banaya. Us ke andar shahwat bhi rakhi hai aur usay us par qaboo pane ki taqat bhi di hai. Asal imtehan yahi hai ke jab nafs pukare to tum Allah ki baat maante ho ya nafs ki.

Asal Taqat Nafs Par Qaboo Pana Hai Aaj ki duniya kehti hai: "Dil jo chahe woh karo." Lekin Islam kehta hai: "Har khwahish poori karna azadi nahin, balki apni khwahish ko Allah ke liye rok lena asal azadi hai."

Allah Ta'ala farmate hain:

"Aur jo apne Rab ke saamne khade hone se dara aur apne nafs ko khwahish se roka, to jannat hi us ka thikana hai."
(Surah An-Nazi'at: 40-41)

Ghaur karo... Allah ne yeh nahin farmaya ke momin ke dil mein kabhi khwahish nahin aayegi, balkeh yeh farmaya ke woh us par qaboo payega. Yahi asli kamyabi hai.

Zina Achanak Nahin Hota Bohot kam log ek hi din mein zina tak pahunchte hain. Is se pehle kai chhote qadam hote hain:
• Ek be-haya nazar...
• Ek be-maqsad chat...
• Ek private message...
• Ek tanhai...
Aur phir shaytan aakhri dhakka de deta hai.

Isi liye Allah Ta'ala ne farmaya:

"Aur zina ke qareeb bhi na jao."
(Surah Al-Isra: 32)

Allah ne sirf zina se nahin roka, balkeh us ke qareeb le jane wale har raste se bachne ka hukm diya. Is liye agar koi cheez tumhare dil mein haraam khwahish jagati hai, to us se door rehna hi hikmat hai.

Khali Dil Mein Fitne Jaldi Ghar Karte Hain Maine bohot se naujawanon ko dekha hai. Jab un ki zindagi be-maqsad hoti hai, to shahwat aur waswase aur zyada taqatwar ho jate hain.

Lekin jab unhon ne apni zindagi ko namaz, Quran, exercise, padhai, khidmat aur achhi sohbat se bhar diya, to un ka nafs dheere dheere kamzor padne laga.

Yaad rakho: Sirf gunah ko "nahin" kehna kaafi nahin, apni zindagi ko kisi achhe maqsad se "haan" bhi kehna zaroori hai.

Nikah Ki Tayyari Aaj Se Karo • Agar tum nikah ki istita'at rakhte ho to us ki koshish karo.
• Agar abhi istita'at nahin, to Nabi ﷺ ki hidayat par amal karo: Roze rakho.
• Apni nigahon ki hifazat karo.
• Akele aur be-maqsad mobile istemal karne se bacho.
• Aur Allah se roz madad maango.

Yaad rakho: Har dafa jab tum Allah ki khatir ek haraam khwahish ko rok lete ho, tumhara imaan aur mazboot hota hai.

Mere azeez bhai! Apni chand lamhon ki khwahish ko apni poori zindagi ka pachtawa mat banne do. Haraam lazzat chand minute ki hoti hai, lekin us ke baad ki sharmindagi, bechaini aur Allah se doori bohot lambi ho sakti hai.

Yaqeen rakho... Agar tum Allah ke liye apne nafs se larte rahoge, to Allah tumhari madad zaroor karega. Aur ho sakta hai jis khwahish se tum aaj lar rahe ho, wahi kal tumhare liye Jannat ka sabab ban jaye.

🌼 Aaj Ki Youth Tip "Har haraam khwahish ko poora karna taqat nahin. Allah ki khatir usay rok lena hi asli mardangi aur asli imaan hai."

Action Today Aaj apne mobile aur social media ka jaizah lo. Har woh account, app ya content hata do jo tumhare dil mein haraam khwahishat paida karta hai.

Phir Allah se dil se yeh dua karo:

"Ae Allah! Mere dil ko paak bana, meri nigahon ki hifazat farma, mere nafs ko apni ita'at ka paband bana aur mujhe har haraam raste se mehfooz rakh. Aameen."

Ek Naujawan Ka Sawal
Main 21 saal ka student hun. College mein meri ek larki se dosti ho gayi hai. Hum kabhi milte nahin, sirf WhatsApp aur Instagram par baat karte hain. Shuru mein sirf padhai ki baatein hoti thin, lekin ab rozana chat hone lagi hai. Hum dono kehte hain ke hamara koi bura iradah nahin. Lekin phir bhi mere dil mein sawal aata hai: Kya sirf chat karna bhi ghalat hai?

Jawab Mere Azeez Naujawan! Tumhara sawal sirf chat ka nahin, dil ke safar ka hai. Bohot kam log kisi haraam rishte ki shuruat kisi bade gunah se karte hain.

Aksar shuruat sirf ek "Hello", ek message ya ek reply se hoti hai...
• Phir roz baat hoti hai...
• Phir ek dusre ka intezar...
• Phir jazbaat...
• Aur phir woh maqam aa jata hai jahan wapas mudna mushkil lagta hai.

Isi liye Islam humein shuru hi se hifazat sikhata hai.

Har Chat Sirf Chat Nahin Rehti Apne dil se ek sawal poochho: Agar yeh sirf dosti hai... To us ka message na aaye to bechaini kyun hoti hai? Woh kisi aur se baat kare to dil ko takleef kyun hoti hai? Subah uthte hi us ka message check karne ka dil kyun karta hai?

Is ka matlab yeh hai ke baat sirf alfaaz ki nahin rahi. Dil judna shuru ho gaya hai. Aur jab dil kisi ghair-mahram se jud jaye, to insaan ke faisle bhi badalne lagte hain.

Islam Darwaze Band Karta Hai Allah Ta'ala farmate hain:

"Aur zina ke qareeb bhi na jao."
(Surah Al-Isra: 32)

Ghaur karo... Allah ne sirf zina se nahin roka, balkeh us ke qareeb le jane wale har raste se bachne ka hukm diya. Aaj ke daur mein be-maqsad private chatting bhi un raston mein se ek ho sakti hai.

Shaytan ek hi din mein insaan ko bade gunah tak nahin le jata. Woh kehta hai: "Bas ek message..." Phir: "Bas thodi si baat..." Aur phir dheere dheere dil us rishte ka aadi ban jata hai.

Niyyah Achhi Ho To Bhi Hifazat Zaroori Hai Ho sakta hai tum waqai sach keh rahe ho ke tumhara koi bura iradah nahin. Lekin sirf achhi niyyah hamesha kaafi nahin hoti.

Agar koi kahe: "Mera iradah aag mein haath jalana nahin, main to sirf qareeb khara hun," to kya woh mehfooz rahega?

Har cheez ki tarah fitne se bachne ka tareeqah bhi yahi hai ke us ke qareeb hi na jao. Is liye agar baat sirf padhai ya kisi zaroori kaam ki ho to usay utni hi had tak rakho. Lekin rozana, be-maqsad aur jazbati chatting se bachna hi hikmat hai.

Muhabbat Ka Sab Se Khoobsurat Rasta Nikah Hai Agar waqai kisi larki ki izzat karte ho... To use aise rishte mein mat rakho jis ki Allah ne ijazat nahin di. Aur agar kabhi tumhare dil mein us se nikah ka iradah paida ho, to us ke liye paakizah aur shar'i rasta ikhtiyar karo.

Yaad rakho... Jis rishte ko har waqt chhupana pade, woh aksar sukoon nahin deta. Aur jo rishta Allah ki raza ke mutabiq ho, us mein intezar bhi barkat ban jata hai.

Mere azeez bhai! Apne dil ko kisi aise rishte ka aadi mat banao jo kal tumhein Allah se door kar de. Aaj ek mushkil faisla karna, kal ki badi pareshani se bacha sakta hai.

Yaqeen rakho... Jo insaan Allah ke liye kisi haraam cheez ko chhod deta hai, Allah usay us se behtar cheez ata farmate hain.

🌼 Aaj Ki Youth Tip "Shaytan aksar gunah ki shuruat 'sirf ek chat' se karwata hai. Momin wahi hai jo shuruat hi mein apne dil ki hifazat kar le."

Action Today Aaj apna WhatsApp aur Instagram dekh kar socho: Kya kisi ghair-mahram ke saath meri baat zaroorat se aage badh chuki hai?
Agar jawab haan hai, to Allah ki raza ke liye us rishte ko wahi rok do.

Phir dil se yeh dua karo:

"Ae Allah! Mere dil ko paak rak, meri nigahon aur jazbaat ki hifazat farma, mujhe halal rishte naseeb farma aur har us cheez se bacha jo Teri narazgi ka sabab bane. Aameen."

Ek Naujawan Ka Sawal
Main 20 saal ka hun. Maine kai baar iradah kiya ke apni nigahon ki hifazat karunga. Lekin jab social media kholta hun, bahar nikalta hun ya achanak koi na-munasib manzar saamne aa jata hai, to meri nigah ruk jati hai. Baad mein bohot nadamat hoti hai aur main khud ko kamzor mehsoos karta hun. Kya main kabhi apni nigahon ki hifazat kar sakunga?

Jawab Mere Azeez Naujawan! Sab se pehle ek baat yaad rakho: Nigahon ki hifazat aankhon se pehle dil mein shuru hoti hai.

Jis dil mein Allah ki mohabbat aur akhirat ka ehsaas zinda ho, us ke liye nigah pherna aasaan hota chala jata hai. Aur jo dil har manzar dekhne ka aadi ho jaye, us ke liye sirf aankhen band kar lena kaafi nahin hota. Is liye sirf nigahon ki nahin, apne dil ki bhi hifazat karo.

Pehli Nigah Imtehan Hai, Doosri Nigah Faisla Kabhi kabhi koi na-munasib manzar achanak saamne aa jata hai. Is par hamesha tumhara ikhtiyar nahin hota. Lekin us ke baad dobara dekhna... Thahar kar dekhna... Ya jaan boojh kar dekhte rehna... Yeh tumhara apna faisla hota hai.

Rasulullah ﷺ ne Sayyiduna Ali رضی اللہ عنہ se farmaya:

"Pehli nigah ke baad doosri nigah mat dalo. Pehli maaf hai, doosri tumhare haq mein nahin."
(Abu Dawood, Tirmidhi)

Yani Islam tum se namumkin cheez ka mutalabah nahin karta. Woh tumhein agla sahi faisla karna sikhata hai.

Har Nigah Dil Par Asar Chhodti Hai Dil ek bagh ki tarah hota hai. Jis bagh mein roz kaante boye jayen, wahan phool nahin khilte. Isi tarah har haraam nigah dil mein ek nishan chhod jati hai.

• Phir wahi nigah khayal banti hai.
• Khayal khwahish banta hai.
• Aur khwahish kabhi kabhi gunah tak le jati hai.

Isi liye Allah Ta'ala ne farmaya:

"Iman wale mardon se keh dijiye ke apni nigahen neeche rakhen aur apni sharamgahon ki hifazat karen. Yeh un ke liye zyada paakizah hai."
(Surah An-Noor: 30)

Ghaur karo... Allah ne pehle nigah ka zikr kiya, phir sharamgah ki hifazat ka, kyun ke aksar bade gunah ki shuruat nigah se hoti hai.

Sirf Iradah Nahin, Mahol Bhi Badlo Bohot se naujawan kehte hain: "Main bas dekhunga nahin." Lekin sirf iradah aksar kaafi nahin hota. Apni zindagi mein kuch amali tabdeeliyan lao:

• Social media ko saaf karo.
• Un accounts ko unfollow karo jo fitna paida karte hain.
• Be-maqsad scrolling kam karo.
• Akele internet istemal karne se bacho.
• Aur apne dil ko Quran, zikr aur achhi sohbat se abad karo.

Yaad rakho: Gunah se bachna sirf nafs ki taqat se nahin, hikmat bhare faislon se bhi hota hai.

Mere azeez bhai! Har baar jab tum Allah ki khatir apni nigah pher lete ho, shayad duniya mein koi tumhein na dekhe, lekin Allah tumhein dekh raha hota hai.

Aur jo banda Allah ke liye ek haraam manzar chhod deta hai, Allah us ke dil mein aisi paakizgi aur sukoon paida kar dete hain jo kisi haraam nigah mein kabhi nahin mil sakta.

Is liye agar aaj tum se ghalati ho gayi hai to mayoos mat ho. Taubah karo. Dobarah koshish karo. Har roz apni nigahon ki hifazat ki mashq karo.

Yaqeen rakho... Aaj ki chhoti chhoti kamyabiyan kal tumhari mazboot aadat ban jayengi.

🌼 Aaj Ki Youth Tip "Nigah jhukana sirf aankhon ki hifazat nahin, apne dil, imaan aur mustaqbil ki hifazat bhi hai."

Action Today Aaj apne mobile se har woh app, account ya page hata do jo tumhari nigahon ko baar baar aazmaish mein daalta hai.
Aur jab bhi achanak koi haraam manzar saamne aaye, foran nigah pher kar dil se yeh dua karo:

"Ae Allah! Meri nigahon ko paak bana, mere dil ko apni mohabbat se bhar de aur mujhe har us cheez se bacha jo Tujhe na-pasand hai. Aameen."

Ek Naujawan Ka Sawal
Main 19 saal ka hun. Har saal 14 February ko mere friends Valentine's Day manate hain. Woh kehte hain: “Is mein kya harj hai? Yeh to sirf muhabbat ka izhar hai.” Aaj kal kuch Muslims bhi is din gifts dete hain, red rose dete hain aur social media par posts share karte hain. Agar hamara koi bura iradah na ho, to kya Valentine's Day manana jaiz hai?

Jawab Mere Azeez Naujawan! Sab se pehle ek baat samajh lo. Islam muhabbat ke khilaf nahin hai. Islam to humein Allah aur Us ke Rasool ﷺ se muhabbat sikhata hai, walidain se muhabbat, apni biwi aur bachon se muhabbat, aur tamam Musalmanon ke liye khairkhwahi sikhata hai.

Is liye sawal muhabbat ka nahin hai. Sawal yeh hai ke muhabbat ka izhar kis tareeqe se kiya jaye? Ek Musalman har kaam se pehle yeh dekhta hai ke Allah aur Us ke Rasool ﷺ is se razi hain ya nahin.

Har Mashhoor Cheez Sahi Nahin Hoti Aaj Valentine's Day ko sirf "Day of Love" keh kar pesh kiya jata hai. Lekin asal mein yeh Islami tehwar nahin.

Is ki bunyaad ghair-Islami tahzeeb aur riwayat par hai aur aaj bhi duniya bhar mein yeh din aksar ghair-mahram larkon aur larkiyon ke darmiyan romantic relationship ke izhar ke liye manaya jata hai.

Rasulullah ﷺ ne farmaya:

“Jis ne kisi qaum ki mushabahat ikhtiyar ki, woh unhi mein se hai.”
(Sunan Abu Dawood)

Is liye Musalman ki pehchan yeh hai ke woh apni khushiyan aur tehwar apni shari'at se leta hai, na ke har mashhoor culture se.

Shaytan Kabhi Bada Gunah Se Shuru Nahin Karta Bohot kam log kisi haraam rishte ki shuruat kisi bade faisle se karte hain. Aksar shuruat hoti hai:
• Ek red rose...
• Ek gift...
• Ek "Happy Valentine's Day"...
• Phir roz ki baat...
• Phir jazbaati lagao...
• Aur phir woh rishta jis ka anjam aksar pachtawa, dil tootna ya Allah ki nafarmaani hota hai.

Shaytan hamesha pehla qadam aasaan bana kar dikhata hai. Isi liye Islam humein shuru hi se hifazat ki taleem deta hai.

Muhabbat Ko Paak Rakho Agar tum waqai muhabbat karna chahte ho to us muhabbat ka intikhab karo jis se Allah razi ho:
• Apne walidain ki qadr karo.
• Apne behan bhaiyon se muhabbat karo.
• Apne doston ke saath khairkhwahi karo.
• Aur agar kisi larki se nikah ka iradah ho, to izzat, haya aur shari'at ke mutabiq us raste ko ikhtiyar karo.

Yaad rakho... Sachi muhabbat woh nahin jo sirf ek din gift de. Sachi muhabbat woh hai jo poori zindagi izzat, wafa aur Allah ki ita'at ke saath nibhai jaye.

Mere azeez bhai! Kabhi kisi kaam ko sirf is liye sahi mat samajhna ke sab log kar rahe hain. Ek momin ki pehchan yeh hai ke woh poochta hai: “Kya Allah is se razi hoga?”

Agar jawab nahin ho, to woh us cheez ko chhod deta hai, chahe poori duniya use aam baat hi kyun na samjhe.

Yaqeen rakho... Jo muhabbat Allah ke hukm ke mutabiq hoti hai, us mein hi asli sukoon aur barkat hoti hai.

🌼 Aaj Ki Youth Tip "Jo muhabbat Allah ki nafarmaani se shuru ho, woh chand lamhon ki khushi de sakti hai. Jo muhabbat Allah ki ita'at par qaim ho, woh duniya aur aakhirat dono mein barkat deti hai."

Action Today Is saal yeh ahd karo ke tum kisi aisi rasm ya tehwar mein hissa nahin loge jo tumhein Allah ki nafarmaani ya ghair-Islami tahzeeb ki mushabahat ki taraf le jaye.

Is ke bajaye aaj apne walidain, kisi rishtedar ya kisi zaruratmand ke saath husn-e-sulook karo.

Phir Allah se yeh dua karo:

"Ae Allah! Mere dil ko apni muhabbat se bhar de, mujhe halal muhabbat ata farma aur mujhe har us raste se bacha jo Teri narazgi ka sabab bane. Aameen."

Ek Naujawan Ka Sawal
Main 20 saal ka hun. Mere college aur social media par aksar log kehte hain ke shadi se pehle dating karna zaroori hai, taake ek dusre ko achhi tarah samajh saken. Woh kehte hain ke agar dating na karo to baad mein pachtana pad sakta hai. Kabhi kabhi mujhe bhi lagta hai ke shayad woh theek kehte hain. Ek Musalman naujawan is mahol mein apne aap ko kaise bachaye?

Jawab Mere Azeez Naujawan! Aaj ke daur mein dating ko sirf ek mulaqat nahin, balki "successful marriage ka formula" bana kar pesh kiya jata hai. Lekin Islam ek bilkul mukhtalif raasta dikhata hai.

Duniya kehti hai: "Pehle relationship, phir commitment."
Islam kehta hai: "Pehle commitment (nikah), phir muhabbat ko parwan chadhne do."

Isi liye nikah muhabbat ka anjam nahin, balki paakizah muhabbat ki shuruaat hai.

Har Rasta Nikah Tak Nahin Jata Aksar log dating is niyyat se shuru nahin karte ke woh gunah karenge. Woh kehte hain: "Hum sirf ek dusre ko samajh rahe hain."

Lekin waqt ke saath baatein badhti hain, jazbaat gehre hote hain, hudood tootne lagti hain, aur phir woh kaam ho jate hain jin ka shuru mein khayal bhi nahin hota.

Isi liye Allah Ta'ala ne farmaya:

"Aur zina ke qareeb bhi na jao. Beshak woh be-hayai aur bohot bura rasta hai."
(Surah Al-Isra: 32)

Ghaur karo... Allah ne sirf zina se nahin roka, balkeh us tak le jane wale raston se bhi bachne ka hukm diya.

Dil Koi Khilona Nahin Hai Dil Allah ki bohot qeemti amanat hai. Har naya jazbaati rishta us par apna asar chhodta hai. Jab baar baar rishte bante aur toot-te hain, to dil thak jata hai:
• Kabhi aitimad toot jata hai.
• Kabhi haya kamzor ho jati hai.
• Kabhi insaan nikah tak pahunchte pahunchte andar se khali mehsoos karta hai.

Allah ne tumhare dil ko har aane jane wale rishte ke liye nahin banaya, balkeh us rishtay ke liye banaya hai jo izzat, zimmedari aur wafa ke saath qaim ho.

Agar Samajhna Hai To Shar'i Rasta Ikhtiyar Karo Yeh baat theek hai ke shadi se pehle deen, akhlaq aur mizaj ke baare mein maloomat hasil karna zaroori hai. Lekin is ke liye dating hi zaroori nahin. Islam ne halal tareeqe diye hain:
• Ghar walon ki maujoodgi mein mulaqat.
• Zaroori had tak guftagu.
• Deen aur akhlaq ke baare mein maloomat.
• Mashwarah aur istikharah.

Is tarah faisla bhi hota hai aur Allah ki raza bhi baqi rehti hai.

Mere azeez bhai! Agar tum waqai apni hone wali shareek-e-hayat se muhabbat karte ho, to aaj hi us muhabbat ki hifazat karo. Use aise rishte mein mat lao jahan Allah ki narazgi ho.

Yaad rakho... Intezar kabhi aasaan nahin hota, lekin Allah ke liye kiya gaya intezar kabhi zaya nahin jata. Jo muhabbat nikah ke baad shuru hoti hai, us mein sukoon, izzat aur barkat hoti hai. Aur yahi barkat har momin ki asal kamyabi hai.

🌼 Aaj Ki Youth Tip "Dating chand lamhon ki khushi de sakti hai, lekin Allah ke liye kiya gaya intezar tumhein aisi muhabbat deta hai jis mein sukoon, izzat aur barkat hoti hai."

Action Today Aaj khud se yeh sawal poochho: "Kya mera koi rishta mujhe Allah ke qareeb le ja raha hai ya us se door?"
Agar jawab Allah se doori hai, to himmat ke saath us se nikalne ka pehla qadam uthao.

Phir Allah se yeh dua karo:

"Ae Allah! Mere dil ko paak rak, mujhe sabr ata farma aur mere liye halal, ba-izzat aur ba-barkat rishta muqaddar farma. Aameen."

Ek Naujawan Ka Sawal
Main 18 saal ka hun. Main sirf paanch minute ke liye Instagram ya YouTube Shorts kholta hun, lekin dekhte dekhte do ya teen ghante guzar jate hain. Us ke baad ehsaas hota hai ke maine apna bohot qeemti waqt zaya kar diya. Namaz, padhai aur ghar ke kaam bhi mutasir hone lage hain. Maine kai baar is aadat ko chhodne ka iradah kiya, lekin phir wahi hota hai. Main kya karun?

Jawab Mere Azeez Naujawan! Ek baat hamesha yaad rakhna: Tum sirf Reels nahin dekh rahe... Reels tumhari zindagi dekh rahi hain.

Har Reel sirf chand second ki hoti hai. Lekin un chand secondon ko jod do to woh tumhari zindagi ke ghante, din aur kabhi kabhi saal kha jate hain. Sab se bada nuqsan yeh nahin ke waqt chala gaya, balki yeh hai ke tumhari tawajjuh aur iradah kamzor hote chale jate hain.

Reels Tumhare Dimagh Ko Badal Deti Hain Social media companies chahti hain ke tum jitni der mumkin ho, screen ke saamne raho. Is liye har agla video pehle se zyada dilchasp banaya jata hai.

Aahista aahista dimagh isi tez raftaar tafreeh ka aadi ho jata hai:
• Phir Quran ki tilawat lambi lagti hai.
• Kitab padhna mushkil lagta hai.
• Aur padhai par chand minute tawajjuh dena bhi bhaari mehsoos hota hai.

Masla sirf waqt ka nahin... Masla yeh hai ke Reels tumhari tawajjuh chura leti hain.

Waqt Ka Chor Aksar Nazar Nahin Aata Socho agar koi chor roz tumhari jeb se sirf sau rupay nikal le. Shayad pehle din tumhein zyada ehsaas na ho. Lekin ek saal baad dekhoge to bohot badi raqam ghaib ho chuki hogi.

Reels bhi isi tarah kaam karti hain. Woh ek hi din mein zindagi barbaad nahin kartin. Roz thoda thoda waqt leti rehti hain. Phir ek din insaan hairan hota hai: "Maine itne saal hasil kya kiya?"

Allah Ta'ala farmate hain:

"Qasam hai zamane ki. Yaqeenan insaan khasare mein hai. Magar woh log jo iman laye, nek amal kiye, haq ki talqeen ki aur sabr ki talqeen ki."
(Surah Al-'Asr)

Allah ne waqt ki qasam is liye khai kyun ke waqt woh daulat hai jo ek baar chali jaye to kabhi wapas nahin aati.

Sirf Iradah Nahin, Nizam Badlo Agar tum waqai is aadat se nikalna chahte ho, to sirf yeh mat kaho: "Aaj se Reels nahin dekhunga." Apna mahol badlo:

• Instagram aur YouTube ki notifications band kar do.
• Screen Time ki daily limit laga do.
• Sone se ek ghanta pehle phone apne bistar se door rakh do.
• Aur apne din ko Quran, padhai, exercise, kisi hunar aur achhi sohbat se bhar do.

Yaad rakho: Khali waqt kabhi khali nahin rehta. Agar tum use kisi achhe kaam se nahin bharo ge, to woh khud-ba-khud be-maqsad tafreeh se bhar jayega.

Mere azeez bhai! Qiyamat ke din Allah tum se yeh nahin poochhenge ke tum ne kitni Reels dekhin. Lekin yeh zaroor poochhenge ke apni jawani aur apna waqt kis kaam mein guzara.

Rasulullah ﷺ ne farmaya:

"Qiyamat ke din bande ke qadam us waqt tak nahin hatenge jab tak us se us ki jawani ke baare mein na pooch liya jaye ke us ne use kis kaam mein guzara."
(Sunan Tirmidhi)

Har swipe sirf screen par ungli nahin chalata, woh tumhari zindagi ka ek aur lamha bhi kam kar deta hai. Is liye faisla tumhein karna hai: Apni zindagi algorithm ke hawale karni hai ya apne maqsad ke hawale?

🌼 Aaj Ki Youth Tip "Jo cheez tumhein chand second ki tafreeh de kar tumhare ghanton aur tawajjuh ko cheen le, woh tafreeh nahin, tumhari zindagi ka chor hai."

Action Today Aaj sirf ek faisla karo:
1. Apne mobile mein Reels ya Shorts ke liye rozana 20–30 minute ki limit laga do.
2. Sone se ek ghanta pehle phone alag rakh do.
3. Aur us waqt ko Quran, mutala'ah ya ghar walon ke saath guzarne ki aadat banao.

Phir Allah se yeh dua karo:

"Ae Allah! Mere waqt mein barkat ata farma, mere dil ko mufeed kaamon ki taraf laga aur mujhe har us cheez se bacha jo mujhe Teri yaad aur meri zimmedariyon se ghafil kar de. Aameen."

Ek Naujawan Ka Sawal
Main 17 saal ka hun. Shuru mein main sirf aadha ghanta game khelta tha, lekin ab rozana chaar paanch ghante guzar jate hain. Agar koi mujhe khelne se roke to gussa aata hai. Padhai mutasir ho rahi hai, namaz mein bhi susti aane lagi hai, lekin phir bhi game chhodna bohot mushkil lagta hai. Kya main is aadat se nikal sakta hun?

Jawab Mere Azeez Naujawan! Sab se pehle ek baat samajh lo: Masla game nahin, balki game ka tum par hukoomat karna hai.

Tafreeh insaan ke liye banai gayi hai. Lekin jab tafreeh insaan ki zindagi, namaz, taleem aur mustaqbil par hukoomat karne lage, to woh ne'mat nahin rehti, balkeh aazmaish ban jati hai.

Apne aap se poochho: "Kya main game ko control karta hun, ya game mujhe control karta hai?"

Har Addiction Ki Ek Nishani Hoti Hai Aaj bohot se naujawan kehte hain: "Main koi nasha nahin karta, sirf game khelta hun." Lekin ek sawal ka sach sach jawab do.

Agar aaj tumhara mobile ya game ek hafte ke liye le liya jaye... Kya tum pursukoon rahoge? Ya gussa, bechaini aur chidchidahat mehsoos hogi?

Agar kisi cheez ke baghair tum apne jazbaat par qaboo na rakh sako, to samajh lo ke woh cheez tumhari aadat se badh kar tumhari zanjeer ban chuki hai.

Yaad rakho: Momin ka dil Allah ka banda hota hai, kisi screen ka nahin.

Game Tumhara Khadim Ho, Malik Nahin Socho... Ek badshah ke paas bohot taqatwar ghora hai. Jab chahe us par sawar ho aur jab chahe usay baandh de. Is surat mein malik kaun hai? Badshah.

Lekin agar ghora badshah ko ghaseetta phire aur woh usay rok hi na sake, to asal hukoomat kis ki hui?

Game bhi aisa hi hai. Agar tum jab chaho game band kar sako, to tum malik ho. Lekin agar har roz game tumhein bula le aur tum inkar hi na kar sako, to phir tum us ke ghulam ban chuke ho.

Sirf Game Kam Mat Karo, Maqsad Bara Banao Gaming addiction sirf is liye paida nahin hoti ke game dilchasp hai, balki is liye bhi hoti hai ke zindagi mein koi bara maqsad nahin hota.

Jis naujawan ke paas mission ho: Ilm hasil karna, Quran yaad karna, Fitness banana, ya koi hunar seekhna, woh dheere dheere game ka waqt khud kam kar deta hai.

Is liye sirf game chhodne ki koshish mat karo, apni zindagi ko kisi qeemti maqsad se bhar do.

Aaj tum 17 saal ke ho. Yeh umar dobara kabhi wapas nahin aayegi. Aaj jo ghante tum screen par guzar rahe ho, wahi ghante kal tumhara ilm, tumhari sehat, tumhara career aur tumhari akhirat bana sakte hain.

Rasulullah ﷺ ne farmaya:

"Do ne'matein aisi hain jin mein bohot se log khasare mein rehte hain: sehat aur farigh waqt."
(Sahih Bukhari)

Yaad rakho... Game ka agla level tumhein hamesha mil jayega, lekin zindagi ka guzar chuka waqt kabhi wapas nahin aayega.

Is liye apni zindagi ko screen ke score se nahin, Allah ki raza aur apne maqsad se joro.

🌼 Aaj Ki Youth Tip "Jab koi game tumhari namaz, padhai aur khwabon se bara ho jaye, to game nahin, apni zindagi ka nizam badalne ki zarurat hoti hai."

Action Today Aaj ek chhota lekin mazboot faisla karo:
1. Rozana gaming ka waqt 30 minute kam kar do.
2. Us aadhe ghante ko Quran, exercise, mutala'ah ya koi naya skill seekhne mein lagao.

Phir Allah se dil se yeh dua karo:

"Ae Allah! Mere waqt mein barkat ata farma, mere nafs ko apni ita'at ka aadi bana aur mujhe har us cheez se bacha jo mere deen, meri taleem aur mere mustaqbil ko nuqsan pahunchaye. Aameen."

Ek Naujawan Ka Sawal
Main 21 saal ka hun. Har waqt kisi na kisi baat ki fikr rehti hai. Kabhi padhai ka dabao, kabhi mustaqbil ki pareshani, kabhi ghar ke halaat aur kabhi dusron se apna muqabla. Zahir mein sab kuch theek lagta hai, lekin dil hamesha bojhal rehta hai. Mujhe samajh nahin aata ke mere andar yeh stress kyun khatam nahin hota. Main kya karun?

Jawab Mere Azeez Naujawan! Sab se pehle ek baat samajh lo: Har stress is baat ki nishani nahin hota ke tum kamzor ho. Kabhi kabhi yeh is baat ki alamat hota hai ke tum apni taqat se zyada bojh uthaye hue ho.

Lekin yaad rakho... Allah ne tumhein har bojh akelay uthane ke liye nahin, balkeh Us par tawakkul karne ke liye paida kiya hai.

Har Fikr Tumhari Zimmedari Nahin Bohot se naujawan un baaton ki bhi fikr karte rehte hain jo un ke ikhtiyar mein hi nahin:
• "Agar main fail ho gaya to?"
• "Agar mujhe achhi job na mili to?"
• "Log mere baare mein kya sochenge?"

Aisi fikrein insaan ko aaj se nikal kar us kal mein le jati hain jo abhi aaya hi nahin.

Allah Ta'ala farmate hain:

"Aur jo Allah par bharosa kare, to Woh us ke liye kaafi hai."
(Surah At-Talaq: 3)

Momin mehnat karta hai, dua karta hai, aur phir natijah Allah ke hawale kar deta hai.

Apne Dil Ko Har Bojh Mat Uthao Socho... Tum safar par ja rahe ho aur tumhare bag mein sirf utna samaan hai jitna tum aaram se utha sakte ho. Lekin raste mein har shakhs apna samaan bhi tumhare bag mein daalne lage. Kuch der baad chalna kitna mushkil ho jayega?

Stress bhi aksar aisa hi hota hai. Hum apni zimmedariyon ke saath saath:
• Logon ki rai...
• Social media ka muqabla...
• Maazi ki ghaltiyan...
• Aur mustaqbil ke andeshay...

bhi apne dil mein utha lete hain. Phir dil thak jata hai.

Apni Zindagi Mein Nizam Lao Bohot dafa stress sirf masail ki wajah se nahin hota, balkeh be-tarteeb zindagi bhi us ka sabab ban jati hai:
• Der tak jagna.
• Har waqt mobile istemal karna.
• Namaz mein ghaflat.
• Kam neend aur exercise na karna.
• Har waqt dusron ki zindagi dekhna...

Yeh sab mil kar dil ko aur zyada bojhal bana dete hain. Is liye apni zindagi mein chhoti chhoti tabdeeliyan lao: Namaz ki pabandi, munazzam routine, munasib neend, roz thodi exercise, aur har din kuch waqt Quran ke saath.

Ho sakta hai tumhare masail foran khatam na hon, lekin unhein bardasht karne ki taqat zaroor badh jayegi.

Allah Ke Qareeb Sukoon Hai Tum poori duniya ko control nahin kar sakte, lekin tum yeh zaroor tay kar sakte ho ke tumhara dil kis ke sahare jeeyega. Agar dil sirf halaat par tikka ho, to har tabdeeli use hila degi. Lekin agar dil Allah par tikka ho, to sakht se sakht halaat mein bhi umeed zinda rehti hai.

Rasulullah ﷺ jab kisi mushkil ka saamna karte to namaz ki taraf mutawajjah hote. Yani momin pareshani se bhaagta nahin, apne Rab ke saamne khara ho jata hai.

Mere azeez bhai! Yaad rakho... Tumhein poori zindagi ka bojh ek hi din mein nahin uthana. Tumhein sirf aaj ka farz ada karna hai. Kal ka rizq, kal ki kamyabi, aur kal ki pareshani... Allah ke hawale kar do.

Yaqeen rakho... Jis dil mein tawakkul aa jata hai, us ka stress hamesha ke liye khatam to nahin hota, lekin woh us stress ka ghulam bhi nahin rehta.

🌼 Aaj Ki Youth Tip "Har din ko sirf ek din samajh kar jiyo. Aaj ki mehnat tumhari zimmedari hai, kal ka natijah Allah ki zimmedari hai."

Action Today Aaj raat sone se pehle ek kagaz par do list likho:
1. Pehli: Jo baatein mere ikhtiyar mein hain.
2. Doosri: Jo sirf Allah ke ikhtiyar mein hain.

Pehli list par mehnat shuru karo aur doosri list Allah ke hawale kar do.

Phir do rakat namaz padh kar yeh dua karo:

"Ae Allah! Mere dil se be-ja fikr door farma, mujhe apne faislon par razi rehne ki taufeeq de aur mere seene ko apni yaad se sukoon ata farma. Aameen."

Ek Naujawan Ka Sawal
Main 19 saal ka hun. Mujhe har waqt ek ajeeb si bechaini rehti hai. Kabhi dil tez dharakne lagta hai, kabhi lagta hai ke mere saath kuch bura hone wala hai. Chhoti chhoti baatein bhi mujhe bohot pareshan kar deti hain. Main namaz bhi padhta hun, dua bhi karta hun, lekin phir bhi yeh kaifiyat baar baar aa jati hai. Kya main kabhi is bechaini se nikal sakta hun?

Jawab Mere Azeez Naujawan! Sab se pehle ek baat apne dil mein bitha lo: Anxiety ka matlab yeh nahin ke tumhara imaan kamzor hai.

Kabhi kabhi insaan ka dil aur dimagh zyada fikr, dabao ya doosre asbaab ki wajah se is kaifiyat se guzarte hain. Ek momin bhi is aazmaish se guzar sakta hai.

Asal baat yeh nahin ke aazmaish kyun aayi, asal baat yeh hai ke is aazmaish mein tum Allah ka daman kaise thamte ho.

Har Khayal Haqeeqat Nahin Hota Anxiety ki sab se badi chaal yeh hai ke woh har andeshe ko yaqini haqeeqat bana kar pesh karti hai. Woh kehti hai: "Zaroor kuch bura hone wala hai."

Lekin haqeeqat yeh hai ke aksar jis cheez se hum darte hain, woh kabhi hoti hi nahin.

Allah Ta'ala farmate hain:

"Shaytan tumhein tangdasti se darata hai aur be-hayai ka hukm deta hai, jabke Allah tum se apni maghfirat aur fazl ka wada karta hai."
(Surah Al-Baqarah: 268)

Momin apne andeshon par nahin... Allah ke wadon par yaqeen rakhta hai.

Yeh Kaifiyat Hai, Tumhari Pehchan Nahin Socho... Jab aasman par kale badal aa jate hain, to kya suraj hamesha ke liye ghaib ho jata hai? Nahin. Badal aate hain aur guzar jate hain, suraj apni jagah rehta hai.

Isi tarah anxiety ke khayalat bhi badalon ki tarah hain:
• Woh aate hain...
• Kuch der rehte hain...
• Aur phir chale jate hain.

Yaad rakho: Tum anxiety nahin ho. Tum woh insaan ho jo is kaifiyat ka saamna kar raha hai. Yeh tumhari taqdeer nahin, yeh ek guzarnay wali aazmaish hai.

Madad Lena Kamzori Nahin Hai Bohot se naujawan apni bechaini ko chupate rehte hain. Natijah yeh hota hai ke woh aur zyada badh jati hai:
• Apne kisi bharosemand walid, ustad ya samajhdar shakhs se baat karo.
• Apni neend behtar banao.
• Roz kuch der walk ya exercise karo.
• Namaz aur subah shaam ke azkar ki pabandi karo.

Aur agar anxiety itni zyada ho ke tumhari padhai, neend ya rozmarrah ki zindagi mutasir ho rahi ho, to kisi qabil aur bharosemand mental health professional ya psychiatrist se mashwarah karne mein hichkichana nahin chahiye.

Yeh imaan ki kamzori nahin. Yeh zimmedari ke saath apni sehat ka khayal rakhna hai.

Mere azeez bhai! Jab bhi bechaini aaye, apne aap se yeh mat kaho: "Main khatam ho gaya hun." Balkeh yeh kaho: "Yeh ek kaifiyat hai. Allah ke hukm se yeh bhi guzar jayegi."

Rasulullah ﷺ bhi pareshani ke waqt Allah se dua karte aur Us ki panah talab karte the. Yeh humein sikhata hai ke imaan ka matlab yeh nahin ke insaan kabhi pareshan na ho, balkeh yeh hai ke pareshani mein bhi apne Rab ki taraf rujoo kare.

Yaad rakho... Anxiety tumhein yeh mehsoos karati hai ke tum akelay ho. Imaan tumhein yaad dilata hai ke Allah har lamha tumhare saath hai.

🌼 Aaj Ki Youth Tip "Har dar sach nahin hota, lekin Allah ka wada hamesha sach hota hai. Apne khauf se zyada apne Rab par yaqeen mazboot banao."

Action Today Aaj jab bhi bechaini mehsoos ho, foran yeh teen kaam karo:
1. Gehri aur aahista saans lo.
2. "Hasbiyallahu wa ni'mal wakeel" chand martaba padh kar us ke ma'ni par ghaur karo.
3. Agar yeh kaifiyat baar baar aa rahi hai aur padhai, neend ya rozmarrah ki zindagi ko mutasir kar rahi hai, to kisi bharosemand buzurg ke saath saath ek mustanad mental health professional se bhi mashwarah karo.

Phir Allah se yeh dua karo:

"Ae Allah! Mere dil ko sukoon ata farma, mere khauf ko itminan mein badal de aur mujhe har haal mein Tujh par bharosa karne wala bana de. Aameen."

Ek Naujawan Ka Sawal
Main 18 saal ka hun. Mujhe lagta hai ke mere walidain mujhe samajhte hi nahin. Woh meri har baat par tanqeed karte hain, meri raaye ko ahmiyat nahin dete aur har waqt dusron se mera muqabla karte rehte hain. Kabhi kabhi dil karta hai ke un se baat hi na karun. Main un se muhabbat bhi karta hun, lekin hamare darmiyan fasle barhte ja rahe hain. Main kya karun?

Jawab Mere Azeez Naujawan! Sab se pehle ek baat yaad rakho: Yeh mumkin hai ke tumhare walidain tumhein poori tarah na samajh pa rahe hon, lekin iska yeh matlab nahin ke woh tum se muhabbat nahin karte.

Bohot se walidain muhabbat ka izhar karna nahin jaante. Woh fikr ki zaban bolte hain... jabke tum muhabbat aur samajh ki zaban sunna chahte ho. Is liye kabhi kabhi un ka lehjah sakht hota hai, lekin dil tumhari bhalai hi chahta hai.

Har Nasl Ki Soch Mukhtalif Hoti Hai Tumhari duniya social media, college aur tez raftaar zindagi ki hai. Tumhare walidain ek bilkul mukhtalif daur mein bade hue. Un ke tajurbe alag hain, un ke khauf alag hain.

Isi liye kabhi woh zyada rok tok karte hain, kabhi har baat par mashwarah dete hain, aur kabhi tumhari baat mukammal sune baghair hi faisla kar lete hain.

Yeh tareeqah hamesha durust nahin hota, lekin aksar is ke peeche fikr hoti hai, nafrat nahin.

Allah Ne Humein Kya Sikhaya? Allah Ta'ala farmate hain:

"Aur duniya ke maamlaat mein un ke saath bhale tareeqe se zindagi guzaro."
(Surah Luqman: 15)

Ghaur karo... Allah ne yeh nahin farmaya ke sirf us waqt ihsan karo jab walidain tumhari har baat samjhein, balkeh har haal mein husn-e-akhlaq aur ehtram ki taleem di.

Yeh aasaan nahin hota... lekin yahi momin ka raasta hai.

Kisi Ek Ko Pehla Qadam Uthana Hota Hai Socho... Do kinaron ke darmiyan dariya ho aur koi pul na ho, kya dono kinare kabhi mil sakte hain? Ghar mein bhi kabhi walidain ek kinare par hote hain aur aulaad doosre kinare par. Pul kisi ek ko banana padta hai.

Agar tum hamesha yeh intezar karte rahoge ke pehle Ammi ya Abbu badlein, to shayad intezar lamba ho jaye. Lekin agar tum sukoon ke saath, ehtram se aur munasib waqt par apne dil ki baat karoge, to aksar dil narm hone lagte hain.

Ilzam dene ke bajaye apna ehsaas bayan karo. Misal ke taur par yeh kaho: "Abbu, mujhe aap se ek baat dil ki karni hai. Main chahta hun ke aap pehle meri baat poori sun len."

Kabhi kabhi sirf itni si baat bhi rishte badal deti hai.

Mere azeez bhai! Ho sakta hai tumhare walidain kamil na hon, aur ek din tumhein bhi ehsaas hoga ke tum khud bhi kamil nahin ho. Is liye dil mein shikayat aa jaye to aa sakti hai, lekin usay nafrat mein mat badalne do.

Yaad rakho... Jo ghar baat cheet chhod deta hai, wahan fasle barh jate hain. Aur jo ghar ehtram ke saath guftagu jari rakhta hai, wahan toote hue rishte bhi dobarah jud jate hain.

Allah se umeed rakho aur apni taraf se ihsan aur adab ka daman kabhi mat chhodo.

🌼 Aaj Ki Youth Tip "Har ikhtilaf dushmani nahin hota. Kabhi kabhi walidain ka andaaz ghalat hota hai, lekin un ki niyyat tumhari bhalai hi hoti hai."

Action Today Aaj apne walidain mein se kisi ek ke saath sirf 10 minute sukoon se baitho.
1. Shikayat shuru karne se pehle un ka shukriya ada karo.
2. Phir apne dil ki ek baat adab aur narmi ke saath bayan karo, baghair awaaz buland kiye aur baghair ilzam lagaye.

Phir Allah se yeh dua karo:

"Ae Allah! Mere aur mere walidain ke dilon mein muhabbat, samajh aur rahmat paida farma. Hamari ghaltiyon ko maaf farma aur hamare ghar ko sukoon aur barkat ka ghar bana de. Aameen."

Ek Naujawan Ka Sawal
Main 16 saal ka hun. Jab bhi kitab kholta hun, chand minute baad dil uktane lagta hai. Mobile, games aur social media foran apni taraf kheench lete hain. Imtihan qareeb hain. Walidain aur ustad bhi baar baar samjhate hain, lekin mera padhai mein dil hi nahin lagta. Mujhe darr hai ke kahin mera mustaqbil kharab na ho jaye. Main kya karun?

Jawab Mere Azeez Naujawan! Sab se pehle ek baat samajh lo: Padhai mein dil na lagna is baat ki daleel nahin ke tum nakam ho.

Aksar iska matlab yeh hota hai ke tumhara dimagh aasaan aur foran milne wali tafreeh ka aadi ho chuka hai. Mobile, Reels, Games... Yeh sab chand second mein dimagh ko lutf dete hain. Lekin ilm sabr, tawajjuh aur mehnat mangta hai.

Is liye masla sirf padhai ka nahin, aadaton ka bhi hai.

Dil Baad Mein Lagta Hai, Shuruaat Pehle Hoti Hai Bohot se students kehte hain: "Jab dil karega tab padhunga." Lekin kamyab log aisa nahin sochte. Woh kehte hain: "Main padhunga, phir dheere dheere dil bhi lagne lagega."

Allah Ta'ala farmate hain:

"Aur insaan ke liye wahi hai jis ki us ne koshish ki."
(Surah An-Najm: 39)

Allah ne kamyabi ko jazbe ke saath nahin, koshish ke saath jora hai.

Roz Ki Chhoti Mehnat, Bari Kamyabi Ban Jati Hai Socho... Ek kisan roz apne khet mein jata hai. Kabhi garmi hoti hai, kabhi thakan, kabhi barish. Lekin woh roz beej bota hai aur pani deta hai. Chand mahine baad wahi khet hariyali se bhar jata hai.

Padhai bhi aisi hi hai. Aaj ka ek ghanta shayad foran natijah na de, lekin yahi ghante kal tumhari kamyabi ki bunyaad banenge.

Motivation Se Zyada Discipline Zaroori Hai Agar waqai padhai mein behtari chahte ho to apna nizam badlo:
• Mobile ko padhai ki jagah se door rakho.
• Sirf 25 ya 30 minute ek hi subject par tawajjuh do.
• Phir 5 minute ka break lo.
• Har roz ek chhota target rakho.
• Aur raat der tak mobile istemal karne ki aadat kam karo.

Yaad rakho: Discipline woh kaam kar deta hai jo sirf motivation kabhi nahin kar sakti.

Ilm Sirf Career Nahin, Ibadat Bhi Hai Mere azeez bhai! Padhai sirf achhi job ke liye nahin. Ilm Allah ki bohot badi ne'mat hai.

Rasulullah ﷺ ne farmaya:

"Jo shakhs ilm hasil karne ke raste par chalta hai, Allah us ke liye Jannat ka rasta aasaan kar dete hain."
(Sahih Muslim)

Jab tum niyyat karte ho ke main ilm hasil karke Allah ko razi karunga, apne walidain ka sahara banunga aur logon ke liye faidahmand insaan banunga, to padhai sirf kitab ka bojh nahin rehti. Woh ibadat ban jati hai.

Mere azeez bhai! Apne mustaqbil ko sirf aaj ke mood ke hawale mat karo. Aaj tum jo safha padhoge, kal wahi tumhari kamyabi ka hissa banega. Aur jo aaj sirf mobile par guzar jayega, woh kal sirf afsos ban kar reh jayega.

Yaad rakho... Jis naujawan ko apni manzil saaf nazar aa jaye, us ke liye aaj ki mehnat bojh nahin, investment ban jati hai.

🌼 Aaj Ki Youth Tip "Padhai shuru karne ke liye motivation ka intezar mat karo. Sirf shuruaat karo, aksar motivation raste mein paida hoti hai."

Action Today Aaj sirf ek faisla karo:
1. Mobile ko apni study table se door rakh do.
2. 30 minute ka ek study session shuru karo aur us dauran sirf ek hi subject par tawajjuh do.

Padhai shuru karne se pehle yeh dua padho:

"رَبِّ زِدْنِي عِلْمًا"
"Ae mere Rab! Mere ilm mein izafah farma."

Phir Allah par bharosa rakhte hue roz thodi thodi mehnat jari rakho. In shaa Allah, aaj ki yeh aadat hi kal tumhari kamyabi banegi.

Ek Naujawan Ka Sawal
Main barahwin jamaat mein hun. Har shakhs mujhe alag mashwarah deta hai. Koi kehta hai Engineering karo, koi Medicine ka mashwarah deta hai, koi Government Job ki tayari karne ko kehta hai aur koi Business ki taraf jane ka mashwarah deta hai. Main khud bhi bohot confused hun. Mujhe samajh nahin aata ke apne liye sahi career kaise muntakhib karun, taake kuch saal baad mujhe apne faisle par pachtawa na ho. Main kya karun?

Jawab Mere Azeez Naujawan! Sab se pehle ek baat samajh lo: Career sirf rozgar ka intekhab nahin, balkeh zindagi ki ek badi zimmedari ka intekhab hai.

Tum apni zindagi ke kai saal kisi field ko seekhne mein lagaoge. Phir usi field mein apna waqt, mehnat aur salahiyatein istemal karoge. Is liye career ka faisla sirf is bunyaad par nahin hona chahiye ke kis profession mein zyada salary hai ya log kis career ko zyada izzat dete hain.

Sahi sawal yeh hai: Allah ne mujhe kin salahiyaton ke saath paida kiya hai aur main unhein kis halal aur faidahmand kaam mein istemal kar sakta hun?

Dusron Ki Manzil Tumhari Manzil Nahin Aaj bohot se students apne doston ko dekh kar career chunte hain. Dost Engineering kar raha hai, to woh bhi Engineering mein admission le lete hain. Kisi rishtedar ka beta doctor ban gaya, to ghar wale har bachche ko doctor banana chahte hain. Social media par kisi ko Business mein kamyab dekha, to lagta hai ke bas Business hi sab se behtar raasta hai.

Lekin yaad rakho: Kisi aur ki kamyabi ka raasta zaroori nahin ke tumhare liye bhi munasib ho. Allah ne har insan ko ek jaisi salahiyat nahin di:
• Kisi ko samjhane aur padhane ki salahiyat milti hai.
• Kisi ko numbers aur technology samajhne ka hunar milta hai.
• Kisi ko tib aur insani jism mein dilchaspi hoti hai.
• Kisi ke andar tijarat, leadership ya creativity ki salahiyat hoti hai.

Is liye apni zindagi ka faisla dusron ko dekh kar mat karo.

Har Darakht Apni Fitrat Ke Mutabiq Phal Deta Hai Socho... Ek aam ka darakht hai. Agar tum us se yeh umeed rakho ke woh seb paida kare, to kya yeh mumkin hoga? Hargiz nahin. Aam ka darakht apni fitrat ke mutabiq aam hi paida karega.

Isi tarah har naujawan ki fitrat, salahiyat, mizaj aur dilchaspi mukhtalif hoti hai:
• Koi bohot intelligent ho sakta hai, lekin use logon se baat karna pasand na ho.
• Koi average marks lata hai, lekin us ke andar zabardast business sense hota hai.
• Koi science mein kamzor ho sakta hai, lekin teaching, writing, designing ya management mein behtareen ho.

Apni salahiyat ko pehchane baghair career chunna, aam ke darakht se seb ki umeed rakhne jaisa hai.

Career Chunte Waqt Chaar Baaton Par Ghaur Karo Career ka faisla karte waqt sirf dilchaspi dekhna bhi kaafi nahin. Kabhi kisi kaam mein dilchaspi hoti hai, lekin us ke liye zaroori salahiyat ya sabr nahin hota. Isi tarah sirf salahiyat bhi kaafi nahin, kyunki ho sakta hai us field mein tumhara dil bilkul na lage.

Is liye chaar baaton ko ek saath dekho:

1. Meri Salahiyat Kya Hai?
Kin subjects mein tum achha perform karte ho? Log kis kaam mein tumhari tareef karte hain? Tum problems solve karne, likhne, samjhane, manage karne, design karne ya logon ki madad karne mein kis had tak achhe ho?

2. Meri Dilchaspi Kis Mein Hai?
Kaun sa kaam tum thakan ke bawajood kar sakte ho? Kaun sa subject tumhein sirf exam ke liye nahin, samajhne ke liye bhi pasand hai? Lekin yaad rakho, sirf temporary excitement ko asli dilchaspi mat samjho.

3. Is Field Mein Halal Rozgar Ke Mauqe Kya Hain?
Career aisa ho jis mein halal kamai, taraqqi aur izzat ke munasib mauqe hon. Field ki demand, study ka kharcha, duration aur job opportunities ko bhi samajhna zaroori hai.

4. Main Logon Ke Liye Kya Faida Paida Kar Sakta Hun?
Behtareen career woh hai jis mein tum paisa kamane ke saath logon ke liye bhi khair aur faide ka sabab bano:
• Doctor bimaron ka ilaj karta hai.
• Teacher naslein banata hai.
• Engineer masail ka hal nikalta hai.
• Tajir rozgar ke mauqe paida karta hai.

Har halal profession ibadat ban sakta hai, jab niyyat durust aur kaam imandari se kiya jaye.

Sirf Salary Ko Faisla Mat Banao Zyada salary achhi cheez hai. Islam tumhein ghurbat ya nakaami ki taraf nahin bulata. Lekin sirf salary dekh kar career chunna bhi durust nahin.

Agar tumhare paas paisa ho, lekin tum har roz apne kaam se nafrat karo, to zindagi bojh ban sakti hai. Aur agar kisi field mein tumhari dilchaspi ho, lekin us mein rozgar ka koi wazeh raasta hi na ho, to baad mein mushkil paida ho sakti hai.

Is liye career mein teen cheezon ka tawazun zaroori hai: Salahiyat, dilchaspi aur rozgar ke mauqe. In teenon ke saath deen aur halal kamai ko bhi lazmi rakho.

Mashwarah Lo, Lekin Faisla Samajh Kar Karo Walidain aur teachers ka tajurba tum se zyada hota hai. Un ki baat ko nazarandaz mat karo. Lekin sirf is liye koi field mat chuno ke ghar walon ne keh diya hai. Unhein apni salahiyat, interest aur concerns adab ke saath samjhao.

Us field mein kaam karne wale logon se baat karo. Un se poochho:
• Is career ki asal zimmedariyan kya hain?
• Is mein kamyabi ke liye kin salahiyaton ki zarurat hai?
• Study kitni mushkil aur kitni mehngi hai?
• Rozgar aur taraqqi ke haqeeqi mauqe kya hain?

Kabhi career ka naam bohot khoobsurat lagta hai, lekin us ki rozmarrah zindagi bilkul mukhtalif hoti hai. Is liye faisla tasavvur par nahin, haqeeqi maloomat par karo.

Mere azeez bhai! Yeh mat poochho: "Duniya ka sab se bada career kaun sa hai?"
Balkeh yeh poochho: "Main kis career mein Allah ki raza ke saath apni behtareen salahiyat istemal kar sakta hun?"

Allah Ta'ala farmate hain:

"Aur har ek ke liye us ke a'maal ke mutabiq darajat hain."
(Surah Al-An'am: 132)

Sahi career woh nahin jis ka sirf naam bada ho. Sahi career woh hai jis mein:
• Tumhari salahiyat istemal ho,
• Tumhara rizq halal ho,
• Tumhara kirdar mehfooz rahe, aur
• Tum logon ke liye faidahmand bano.

Ek mukhlis teacher, imandar engineer, mahir doctor, kamyab tajir aur zimmedar government officer—sab Allah ke nazdeek qeemti ho sakte hain, jab un ki niyyat achhi aur kaam imandari ke saath ho.

🌼 Aaj Ki Youth Tip "Career chunne se pehle khud ko pehchano. Jo shakhs apni salahiyat nahin pehchanta, woh aksar dusron ke khwab poore karte karte apni zindagi guzar deta hai."

Action Today Aaj ek kagaz par yeh chaar sawal likho:
1. Meri teen badi salahiyatein kya hain?
2. Mujhe kis kaam mein haqeeqi dilchaspi mehsoos hoti hai?
3. Main das saal baad khud ko kis khidmat mein dekhna chahta hun?
4. Is career ke zariye main Allah ki raza aur logon ka faida kaise hasil kar sakta hun?

Phir kam az kam teen mumkin careers ki list banao. Har career ke saamne us ki taleem, kharcha, duration, job opportunities aur tumhari suitability likho.

Apne walidain, bharosemand teachers aur us field ke tajurbakar afrad se mashwarah karo. Phir Allah se dua aur istikharah karke faisla karo. Yaad rakho, istikharah mehnat aur tahqiq ka badal nahin, balkeh tahqiq aur mashware ke baad Allah se khair talab karna hai.

Phir Allah se yeh dua karo:

"Ae Allah! Mere liye woh raasta muntakhib farma jo mere deen, duniya aur aakhirat ke liye behtar ho. Mujhe halal rizq, faidahmand ilm aur apni salahiyaton ko sahi jagah istemal karne ki taufeeq ata farma. Aameen."

Ek Naujawan Ka Sawal
Main 20 saal ka hun. Main padh bhi raha hun aur apne mustaqbil ke baare mein bhi sochta hun, lekin ek sawal hamesha mere zehan mein aata hai ke aakhir meri zindagi ka maqsad kya hai? Kya sirf achhi job, achha ghar aur achhi salary hasil karna hi kamyabi hai? Ya ek Muslim naujawan ka is se bhi bada koi Vision hona chahiye?

Jawab Mere Azeez Naujawan! Agar tumhein sirf ek jumla yaad rakhna ho to yeh yaad rakho: Jis insaan ke paas Vision nahin hota, woh dusron ke khwab poore karte karte apni poori zindagi guzar deta hai.

Aaj bohot se naujawanon se poochho: “Tum zindagi mein kya banna chahte ho?”
Jawab milega: “Doctor”, “Engineer”, “Businessman”.

Lekin agar poochho: “Tum yeh sab ban kar karna kya chahte ho?”
To aksar khamoshi chha jati hai. Kyunki unhon ne Profession to chuna hota hai, lekin Purpose nahin.

Zindagi Ka Asal Vision Kya Hai? Islam hamein sikhata hai ke hamara sab se bada Vision sirf kamyab insaan banna nahin, balkeh Allah ka pasandeeda banda banna hai.

Allah Ta‘ala farmate hain:

“Main ne jinnat aur insaanon ko sirf apni ibadat ke liye paida kiya hai.”
(Surah Az-Zariyat: 56)

Yeh ayat sirf namaz aur roze ki baat nahin karti. Is ka matlab yeh hai ke tumhari poori zindagi Allah ki raza ke liye ho. Tum Doctor bano ya Engineer, Teacher bano ya Tajir, Scientist bano ya Government Employee... har maidan mein tumhara maqsad yeh ho:

“Main Allah ko razi karte hue insaniyat ke liye faidahmand banun.”

Qutub Numa Ke Baghair Jahaz Farz karo ek bohot bada jahaz samandar mein nikal jaye. Us ke paas behtareen engine ho, bohot zyada indhan ho, mahir captain bhi maujood ho. Lekin agar us ke paas qutub numa (Compass) na ho to kya hoga? Woh chalta to rahega, lekin sahi manzil tak nahin pahunch sakega.

Zindagi bhi aisi hi hai. Mehnat, degree aur paisa engine hain, lekin Vision qutub numa hai. Agar simt hi na ho to tez raftari bhi insaan ko manzil tak nahin pahuncha sakti.

Profession Nahin, Purpose Bhi Chuno Taleem aur tarbiyat ke maidan mein naujawanon se guftagu karte hue main ne mehsoos kiya hai ke jo naujawan sirf imtihan pass karne ke liye padhte hain, un ki mehnat jaldi thak jati hai.

Lekin jin naujawanon ne apne dil mein yeh Vision banaya:
• “Main apne ilm se Ummat ko faidah pahunchaunga.”
• “Main apne walidain ke liye sadaqah-e-jariyah banunga.”
• “Main apne shobay mein diyanat aur ikhlas ki misaal banunga.”

Un ki mehnat mein istiqamat bhi aayi aur zindagi mein itminan bhi.

Jab maqsad sirf salary ho to insaan jaldi thak jata hai. Lekin jab maqsad Allah ki raza ho to mehnat ibadat ban jati hai.

Aisa Vision Banao Jo Maut Ke Baad Bhi Zinda Rahe Aisa Vision banao jo tumhari maut ke baad bhi zinda rahe. Sirf yeh khwab mat dekho ke log tumhein kamyab kahen, balkeh yeh khwab dekho ke Qiyamat ke din Allah tum se razi ho.

Rasulullah ﷺ ne farmaya:

“Logon mein sab se behtar woh hai jo logon ko sab se zyada faidah pahunchaaye.”
(Tabarani - Hasan)

Is liye apni zindagi ka Vision sirf yeh na rakho: “Main kya banunga?”
Balkeh yeh banao: “Main Allah ki raza ke liye duniya mein kya asar chhod kar jaunga?”

Mere azeez bhai! Achhi job hasil karna ghalat nahin, achha ghar banana ghalat nahin, halal maal kamana bhi ghalat nahin. Lekin agar zindagi ka maqsad sirf paisa, ghar aur duniya ki kamyabi ban jaye, to insaan bohot kuch hasil karke bhi andar se khaali reh sakta hai.

Ek Muslim naujawan ka Vision duniya aur Aakhirat dono ko saath lekar chalna chahiye. Us ka Vision yeh ho:

“Main Allah ka farmabardar banda banunga, apni salahiyaton ko behtareen tareeqe se istemal karunga, apne walidain aur Ummat ke liye faidahmand banunga aur duniya se aisa amal chhod kar jaunga jo maut ke baad bhi mere liye sawab ka sabab bane.”

Yaad rakho: Jis naujawan ka Vision Aakhirat ho, Allah us ki duniya ke maamlaat ko bhi sanwar deta hai.

🌼 Aaj Ki Youth Tip "Apna Career apne halal rizq ke liye muntakhib karo, lekin apna Vision apni Aakhirat ke liye muntakhib karo."

Action Today Aaj ek kagaz par yeh jumla likho:
“Agar main aaj se das saal baad apne Rab ke saamne khara hun, to main chahta hun ke meri zindagi kis cheez ke liye yaad ki jaye?”

1. Is sawal ka jawab likho.
2. Phir usi ke mutabiq apne: Ilm, Ibadat, Kirdar, Career, Walidain ki khidmat, aur Ummat ke faide ke liye saalana aur mahana ahdaf banao.

Phir Allah se yeh dua karo:

“Ae Allah! Mujhe aisi zindagi ata farma jo Teri raza ke liye ho. Mujhe aisa Vision ata farma jo mujhe duniya mein bhi faidah de aur Aakhirat mein bhi kamyab kare. Aameen.”

Ek Naujawan Ka Sawal
Main 19 saal ka hun. Jab bhi Ummat-e-Muslimah ke halaat dekhta hun to dil dukhta hai. Kahin wars chal rahi hain, kahin ghurbat hai, kahin jahalat hai, aur kahin Muslim youth deen se door hoti ja rahi hai. Main sochta hun ke main to sirf ek ordinary student hun. Mere paas na zyada paisa hai, na koi position, na koi fame. Kya waqai main Ummat ke liye kuch kar sakta hun, ya yeh kaam sirf bade Ulama, leaders aur rich logon ka hai?

Jawab Mere Azeez Naujawan! Sab se pehle ek baat apne dil mein bitha lo: Allah Ta'ala Ummat ki khidmat ke liye sirf bade logon ko nahin, balkeh sincere logon ko chunta hai.

Shaytan ki sab se badi tricks mein se ek yeh hai ke woh tumhein mehsoos karata hai:
• "Tum abhi bohot chhote ho."
• "Tumhare paas kuch nahin hai."
• "Tum se kya farq padega?"

Lekin yaad rakho... History ki badi tabdeeliyan aksar ek sincere insan se hi shuru hui hain.

Apne Aap Ko Kabhi Chhota Mat Samjho Agar umar hi kamyabi ki shart hoti to Hazrat Ali (RA) jawani mein Islam qabool na karte. Hazrat Usamah bin Zaid (RA) itni kam umar mein Muslim army ke commander na bante. Hazrat Abdullah bin Abbas (RA) jawani mein "Tarjuman-ul-Quran" na kehlate.

Islam ki history hamein sikhati hai ke Allah tumhari age nahin dekhta, Allah tumhara ikhlas, mehnat aur niyyat dekhta hai.

Is liye yeh mat socho: "Main to sirf ek student hun."
Balkeh yeh socho: "Main aaj se Ummat ka ek responsible member hun."

Ummat Ki Khidmat Sirf Stage Ya Mic Se Nahin Hoti Bohot se youth samajhte hain ke Ummat ki khidmat ka matlab sirf bayan karna ya scholar banna hai. Yeh soch mukammal nahin. Ummah ko har field mein sincere logon ki zarurat hai:
• Ek honest doctor bhi Ummat ki khidmat karta hai.
• Ek sincere teacher bhi Ummat ki khidmat karta hai.
• Ek trustworthy businessman bhi Ummat ki khidmat karta hai.
• Ek ethical software engineer bhi Ummat ki khidmat karta hai.
• Ek researcher, journalist, social worker... aur ek achha student bhi Ummat ki khidmat kar sakta hai.

Tum jis profession mein bhi jao, agar Allah ki raza ke liye kaam karoge to woh bhi Ummat ki khidmat ban jayega.

Ek Chhoti Candle Bhi Andhera Kam Kar Deti Hai Socho... Ek bohot bada hall andhere mein dooba hua hai. Agar koi sirf ek candle jala de, to kya poora andhera foran khatam ho jayega? Nahin. Lekin kya hall pehle jaisa andhera rahega? Bilkul nahin. Ek chhoti si roshni bhi andhere ko kam karna shuru kar deti hai.

Tum bhi shayad poori duniya na badal sako... Lekin tum:
• Ek dost ko namaz ki taraf la sakte ho.
• Ek bachche ko Quran sikha sakte ho.
• Ek needy family ki madad kar sakte ho.
• Ek useful Islamic book gift kar sakte ho.
• Ek beneficial post social media par share kar sakte ho.
• Ek achha character dikha kar Islam ki khoobsurti logon tak pahuncha sakte ho.

Allah ke nazdeek chhote sincere actions bhi bohot bade hote hain.

Change Ki Shuruaat Khud Se Karo Taleem aur tarbiyat ke maidan mein youth ke saath kaam karte hue maine ek baat bohot dafa dekhi hai. Bohot se naujawan poori Ummat ko badalne ki baat karte hain, lekin apni namaz, apna akhlaq, apna mobile use, aur apna time management... in cheezon par tawajjuh nahin dete.

Jo shakhs khud ko nahin badal sakta, woh doosron ko bhi zyada der tak nahin badal sakta. Ummat ki khidmat ka pehla step yeh hai ke tum khud Allah ke achhe bande bano. Phir apne ghar ko behtar banao, phir apne friends par positive influence dalo, aur phir dheere dheere apna impact barhate jao.

Mere azeez bhai! Yeh mat poochho: "Ummat mere liye kya karegi?"
Balkeh yeh poochho: "Main Ummat ke liye kya karunga?"

Rasulullah ﷺ ne farmaya:

"Allah apne bande ki madad karta rehta hai jab tak banda apne bhai ki madad mein laga rehta hai."
(Sahih Muslim)

Qiyamat ke din Allah tum se yeh nahin poochega ke tum ne poori duniya kyun nahin badal di. Lekin yeh zaroor poochega: "Main ne tumhein jo ilm, waqt, sehat aur salahiyat di thi, tum ne us se meri Ummat ke liye kya kiya?"

Is liye aaj hi faisla karo... Sirf successful mat bano, useful bano. Sirf apne liye mat jiyo... Allah ki raza ke liye logon ki zindagi mein khair aur benefit ka sabab bano.

🌼 Aaj Ki Youth Tip "Ummah ko tumhare status ki nahin, tumhare sincere efforts ki zarurat hai. Chhote chhote good deeds mil kar badi tabdeeli laate hain."

Action Today Aaj ek notebook lo aur likho:
"Main apni age, skills aur time ke hisab se Ummat ke liye kaun se 5 kaam kar sakta hun?"

Phir un mein se sirf ek action aaj hi shuru kar do. Jaise:
1. Kisi ko Quran padhana.
2. Kisi dost ko namaz ki dawat dena.
3. Kisi needy student ki help karna.
4. Roz ek beneficial Islamic post share karna.
5. Ya har hafte kisi ek insaan ke liye koi khamosh khair ka kaam karna.

Phir Allah se yeh dua karo:

"Ae Allah! Mujhe apni Ummat ke liye khair, hidayat aur faidah ka zariya bana. Mere ilm, mere waqt aur meri salahiyaton mein barkat ata farma aur meri zindagi ko apne deen ki khidmat ke liye qabool farma. Aameen."

Ek Naujawan Ka Sawal
Main 22 saal ka hun. Mere ghar wale meri shadi ki baat kar rahe hain. Main bhi shadi karna chahta hun, lekin mujhe darr lagta hai ke kahin main ek achha husband na ban paun. Mujhe samajh nahin aata ke shadi se pehle mujhe kis cheez ki tayari karni chahiye. Kya sirf paisa kamana aur job hona hi kafi hai, ya mujhe apni shakhsiyat aur deen par bhi kaam karna chahiye?

Jawab Mere Azeez Naujawan! Sab se pehle ek baat yaad rakho: Shadi sirf do logon ka milan nahin, balkeh do zimmedariyon ka aaghaz hai.

Bohot se naujawan shadi ki tayari sirf kapron, function, ghar ya paison ki surat mein karte hain. Lekin asal sawal yeh hai:
Kya tum ek achhe husband banne ki tayari kar rahe ho?

Nikah ka contract ek din mein hota hai... Lekin achha shohar banne ki tayari salon mein hoti hai.

Sab Se Pehle Apna Rab Se Rishta Mazboot Karo Jis shakhs ka Allah ke saath rishta kamzor ho, us ka logon ke saath rishta bhi aksar kamzor ho jata hai. Namaz ki pabandi, Quran se ta'alluq, dua aur gunahon se bachne ki koshish... Yeh sirf tumhari akhirat nahin banate, balkeh tumhari shadi ko bhi barkat dete hain.

Yaad rakho... Jo Allah ke huqooq ka khayal rakhta hai, woh bandon ke huqooq bhi behtar ada karta hai.

Akhlaq Aur Character Sab Se Badi Daulat Hai Khoobsurti waqt ke saath badal sakti hai. Maal kam ya zyada ho sakta hai. Lekin achha akhlaq har roz ghar ko jannat bana sakta hai.

Apne gusse par qaboo paana seekho. Narmi se baat karna seekho. Maaf karna seekho. Sunna seekho. Respect dena seekho.

Rasulullah ﷺ ne farmaya:

"Tum mein sab se behtar woh hai jo apne ghar walon ke liye sab se behtar ho."
(Jami' At-Tirmidhi)

Socho... Agar tum office mein sab ke saath achhe ho, lekin apni biwi ke saath sakht mizaj ho, to asal kamyabi kahan hai?

Sirf Paisa Nahin, Zimmedari Bhi Zaroori Hai Paisa zaroor ahmiyat rakhta hai. Islam ne shohar ko nafqah ki zimmedari di hai. Lekin sirf salary achha husband nahin banati. Biwi ko sirf khana aur kapre nahin chahiye hote... Usay izzat, muhabbat, ehsaas, waqt aur emotional support bhi chahiye hota hai.

Is liye shadi se pehle earning ke saath saath responsibility bhi seekho.

Shadi Khushi Nahin, Partnership Hai Bohot se naujawan samajhte hain ke shadi ke baad un ki har khwahish poori ho jayegi. Lekin asal mein shadi sirf apne haq lene ka naam nahin, shadi apni zimmedari nibhaane ka naam hai.

Har baat mein jeetna zaroori nahin. Kabhi maafi maangna bhi zaroori hota hai, kabhi compromise karna bhi, aur kabhi doosre ki baat samajhna bhi.

Jis ghar mein dono sirf apne huqooq maangte rehte hain, wahan mohabbat kamzor pad jati hai. Aur jis ghar mein dono ek doosre ke huqooq ada karte hain, wahan sakoon utarta hai.

Mere azeez bhai! Yeh mat socho: "Mujhe kaisi biwi milegi?"
Is se pehle yeh socho: "Main kaisa shohar banunga?"

Agar tum khud Allah ke achhe bande ban gaye, apna akhlaq behtar kar liya, zimmedari uthana seekh li, aur halal rizq ki koshish ki... To In shaa Allah tumhari shadi sirf ek function nahin, balkeh barkat bhari zindagi ka aaghaz hogi.

Yaad rakho: Achhi shadi achha life partner dhoondhne se pehle, khud achha life partner banne se shuru hoti hai.

🌼 Aaj Ki Youth Tip "Shadi ki tayari sirf paisa jama karne se nahin hoti, apni shakhsiyat, akhlaq aur Allah ke saath ta'alluq ko behtar banane se hoti hai."

Action Today Aaj ek notebook mein yeh chaar sawal likho:
1. Kya main namaz ka paband hun?
2. Kya mujhe gusse par qaboo paana aata hai?
3. Kya main halal rizq kamane ki tayari kar raha hun?
4. Agar aaj meri shadi ho jaye, to kya meri hone wali biwi mere akhlaq se mutmain hogi?

Jin sawalon ka jawab "Nahin" ho, un par aaj se kaam shuru kar do.

Phir Allah se yeh dua karo:

"Ae Allah! Mujhe deen, akhlaq aur zimmedari ke aitibar se behtareen shohar bana. Mujhe halal rizq ata farma, meri nigahon aur dil ki hifazat farma, aur meri aane wali zindagi ko mohabbat, rahmat aur barkat se bhar de. Aameen."